people in my class are talking about my family and how i am not rich and this girl wants to fight me!i am not scared to fight her but i dont want to get supended beacause i want an education even though she doesnt!i dont want her to ruin my life!please help me!thanks!!
2007-09-17 11:12:48 · 64 answers · asked by crawleypaula 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Report her to the school officials. Do it in front of witnesses and have witnesses of her threats. If the School does not do something about her then you can sue the school for failure to provide a safe environment! Tell your mom and get her on her side. Call the cops and make a report. They will tell you that she can not do anything however if you have witness of the threats tell him/her that you wish to press charges for assault (threatening violence)!
2007-09-17 11:23:11 · answer #1 · answered by Coasty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're in a rough old school.
Unfortunately its a hard situation because you need to find a way to fit-in or else change schools.
Fighting won't help but perhaps you could change your situation around.
You don't have to be rich to be wealthy!
You don't state your age. Perhaps you could look for a part time job somewhere to at least give you some extra money to perhaps change your appearance like with buying your own clothes etc. At least if you're dressed the part they at least can't knock you for that.
Your family may not be rich, but everyone cant be rich.
You have to make the best of it and get a good education so you can improve your life in the future.
2007-09-17 11:32:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that. She most likely doesn't really want to fight you. Probably just talk and show. She's obviously insecure about something and feels the need to take it out on you because she feels like she has power over you. She doesn't. You're probably smarter than her. Use that to your advantage and take the high road. Don't let the people in your class get to you. If you stick close to your friends and family, and not let it bother you, you'll come out on top in the end.
2007-09-17 11:24:47 · answer #3 · answered by Keith S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she makes a direct threat to you, it needs to be reported. If you fight her you may both get suspended. In the end, your education is all that matters. Ignore the rude comments from some of the kids in your class. They are shallow and focus on the wrong thing. Just remember, this too shall pass.
2007-09-17 11:20:42 · answer #4 · answered by Cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know just how you feel. There's this annoying idiot who is unsurprisingly a boy. Ugh! He was like "What the hell is the Boston Tea Party?"
Never mind about that. : )
But why does this girl want to fight you? And why is she (or you) provoked? Try to reason out with her.
Don't use swear words, it just makes you look stupid because you can't make good comeback.
You should talk to someone you trust like a teacher, parent, counsler, etc.
If something is wrong then you should break the silence.
2007-09-17 11:25:53 · answer #5 · answered by Sina C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants to fight you because you're not rich? Thats retarded! So what? You don't have alot of money. Alot of people don't. I don't! Tell your parents just in case you do get in a fight and let them know it was only self defence before the fight. They may be more understanding and may go after the school. Don't be anybody's punching bag!
2007-09-17 11:22:12 · answer #6 · answered by jezebel625 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most people would say the this would be a punk move but you do what ever it is you have to. If you have to change classes, or go to the teachers or Principal you do it don't let that little girl mess up furthering your education. But if she push you push back protect yourself!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Let them say what they want their going to any ways don't let lies, rumors, or whatever run your life. You have your head in the right place on top of your neck were it belongs...but like I said before if she push you better push back don't be no door mat. Take care of Number one!!! Don't give no body the satisfaction by giving them a bad reaction!!!
2007-09-17 11:20:35 · answer #7 · answered by YasMeen01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you i'd just TRY my best to ignore the snotty comments. and this girl thats threating to fight you or she wants to would've done it by now, maybe you should talk to your parents about it, ur not bein a snitch but if worst comes to worst you have to get a grown up involved and gettin suspended wont ruin ur edjucation at all, you'll just have to suffer the consequences for fighting back which could be a good thing. and if people want to say stuff about ur family who they dont know then just stand up for yourself and tell tem to screw off. so jus try to stay away from the problem (avoid it) but remember if the girl wants to fight or starts to fight back.
2007-09-17 11:23:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find a teacher or counselor at school that YOU can trust & make them aware of the situation. It's in your best interest to do this !! Trust me on this!! I was in your shoes once when I changed from a private school to a public school!!! Don't try & take this girl on your own. This girl has issues that run deeper than you or she's been listening to her families prejudices too much & not forming her opinion of people. Seek help from a teacher or someone in authority at school ASAP!!!
2007-09-17 11:21:12 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Shrug it off. I was tease from middle school up into late junior high because I was poor, ugly (I had acne), and heavyset. Now I'm none of those (except perhaps ugly. Got rid of the acne, of course, but still can't get a date to save my life. Not that I'm looking! lol).
2) DON'T FIGHT THE LITTLE B*TCH! It'll only hurt you. If she ever gets on your nerves, invite her to a secret place where no one but you two will be there (make sure she doesn't bring friends). Then whoop her little @$$.
3) Talk to your counselor. That's what they're there for!
Good luck!
2007-09-17 11:21:35 · answer #10 · answered by tarathilien 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋