im wasting my points on this but well my girlfriend dumped me but i loved her like i would if i had a child or something
im in middle school but still she was my first true love and well she dumped me for some guy she doesnt like is she trying to make me jealous or something i mean we like the same shows colors and everything i mean well i want to get over it but the girls arent my type i mean i like girls with long hair and braces (especially if they have braces) because im not a shallow boy
2007-09-17 11:42:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i said i like girls with long hair and braces
2007-09-17 12:28:03 · update #1
Join the middle school band or some other school activity to meet other girls. Not intentionally, but to broaden your horizons. There will be SO many girls before the end of your school year, your heart will mend. That first one is a tough one though. YOU WILL RECOVER, but you need to stop wasting your points and reread all the great answers you received in all your questions.
2007-09-17 11:56:08 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥JDub♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first heart break is always the hardest and the one you'll probably remember the rest of your life, unless you find a way to "get over it"!! Even when you become an older adult if and when someone breaks your heart it will feel almost exactly as it feels for you right now.
It's been my experience everyone experiences a broken heart at some time or another, boys, girls , men and women.
The best way to get beyond a broken heart is two things.
#1........Write your feelings about the experience, as they are your feelings and you need to vent them in a way no one will be judgmental about and where you can look at them objectively in a few days, weeks, months or years.
That way you can learn from your experience.
#2........Do something physical and keep your self busy.
Volunteer your services to help someone else, as that will get you out of that room in your head where you are feeling sorry for yourself. Do some sports, take a walk, get together with friends, ride a bike, swim play ball or do something. Just do not, not, not allow yourself to sit and wallow in your misery for any longer than 10 minutes.
If you had a relationship for a month, it should take you no longer than a month to get over it. If it was a year, then it should take no more than a year to get over it.
However, do you honestly want to sit alone and wallow in misery and self-pity for a year, or even a month just because someone was not able to appreciate what a terrific human being you are???
Just chalk it up to experience and be glad you can move on with your life and meet a young woman who will appreciate you and all your great qualities.
Eventually you'll get over the pain and be a better person for it.
Remember that which does not kill us only makes us stronger. You'll understand that better in about 20 years from now.
2007-09-17 12:22:53 · answer #2 · answered by Martinibeanie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this might not help but we all have been where you are and we got through it,it's not that we want to but we had to what else were we going to do. I remember in the 10 grade i really really liked this guy a lot i would stay on the bus longer then i had to just to be around him mind you he didn't know i liked him. When he got off the bus i had to walk home about a mile away by myself. The following year we were in the same home room class and i could not believe it,we started dating and it was great then all of a sudden he stopped talking to me i was so heart broken,come to find out my so called best friend went behind my back and started going out with him. I guess he really didn't like me at all and was justi was something to do until someone better came along. To see them make out was so hurtful and they act like it was no big deal to do that in front of me. Even though this was many years ago i still sometimes think of him not her and wonder what he is doing right now.You will get past this with help from other girls you just need to go talk to them. If you like girls with braces then you should go talk to them because you better believe you have more nerve then she does because her braces..
2007-09-17 12:14:58 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first true love always hurts the most. Give it some time and you'll get over it. You're young, don't be too down cause you'll have lots more gf before you settle down. But first graduate school, make lots of money then marry a hot younger woman.
2007-09-17 11:51:25 · answer #4 · answered by Pieter Beernaert 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know this is what happens when your in middle school just wait till your in high school you will have your pick of girls i dont hink your shallow i think you fell for the girl you thought would be there for the long hall and she had diffrent idea's your life is just really starting put it down to experience and learn by it dont go rushing in u will know when miss wright comes along and dont be to wuick in thinking the next girl will do the same as every girl is diffrent good luck son with everything in the future
2007-09-17 11:55:29 · answer #5 · answered by Richard G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you are only in middle school! It's not the end of your life.You'll be in love a thousand times before you find the real true love of your life. Find you a new girl to get intrested in .Being in middle school there are plenty of young ladies wearing braces.So get over her!
2007-09-25 10:27:08 · answer #6 · answered by mousey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself some time to get over her, and then move on. I know it seems awful right now, but someday you'll look back at this and smile. Move on after you grieve a while, but not too long. You'll have lots of girlfriends before you find your real true love.
2007-09-25 09:55:55 · answer #7 · answered by Teresa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look you have many girls in your life trust me that was not your true love thta was called something thinking for something eles be a player dont fall for there traps its like base ball wait for the right pitch then go for the home run dont let her see you still stuck on her find yourself some other girl and let that trick see you having fun and then she will regret that she left you
2007-09-25 11:50:19 · answer #8 · answered by prince18102 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to stop seeing/talking/having contact with her completely. Otherwise it will much harder and painful.
Paint, listen to non-dispressing music, cry if you need to, talk with others (mom, your friends, someone who listens what you have to say) and think about other stuff.
Don't jump to another girl cause you'll probably hurt her by not giving yourself entirely to that person, you wont be ready still.
It might take a little while but it's worthwile. You'll get over it.
2007-09-25 11:52:57 · answer #9 · answered by bloodymary24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your friends and forget about her. wait till high school every one will have their braces off by then and they wont be too ugly for your shallow mind. dude it's what their like, not what they look like
2007-09-17 11:47:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋