my boyfriend takes a very long time to *** even tho he is turned on.he says he has always been like it but it is causing a few probs as we have kids so dont always have time or are 2 tired to go for ages .by the way we are very happy in our relationship and it has always been this way. any tips??!!!
2007-09-17 11:27:17 · 29 answers · asked by phoebetazz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow! that guy that said your ugly is ugly!
Anyway, how old is your boyfriend?
1. Seriously: is he smoking something or using drugs?
or it could be a side effect of a medication prescribed
2. does he masterbate?? because if he cums before making love to you, it can take a longer time to ejaculate
3. he could have an enlarged prostate
4. if 1 and 2 are not it, please have him go to the doctor because there could be something wrong internally.
5. good luck!
6. this is all from personal experience, and i know how it is, one time, we went forever, i was so dry at the end! it sucked.
ADD ON
oh yeah,
if he holds his *** in too long, it'll take longer to ejaculate.
2007-09-17 11:34:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
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2014-09-13 11:04:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To the clown above 'bassguitar' your answer shows me what little experience u must have in all areas of life,anyway enough, you're purposely being a fool so u should be ignored.Why would u want to hurt someone's feelings? I'd like to lay a few digs on you.
Now re the problem,there are many reasons this could be...tiredness, stress, worry...and some people take longer than others.
I thought women got upset when its over too fast.
Maybe he could talk to a doc?
Good luck
2007-09-17 11:34:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-21 19:06:42 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is that according to the females I know is that you should be grateful as many of us males are a little premature when it comes to ejaculation. Haven't any idea of your ages but trust me eventually this will happen with him also and then you'll be missing the good old days.
2007-09-17 11:32:27 · answer #5 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are seeing a problem that isn't there.
Why is it that women can have one orgasm a decade but men have to 'come' every half hour?
Men slow down as they get older and as they learn to savour their relationships. This can be spoilt by insensitivity.
You have two choices...learn to protect and nurture your mans love for you....or if you are too tired and pressured....irritate him until he gives up on your relationship and then blame him.
2007-09-17 11:34:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Enjoy the time you have with each other. Sex doesn't always have to end in the big "O". You could try more foreplay, but that's not always convenient with kids around.
2007-09-17 11:34:05 · answer #7 · answered by Just Shandi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl i find that a good thing but you should always try different postions sumtimes if guys are too tired this is what my boyfriends says or he has dranked a couple beers it stalls it for some reason
2007-09-17 11:33:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. I can keep my wife waiting for a long time (sometimes 2hrs) before I finish.
We know what you're going through.
I think the key is lots and lots and lots of foreplay - IF you have the time...
2007-09-17 11:30:43 · answer #9 · answered by Just some guy 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Is he taking anti - depressants or any other medications?
This could be a related issue.
Often Rx'es are related to these types of issues.
2007-09-17 11:31:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋