how to catch his eye? (easy 10 points here guys come on...)?

Question

all the boys and girls soccer players hang out in the soccer coach's room in the morning.
there's a guy i like who i have talked to a few times and he is really nice.
what do i do to kind of get his attention? i'm hoping he'll ask me to the homecoming dance.

thanks...

also, i first started talking to him at the back to school dance, and we talkedo n the phone once, but then after we didn't see eachother much anymore it sort of fizzled out...
and i don't think he likes me anymore
after 10 minutes of talking at the dance, he liked me. how hard can it be?


i want to start it again though.

Answer 1

well you kind of already got his attention by talking to him a few times..so just talk some more and ask him some things like if hes seen so and so movie, just have a conversation with him, ask him if he's going to homecoming. and if he says yes and then he might ask you 'are you going?' then say: well i don't know, i have no body to go with..just sound bumed out and then ask, are you going with anyone? ......and if not, ask him if he wants to go but just as friends :) hey this might work but if you don't want to do this then do whatever you feel is right...good luck!

Answer 2

First, wear your favorite outfit and do your hair and makeup how you like it best, because if you think you look good, then it'll show and you'll be more confident. Then, just try talking to him. Try being funny or charming. If you can't think of anything funny, then just say whats up, or ask him a question about something he's wearing, ect. Make sure to smile alot, and make eye contact. Look at him and catch his eye, then look away, then glance back. Make sure to be the first one to walk away too, so he is left wanting more. Just try talking to him everyday, and leave a good impression. After awhile, maybe he'll ask you. You could also try having some of your friends talk to his, to find out if he's taking anyone to the dance, and maybe they could drop some hints. Good luck!

Answer 3

Well there's good ways to get his attention and bad ways. The obvious ways are to show some cleavage or wear short skirts. I don't recommend this route though.

I did a study a while back on olfactory response, and the top two answers for males when asked what their favourite scents are were fresh-baked bread, and washed female hair. Go buy some Herbal Essences or some nice-smelling shampoo, and when standing near him, pull your hair out of a pony tail or throw it behind your shoulders or something. Smell is really powerful, scientifically speaking.

Bright colors, additional height (tall shoes), and a well-supporting bra are also suspected to generate primal attraction. Again, I don't recommend using the revealing of extra skin as a mechanism to gain his attention.

Good luck!

Answer 4

Make eye contact with him and hold it for a second or two before looking away and 'blushing' , smiling 'shyly'!!
Its what men and women have being doing since time began.

Catch his eye and smile.If he has ANYsense he'll cop on to what you're at!
Be a bit cheeky with him.
If all that fails get one of your friends to talk to him or one of his friends....

ah yes, those were the daze!

ps can I have 10 points?!

Answer 5

Cookie girl just go over approach him and attempt to stike up a decent conversation. If you are both into soccer then try and open up with a line about Beckham or someone else that is pretty good in this sport. You might even want to ask him if he is going to homecoming dance and let it be known that you are looking forward to going to it. And if you have the guts why not ask him to go yourself rather than waiting for him to ask you. Bottom line is that all he can say is either yeah or nay and who knows you might just get what you want.

Answer 6

If it's meant to be...then this will work.

You have to be yourself, BUT be very inviting and open and fun. When you show people the effervesent bubbly personality, they gravitate towards you. But don't be fake, that's see thru. Just tell yourself, that you are happy with or without anyone, and that anyone would be lucky to be in your presence. That confidece in yourself, REALLY shows outward to people and they respond.

Dont change who you are for some guy...it never works. not to sound all philisophical, but it's true!

Answer 7

well just walk by him and don't take your eyes off of him, but let him notice that u are watching him. then u turn around to see if he looks back at u, and if he does, u smile at him then walk away . And then make small talk with him the other day. But only after he notice's you. And make sure he notices you or its more hard if not.
Topics to talk about: tell him how good he plays
* ask for pointers
*hint around about the homecoming dance
* ask what he thinks about the dance
* Or u could always say " come with me to the dance, it will be fun".
*

Answer 8

Play a 1 on 1 soccer game with him

Answer 9

Most of all just be yourself. Make sure that when you talk to him, you gain his interest. Guys love it when girls can make them laugh bc it makes them a lot more comfortable around you so make sure you can make him laugh. Smile a lot and when he starts opening up to you more it is your cue to start flirting with him (start out by touching him a lot when you talk) Find out what sort of things he likes and talk about that to impress him. Compliment him often but say it casually so that it doesn't make it seem like you're trying to come onto him so hard. Have fun and relax!!Good luck!!

Answer 10

Wear something unique (like a fancy hair style) that he will notice or drop something that belongs to you like your purse or school books and stand in front of him when he picks it up. Also keep having conversations with him as often as you can. Do not by all means chase after him nor let him know that you have the hots for him, he will totally disrespect you if you do chase him. Let him make the first move.

Answer 11

If you're not a floozy (as some people here have insinuated), just talk to him. Make sure he's not an idiot before doing anything physical. That's would just be a waste and not something you would suggest to your own teenage girl.