If a guy is interested in a girl, will he play hard-to-get? That is, if he is quite a shy guy or does it mean?

Question

that he isnt really interested?

Answer 1

Depends on the guy i think!

if a guy isn't interested i think you can sense it, and again if he is

my boyfriend didnt tell me that he liked me but i sensed it , we had chemistry! i told him i was like if one of us didnt make the first move we would of been going round in circles! :) so glad i did, nearly 4 years together! :)

Answer 2

i became friends with a guy because he did the shy/hard to get thing (it is really the same thing one is personality, one is ones own doing and in my case it was a little of both along with free of being rejected) at the same i did. a couple years ago we were talking and why we never dated with some friends and it came out there was a time we both had interest but never acted on.

Ever since then I learned not to play the games. There are times for the efforts you put into it will not be returned and yes there is some rejection, but it is better to know than think what could have been.

As for your question, yes he could be interested, but you have to know he could also not be interested and is not able to say it straight out. Give him a call see what happens. Ask questions and be honest as you proceed. Only other advice is to not rush things and remember to be good to yourself.

Answer 3

Girls are more likely to play hard to get. Although when it comes down to a guy, i think some do play hard to get if they are really into the girl. The more a guy likes a girl, i think they play hard to get because guys dont like to show their emotions as much as a girl does, therefore they try to hide it by playing it off. Sometimes there are those who are too shy to show their feelings, but they will eventually express themselves if they really like you. I know this from experience. Hope that helps!

Answer 4

you probably know the guy you're talking about better than anyone here but it's quite possible hes shy, unless you know he's the sort to play games! If you're interested make it obvious back and then see what happens. Good luck!

Answer 5

in my experience, most if not all single guys and some involved guys will NEVER play hard to get...some will play around with your head a little but not 'hard to get'...sorry but im not even sure they understand the concept in relation to themselves...they may just be shy or just not interested...up the ante a little, be brave and talk to him or something, you'll probably get a clearer message then...;0)

Answer 6

Oh man...Well I believe that some man play hard to get, but if you guy is shy, then he's not playing: he's just shy.

Maybe you should encourage him a little bit, so he feels confident enough to ask you out and then take it from there, little by little.

Answer 7

Yes he might. I used to like a guy who was so quiet he never said anything to me and I would see him all the time. He was so shy he had his friend introduce him to me. And now we are married. He tells me all the time how he was so into me, and was very intimidated by me,so that made him extremely shy.

Answer 8

If he is shy he certainly won't play hard to get. Shy people don't get much anyway.

So if you are showing him that you want him and he doesn't respond positively then take that as a no.

Answer 9

a guy that is into a girl will never play hard to get...if he is playing hard to get it is because he doesn't want to be gotten

Answer 10

If he's a player he'll play hard to get. Do you want a player? If he is decent, you'll know he likes you because he'll persue you.
Good luck babes