Family & Relationships - 17 September 2007

i have been wit my bf for 2yrs and right now we are broken up... and plan on getting back wit eachother ((thats wat we say but who knows..))... anyways i was listenin to a radio station and they said that the first signs is when he starts checkin ur cell...
well my bf has been checkin my cell for a very long time now.. and i still visit him even when were broken up, and still is constantly checkin txt and calls...!!!! could this b a sign of something else??? wat do u think?

2007-09-17 11:42:50 · 15 answers · asked by jj 1 in Singles & Dating

We got him a lawyer and wants to get divorced before he gets out. She's kind of crazy and has not answered the lawyers letters. She lives in IL and the lawyer says that if she does not reply there is nothing that can be done until he gets out. Is there anyway he can get divorced if she doesn't reply. They have a child together and he of course the lawyer has included the necessary for my brother to pay child support as soon has he gets out. As far as visitation the lawyer has it set to where they can agree to the dates, etc... The have no assets to split. There is nothing for her to contest. She just wants to make his life a bigger hell and not let him free. We know she has moved on and has a "boyfriend" (it's funny what you learn on myspace, lol) Anyway what can he do if she doesn't reply?

2007-09-17 11:42:27 · 4 answers · asked by el_al_or 3 in Marriage & Divorce

im wasting my points on this but well my girlfriend dumped me but i loved her like i would if i had a child or something
im in middle school but still she was my first true love and well she dumped me for some guy she doesnt like is she trying to make me jealous or something i mean we like the same shows colors and everything i mean well i want to get over it but the girls arent my type i mean i like girls with long hair and braces (especially if they have braces) because im not a shallow boy

2007-09-17 11:42:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I will be marrying him and it is my concern because I pay the bills in this household. I am not against him taking care of his children, all of the money I can use I use on the kids as well.
He never intended to get behind but that's life. He will gladly pay up, but he would like to be able to continue working in order to do so.
And the other question was just plainly put why does the court blindly let a lazy women take the money out of good WORKING men's wallets? These women obviously don't care enough about their own children to get off of their *** and work.

I'm sorry to all of the ladies who think its too difficult but I know PLENTY of women raising children as single mothers and working as well. Lazy isn't a disability.


And WHY do the courts so often make things so the man has a big financial responsibility and hardly gets to see his children?

Once again, not against him taking care of his kids but upset he's the only on doing it.

2007-09-17 11:38:12 · 16 answers · asked by AlmostAnon 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So i like this shy guy and he found out through a friend but apparently he hasnt mentioned it to his other friends so maybe he thought my friend was lying?? anyway he likes me as a friend enough and sometimes i get the feeling he may like me back bc he sometimes gets awkward, always says hi and seems happy to talk to me, one time he brushed me lightly on the shoulders etc. but hes such a nice guy i dont wanna jump on the wagon just quite yet so my ? is is there any way I can show him Im def. interested without saying I like you out loud because hes shy with relationships I think thatd scare him

2007-09-17 11:36:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Some commercials say you can text in to find out your true love, is it accurate?

2007-09-17 11:35:10 · 1 answers · asked by tayscott95 1 in Singles & Dating

For me, I'm looking for somebody like my dad. I know that sounds freaky but it's true, I guess it's a maternal thing, My dad has been great and I need to provide for the next generation kinda thing. God, I sound so boring!!

But I mean, Masculine, strong, not afraid, there to protect. Confident, Loving, fun, Feisty God, I love men so much!! There are so many other things though!

What are yours?

2007-09-17 11:33:59 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I can't take the lies and upset any more. I am disabled and have given this man my check for the last 5 years. His past wife NEVER worked and NEVER paid for a thing. My husband got us into huge debt because of income tax and he never bothered to leave money for me if he should die. He just doesn't care. He only wants me around because he cannot afford to live in the state we do without my money. He is constantly angry and never interested in me, even though I am model gorgeous. I am fed up. What do I do? I cannot afford to live on my own. We have only been married 3 yrs no honeymoon. I don't have the energy to stick it out for 2 more years. This man is worse than my father who is 3 yrs older. I hate him and hate what he has done to us financially. I thought I could expect more from a Policeman. What to do? PLEASE HELP ME. I don't have children he had 3 one died, so he has 2 and a grandson. Hasn't anyone heard of birthcontrol? Who has children in their late 50s?

2007-09-17 11:28:14 · 7 answers · asked by MaggieMae 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend takes a very long time to *** even tho he is turned on.he says he has always been like it but it is causing a few probs as we have kids so dont always have time or are 2 tired to go for ages .by the way we are very happy in our relationship and it has always been this way. any tips??!!!

2007-09-17 11:27:17 · 29 answers · asked by phoebetazz 1 in Singles & Dating

my partner and i have been married 3 months & we r both seriously thinking of having a 3rd person 2 fulfill both r sexual desires.any offers?

2007-09-17 11:23:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

all the boys and girls soccer players hang out in the soccer coach's room in the morning.
there's a guy i like who i have talked to a few times and he is really nice.
what do i do to kind of get his attention? i'm hoping he'll ask me to the homecoming dance.

thanks...

2007-09-17 11:22:38 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really need to know if this guy is flirting with me

2007-09-17 11:22:07 · 14 answers · asked by boxofjoy 2 in Singles & Dating

So in class right, I am sitting in my desk minding my own business listening to the teacher, and I glance up across the room and this hot girl is staring at me, I dont even know her and I am not popular and really dont have any friends, I am attractive, but what does she want from me I always catch her staring at me?

2007-09-17 11:21:54 · 16 answers · asked by John 2 in Singles & Dating

I need to raise money for my wedding and this is the only way I can think of without borrowing or loaning money. I actually have two rings, one is a gold solitaire engagement ring and the other one is a 3-stone diamong ring. The solitaire ring looks new as I haven't used it too long. I bought it a year ago just for investment.

My wedding is in three weeks and hopefully somebody can help me out. Either buy the ring or an advice as to what I can do. I tried pawning it but it was so low. Thank you in advance.

2007-09-17 11:21:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I really don't understand why i'm a magnet for man-whores. if there's a man-whore, he'll like me. it's very annoying because usually i end up being upset about them. i don't think i give off a vibe that attracts man-whores....i don't act slutty and i'm not stupid.....so why do they think they can fool me?? what is it about me that makes them feel so....so........"welcome." It's not like I flirt with them or give off any wrong messages. so why me? it's never the nice guys that like me, it's always the man-whores. i think i have a nice enough personality to attract the nice guys but apparently not...

2007-09-17 11:19:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-17 11:13:44 · 7 answers · asked by Lou L 1 in Family

people in my class are talking about my family and how i am not rich and this girl wants to fight me!i am not scared to fight her but i dont want to get supended beacause i want an education even though she doesnt!i dont want her to ruin my life!please help me!thanks!!

2007-09-17 11:12:48 · 64 answers · asked by crawleypaula 2 in Friends

A guy that I thought was interested in me and that I've been on like five dates with had the nerve to email me today to say that he was looking for that "special someone" to settle down and the dating scene in our area sucks.

He then proceeded to ask if I knew of any churches in our neighborhood that had a singles ministry he could join. W...T...F...

Am I overracting? I mean, it's fine if you're not interested in me, but then you come to me for f*cking dating advice?!

2007-09-17 11:11:35 · 1 answers · asked by Ica_Jess 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-17 11:11:33 · 10 answers · asked by Joshua l 1 in Family

2007-09-17 11:10:28 · 9 answers · asked by Stripper 3 in Singles & Dating

doesn't the veil represent her virginal purity and youth? I think veils are so beautiful but also think it seems passe but would like to know what some other ladies in their 30's think.

2007-09-17 11:10:19 · 20 answers · asked by s.delia 2 in Weddings

2007-09-17 11:09:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've been in a relationship for 7 years and throughout the majority of it my husband and i faught. he was always so angry and said it was because of his childhood,which was a bit disturbing, but i stook by him and tried to help. he was abusive and very condecending, but i always thought that he would get better, which he did a lot, but now i'm wonderig if he's changed enough for me and i'm not sure if i'm willing to wait another seven years for him to improve even more. we have two beautiful children and i am worried about seperating but i don't know if i'm as strong as i once was to deal with this any longer. he's the breadwinner in the family and he always give us what we need and anything that we want. we live in a wonderful neighbourhood and we are pretty well off, but we haven't always been well off like this, that's why i don't think i would miss any of this. i'm not ungrateful i just feel so confused and depressed. any advice would help, but please only serious answers. thx

2007-09-17 11:07:43 · 11 answers · asked by divineangelbullard 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do family members find it easier to help friends than their own family members? And then come back to you (the family member who they didn't help) and ask for help because the same friends that they helped aren't able to come through for them.

2007-09-17 11:07:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

is he using me? ive posted questions about this guy i work with, and asked if he liked me, and most answers i got were, "he's using you". so, is he? he always flirts with me, when he thinks im not looking i can see him staring at me. he tries to get me jealous by saying that he was taking to "hot babes" all day. when he sees that i just ignore him, he says "im just playing, you kno ur the only girl i like." he's always calling me names, in a flirt way, and teases me. i sometimes flirt back. we've exchanged phone numbers. im always texting him, asking him how his day was, he never txt's back. when i call him, to talk to him, he just says, "im busy, i got to go'. so, im guessing he doesnt like me, but sometimes it seems that he does. so wats the deal, he's never asked me out, but he's aways firting with me. so...is he using me?

2007-09-17 11:04:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is really nice and somehow, says I know nothing... he and his friends at my school r going around 2 some random girls and asking "will you go out with me?" and seriously, I dont give a crap about it. sooooooo annoying.

So right when he asked, I said... "No" right in his face. omg, i feel regretful. now, he's prolly going 2 tell da whole school that. he already told all of his friends. Uhhh. what can i do?

p.s.~ I'm not really even his friend. just saying. he just goes up and asks me. he doesn't really know my name either.


facts: i'm in 7th grade. a little 2 young 4 luv or rejections???

plz answer! thnx. ♥

2007-09-17 11:03:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughter is getting married next month. Today is the deadline for RSVP's to come in (don't even ask about how many are here - that's a whole other story!).

This weekend, I get an RSVP from someone whose name I don't recognize. When I got here to the office, I checked the file, and sure enough, this guy isn't on the list. No biggie, I figure he's somebody's significant other...he did, after all, RSVP for two, and my guess was that the invitation was mailed to the girlfriend.

When I asked my daughter about it, neither she nor her fiance know anyone by this name (first and/or last).

No return address. Local postmark. No one in the book with that last name.

My current thought is that one of the invitations went to the wrong address, and he's looking forward to a free meal. I'm thinking he must be fairly clever, and I might enjoy meeting him...He'll probably sit in the back of the room, though, with the kids.

What would you do in the same situation?

2007-09-17 11:01:06 · 13 answers · asked by abfabmom1 7 in Weddings

so i have to find some flowers for my wedding cake because the woman making it doesnt do gum paste flowers. ugh. so i try to order some from this website site called wilton.com. well, they were discontinued. i didnt know that. does ANYBODY know of a website i can find wedding cake floral decorations for my cake?? i really need to find some quick.

2007-09-17 11:00:10 · 14 answers · asked by Mollie E 1 in Weddings

what does mean a joint proposal with someone initiating it?

2007-09-17 10:56:27 · 1 answers · asked by jay 1 in Weddings

okay so my boyfriend and I live in a nice gated apartment so i would assume the people that live here are well off and nice. Last month my boyfriend was at the local skatepark which is small and one of our apartment neighbors was there skating as well with his wife. After a while my bf and him started talking and they relized that we all lived in the same apartment. Our apartment is made up with several different big buildings and our building is across from theres.

okay so the other couple is about 8 years older then us. ( we are 21) and while talking with them we also find out they 'smoke the herb' as do we. they want us to come over and watch a movie or bbq with them, however I am nervous they will want to smoke first, which I am not an openly smoker.

We were ignoring them at first, but I decided to say HI when I saw them outside a while ago so they wouldnt think we were rude ppl. Now i feel pressured to go hang out with them or something. am i just being anti social or what?

2007-09-17 10:55:42 · 9 answers · asked by HersheyKissy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships