Family & Relationships - 17 September 2007

2007-09-17 07:55:40 · 1 answers · asked by kb772003 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a Step-Mother who has been my "Mother" since I was 4 and I am now 35. She has taught me everything that a woman needs to know and has been there for me growing up even though we didnt have the BEST relationship when i was younger, we now get along great (i am older and more mature and appreciative) and I also have my Mother who left when I was 4 for various reasons (very young, drugs, mostly alchohol). I have struggled my whole life with wanting my Mother in my life no matter what she has done or hasnt done. Time has not changed that any although I have had periods of WTF, why did she leave and why did she stay away? ANYWAYS... To get to the point... This summer, my Mother came home and we visited for three weeks and really got to know each other and she wants to move back to Maine to have a relationship that we both have always wanted, I want that very much too BUT, the burning question is, how do I have a relationship with both MOTHERS and not hurt the others feelings?

2007-09-17 07:53:53 · 11 answers · asked by Hot Betty J 4 in Family

Crazy B-tch by Buck Cherry. Imagine how shocked everyone would be to see the bride and groom dance to that one!!!

2007-09-17 07:52:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

in february i started seeing this guy he is and has been a really good friend of mine for almost 20 years. the thing is he is going through his second divorce and doesn't want to tell his dad who is 76 years old that he is getting another divorce or anything about me. i am apart of his life in every other way but he won't let me into that part of his life. we live together and all 3 off his kids love me, i don't know what to do. i really want his dad to know about me and the divorce. what should i do?

2007-09-17 07:49:49 · 2 answers · asked by Teresa J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My bf is has to many rule for me to follow and I do them ,,,but when I give him rules he can't do them

know what to do

oh ya he is 21year old and I'm 16

2007-09-17 07:45:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Why do guys say these things? Isn't up to both people?

2007-09-17 07:45:09 · 28 answers · asked by maria s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We're in our twenties, but wanna keep it clean until the wedding. Anyway, he works overseas, so it's not really a problem. But he's visiting me in a couple of days and I wanna surprise him. So how do I show him how much I love him WITHOUT having sex? I do wanna arouse him, anyway.

2007-09-17 07:43:54 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was hanging out in Walmart with my sister and two of her friends, and one of her friends kept walking up and standing so close that our sides were touching. I did not pull away and neither did she. It happened twice. What does it mean?

2007-09-17 07:43:30 · 20 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Singles & Dating

What type of conversations should you have witha guy you've been dating for three months? Not that we don't talk about a lot of things. Just wanted to know is this a point where we should be discussing future needs and wants or just keeping it casual. Although the relationship is more than casual.

2007-09-17 07:42:19 · 4 answers · asked by Heaven26 3 in Singles & Dating

My parents have been married for 26 yrs. They were married in there apartment back in 81, no wedding dress or anything special so my dad wants to surprise my mom and have a vow renewal. My sister and I are doing most of the work bc my dad works fulltime and runs a small business on the side..and to be honest he just aint good at the romantic things lol
Can anyone please give me some tips or a check list of what I need to do and any ideas??
Thanks a bunch

2007-09-17 07:40:57 · 4 answers · asked by angybebe83 1 in Weddings

I'm 25, he's 28. My EX broke up with me 3 months ago after being boyfriend+boyfriend for 2 years.
I told him he had good timing because I was so busy starting up my business, I had too many things on my head to think about it that much.
We broke up, but we still see each everyday. He's been dating someone, I've been dating someone, we have friendly-sex from time to time. But I have too many things on my mind to worry what's the deal between us.
My business is going well, but I'm still 3 months away from recovering from my investment.
My EX makes good money, and he offered to loan me money last week, so I took it.
I will be able to pay him back in 1 month, but I'm going through a hard time.
My birthday is next week, my EX told me to take the loan as gift for my birthday.

I told him NO, because it's too much money to be a birthday gift.

He told me to think about it, I know that's not too much money for him, but still:

Should I take the loan as a gift?

2007-09-17 07:40:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

No music (since many of you told me you can't live w/o music) or no sex.

For 2 weeks.....

2007-09-17 07:40:13 · 16 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

Who is your role model, or Hero?

2007-09-17 07:38:23 · 9 answers · asked by Mindi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

about 7 months ago he dated this girl for about a month and a half but they were friends for 1 1/2 years before they dated,he loved her to death and he never got over her (he told me this before we started going out) he lost his virginity to this girl. well after 7 months of them not talking or coming in contact. they started talking two days ago. now all he ever talks about is her (he talked about her before but not as much and i didnt care then because they didnt talk at all) well he went over her house for the last two days, he ever DITCHED me for her yesterday. she is single. she broke up with him back in january because she was moving but now she came back after 7 months of living 2 hours away. now she lives here again. i asked him if he was cheating on me with her he said ''no'' and when i tried to kiss him or hug him ever since he started talking to her he wont do anything with me at all. he just pulls away. he just totally changed since she came back...

2007-09-17 07:37:43 · 46 answers · asked by Erikka 2 in Singles & Dating

a question arose during a get together of how soon is too soon after one loses a spouse to death. Some say a year, some say 6 mths, some say when the person feels that it is ok.

2007-09-17 07:37:01 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Am in my 30's and this guy is 6 years younger than me and looks younger than his age; When i met him the first thing i said was he looked very young & he said thats funny coz he came to ask for my no. We kept meeting and I was finding it funny that he was interested in me coz i never dated a younger guy before. I have now started to like him coz he's really nice; i went with him for a function and told a friend that he's just a friend coz i was kinda embarrassed coz i think he looks younger than me. I think he might have overheard and now he has not talked to me for 2 days. What do i do about this? He is a really wonderful guy...

2007-09-17 07:35:35 · 8 answers · asked by Boo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I reported my nephew as neglected to the state, because he and the other two children are not being cared for at all really. The youngest is just a baby. The oldest is 3 and cannot talk or go potty. The house is always horrible, like I wont even take off my shoes or use the bathroom there. Anyway, the report was justified.

Now, the state is threatning to remove the children if another report is filed. There are a total of 3 from this weekend. Only one was from me. I have played dumb to the whole thing to save conflict, but he keeps calling and is driving me crazy. Do I just tell him like it is or keep playing dumb as long as I can? This is driving my parents nuts too. Right now they have the oldest child, but are bringing him home as they can no longer deal with it. They are with me 100%.

Advice?

2007-09-17 07:35:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my wife wont shut up about jobs at home.what should i do.im busy watching tv and on this.

2007-09-17 07:32:29 · 37 answers · asked by sam tyler 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-17 07:31:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, so I am a 20 year old american phillipino girl. Im not trying to sound vain or conceded here but only to help with my case but Im not an ugly girl. I am very athletic and have been told I have very pretty eyes and a smile. For the past year I have had to worst luck with guys! For instance I was introduced to this guy from a good friend of my parents. We hit it off exchanged numbers and later hung out that night. Nothing happened we kissed but that was it BUT I tried to talk to him 2 days ago and no reply? I have a feeling I wont hear from him again. I DONT UNDERSTAND! I dont come on too strong I know that but im not a dud or really shy. This has happened with the past 3 or 4 guys I have been introduced to!? Why do guys do this!?

2007-09-17 07:29:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok my mom told me she wouldn't tell my secret but she did anyway. First of all can tell me what you think the secret is? Well anyway she like told a person in my school and they told another person who told another person who told another person who told another person so i think you get the idea she technecly told the whole school. and like the teachers even knew. and everytime i pass and say something they like look at me like they couldn't believe something. then one day my friend came to meand told me what she heard.

2007-09-17 07:28:02 · 4 answers · asked by Basha c 1 in Family

I have this male friend who is so sweet,I think if I wasn't in a realatesionship I would be interested in him,I'm so stuck cause I really like him, Or maybe it's a setup just to leave my man. What should I do.

2007-09-17 07:27:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK now I have a different problem and you are probably thinking I am crazy but well I am not that old and have not really had a girlfriend so ya

Anyway

She texted me back just before saying she didnt reply because she was having her tea (i in the UK, dinner for those of you in the US) and I went

Didnt know you like footie that rocks

and she replied

I am watching it with my dad, my sister and 2 bros but if you want ....... um

so what is that supposed to mean

PS:
I know I am asking lots of questions about this girl but well dont have a lot of experiance and I dont want to mess this up cos it seems we like each other

2007-09-17 07:26:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What are the benefits of getting married young? i m 26 i dont know if that is young compared to the average joe but i m considering getting married within a year or so. I have my own house and a professional career.

2007-09-17 07:24:36 · 25 answers · asked by Americana 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-17 07:24:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

in college the black guys walk right up to all the lightskin girls who are skinny.

where does that leave a black woman like me who is darkskin with a curvy body? i feel inferior and i can't get a date

2007-09-17 07:20:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What if you sold some things on ebay? This stuff did not take away from household funds (basically parts from garbage at work) and isn't part of planned income. Should you tell your spouse about it? The amount is about $500 (give or take $50)

2007-09-17 07:20:09 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ceremony is at 1 and then my reception is not till six, but I have a hospitality room at the hotel for guests. Should I put this in the reception card with the invitation or should it be word of mouth.

2007-09-17 07:16:25 · 14 answers · asked by Kelsy 1 in Weddings

She flings her shoes off across the floor,opens the frige and pops open a beer ,takes her bra and panties off and leaves them for me to pick up after her....then demands i get in the bedroom to take care of her buisness...
Doesnt she know ive been busy organizing and rotating the can goods?....when will she say thanks for ironing the bathroom towels...?

2007-09-17 07:16:17 · 70 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Just confused!. I've a lot of problems with my wife, whenever we have small problem she makes very big, after seconds she's normal but next day she's again angry, we spend most of our time solving problems...at the same time she says that she Loves me n dont like to lose me.... r all women like that...Confused..

2007-09-17 07:16:01 · 13 answers · asked by Open_Minded 2 in Marriage & Divorce