is he using me? ive posted questions about this guy i work with, and asked if he liked me, and most answers i got were, "he's using you". so, is he? he always flirts with me, when he thinks im not looking i can see him staring at me. he tries to get me jealous by saying that he was taking to "hot babes" all day. when he sees that i just ignore him, he says "im just playing, you kno ur the only girl i like." he's always calling me names, in a flirt way, and teases me. i sometimes flirt back. we've exchanged phone numbers. im always texting him, asking him how his day was, he never txt's back. when i call him, to talk to him, he just says, "im busy, i got to go'. so, im guessing he doesnt like me, but sometimes it seems that he does. so wats the deal, he's never asked me out, but he's aways firting with me. so...is he using me?
2007-09-17 11:04:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How would he be using you? You guys don't hook up, so what would he use you for? Maybe he has a girlfriend.
2007-09-17 11:10:57 · answer #1 · answered by California Kush 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all those signs say he likes u, but sleeping with another girl, it makes u wonder whether he is a player or not. thats not a good sign. i think he could just be a player unfortunately :-( if he does something like that again, u will know for sure that he is player (and personally, u deserve someone betta than that.) but if he doesn't, maybe u should give the guy a chance, he could have just made a big mistake, and i guess u dont know the real story of wat happened. good luck xoxo
2016-05-17 07:27:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy but, sounds you are just eye candy for the work place. I would tell him if he doesn't have an interest in you outside of work, not to take an interested in you inside at work.
2007-09-17 11:12:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he does like you but he might already be taken did you ever think about that but if you really and truly want to know just ASK. tell him exactly how you feel and tell him you don't like to be played with (not like that anyway:-)) and see where it gets you. you can only live for you so be true to yourself and follow your heart.
2007-09-17 11:15:40 · answer #4 · answered by marie g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he's a very annoying person. Tell him to move on, you're busy with life.
2007-09-17 11:15:30 · answer #5 · answered by Irish 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
using you for what ?
if you are having sex with him, he is not lying to you, so he is not using you for sex.
in order to use you sex he has to lie to you to get it.
if you give it willing, no strings, its not using.
2007-09-17 11:12:40 · answer #6 · answered by Jr. is angry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya he's defiantly using you!!! sorry honey but he is.
2007-09-17 11:11:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep
2007-09-17 11:11:38 · answer #8 · answered by cmlatte01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋