My bf is has to many rule for me to follow and I do them ,,,but when I give him rules he can't do them
know what to do
oh ya he is 21year old and I'm 16
2007-09-17 07:45:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First off, he is too old for you in a legal sense. Secondly, you're not understanding the dynamics of what's going on means he is too old for you emotionally as well.
He's a control freak; a lot of control freaks are also sadists. Not at all uncommon or unusual that he's dating a young girl - you won't know any better as he trains you. And you don't know any better; you just made that clear.
I know that at 16 (I was 16 once and understand) that you think you know all you need to know to get on out there into that great big world and do fine. But you don't.
2007-09-17 07:53:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off he is entirely too old for you. He may think that he can tell you what to do because you are still young and nieve. I know you think that it's cool to be with someone of his age. but believe me you would be much happier in a relationship with someone your own age. You would have much more in common and i'm sure he wouldn't have the same rules that this grown man is trying to stick you with.
2007-09-17 07:53:35 · answer #2 · answered by Sharlean 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him that if you have to follow his rules then he has to follow yours... and keep it firm! he is way older then you so he probably thinks he can tell you what to do but make sure to make him realise that you can stand up for yourself and you can go against him... stand up for yourself and express yourself! you have to!
good luck!
2007-09-17 07:58:07 · answer #3 · answered by nushcake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like a fair relationship. I would move on.
2007-09-17 07:55:31 · answer #4 · answered by Newly Eloped 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and get someone who doesnt have a double standard.
2007-09-17 08:23:20 · answer #5 · answered by Nemo the geek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋