doesn't the veil represent her virginal purity and youth? I think veils are so beautiful but also think it seems passe but would like to know what some other ladies in their 30's think.
2007-09-17 11:10:19 · 20 answers · asked by s.delia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I am getting married next year, I am in my 30's, I have 2 kids (so I am definately not a virgin) (ha-ha) and I am wearing a veil. Weddings in this age and time really don't go by traditions that were made back in the day anymore. Traditions are like fazes, they change with the times. If you notice, now you are seeing more wedding dresses with color in them. If our ancestors where alive they would drop dead. So think of that. So many things are changing now when it comes to weddings. And this is a good thing because who wants to go to a cookie cutter wedding. Make your wedding day the way you want it. If you want to wear a veil wear it...because if you don't you will wish you had. This is you and your hubby to be's day...have no regrets. Think of it this way when you walk down the isle you are giving yourself to your fiance and you are starting a brand new life, so in a sense you will be "pure" for your husband. Because after you say " I do" everything with him is new and fresh, from that moment your new life begins. So wear your veil in honor of your new pure life as husband and wife. I think as a bride to be you understand where I am coming from...But trust me no one is going to think any different of you if you wear one. I think it would be more talk if you don't. My cousin just got married 2 weeks ago, she is in her 40's and she wore a veil. And get this I have a co-worker and she is getting married in November and she is wearing a black wedding dress!!!!
So on that note...WEAR THE VEIL!!! CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR NUPTIALS!!
2007-09-17 11:43:48 · answer #1 · answered by sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know where you are coming from ~ I am 34 (will be 35 when I am married) and don't know for sure if I want a veil. I don't know why, but it seems like something for younger brides.
I don't have a *problem* w/older brides wearing a veil, nor do I think it is strange when they do. The great thing about them is that women always look beautiful in them.
But when I try one on ~ I don't know. Somehow, I feel too old to wear it? It's probably just my craziness, though =)
2007-09-17 18:39:29 · answer #2 · answered by march_hare_in_june 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really doesn't matter how old the bride is, traditionally it may have symbolized purity and youth but now it is really just a nice tradition. If you would like to wear a veil then wear it. I've seen much older brides wear a veil and it doesn't look strange at all.
Good luck!
2007-09-17 20:21:00 · answer #3 · answered by Reba 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 30 and I got married a month ago. I wore the veil over my face through out the ceremony and it was perfect! The dramatic effect of your new husband lifting the veil to kiss you was just awesome!!!! I say it's your wedding and do whatever it is that will make you happy!
2007-09-17 19:08:36 · answer #4 · answered by crzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to wear a veil....then wear one. Gone are the days that the "white" stood for purity and virginity. Everyone is married in white now!
2007-09-17 20:06:11 · answer #5 · answered by iloveweddings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not, it's just a veil, no one reads into it. I'm in my 30s and wearing a veil.
2007-09-17 18:17:32 · answer #6 · answered by Peace 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is completely up to you. This is your day. Besides, most people don't pay attention to what most of the traditional bridal things represented anyway. People wear white who aren't virgins. If it makes you feel good, do it. No one is going to be gossiping behind your back that you are way to old wear that. If anything, they will only be paying attention to how beautiful you look that day. Congrats and good luck!
2007-09-17 20:00:04 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will be 36 when i get married next year for the 2nd time and i am wearing a veil with a blusher, i don't think it matters anymore. i will be taking it off at the reception though.
2007-09-18 10:37:17 · answer #8 · answered by nytengayle13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in my 30s and I'm wearing a veil. I think pretty much whatever you want is acceptable. It is your wedding.
2007-09-17 18:16:47 · answer #9 · answered by clg1975 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, not at all. I was 28, and just wore my veil back. It all depends on what matches your gown, as well. You could always just wear some sort of hairpiece or flowers.
2007-09-18 07:25:00 · answer #10 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋