is it wrong 4 a newlywed couple 2 want another person share in their sex life?

Question

my partner and i have been married 3 months & we r both seriously thinking of having a 3rd person 2 fulfill both r sexual desires.any offers?

Answer 1

Cute, I see were this marriage is going... good luck with that, sex causes powerful feelings to happen and brings out the insecurities, shortcommings, and hang-ups in an individual so unless your both perfect (hahahhahahah)yea good luck with that. Also your bring something thats suppose to be "love making" into whats known as pride screwing territory, chances are to make you guys feel better about yourself as human beings, because your over compensate for your lack of personal pride by treating it with social pride. This well eventually esclate because sex isn't what you guys need, its purpose, but sex is a good distration for awhile from that. Just remember me a few years (if your lucky) down the line when one of you finally realize that your never going to satisfy the other and have to breck the relationship off because the one who realizes it doesn't feel loved anymore. So in other words you both are talking this into sexual dysfunction territory becaue you've never gotten closes enough to another individual to make love OR your perfectly attuentude to your emotions and feelings,combind with having such a great realtionship thats based on unconditional love, and if thats true, I'd atleast like to met the both of you ;-) and I'm glad to be wrong, but I don't think thats the case because THEN you wouldn't be on here reaching out to strangers.... funny how this stuff works......