We're in our twenties, but wanna keep it clean until the wedding. Anyway, he works overseas, so it's not really a problem. But he's visiting me in a couple of days and I wanna surprise him. So how do I show him how much I love him WITHOUT having sex? I do wanna arouse him, anyway.
2007-09-17 07:43:54 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stick to making out, kissing and hugging. All else I consider in the sex zone. So if you want to wait till marriage. Don't start teasing and leading him to think you want to go further. He will think it frustrating and it will cause problems.
2007-09-17 08:07:21 · answer #1 · answered by Sunset 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your honestly wanting to keep it clean till the wedding, take it easy on the poor guy...lol If he is overseas , in love with you and thinking about you all the time, just getting to be in your physical presence is going to arouse him, arousing him more without plans on helping to relive him is just tourcher. Maybe if you could bend the rules but not break them...maybe arouse him and relieve him using your hands (sorry trying to keep it as clean as possible...lol) . If that's out of the question, then don't go out of your way to get him going, its frustrating to a man. Dress sexy and do show him how much you love him, you will arouse him enough without trying!
2007-09-17 07:56:18 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arousing a man without having sex is hard (pun intended). By "no sex" do you mean "no sexual behavior" or "we fool around but stop short"?
Seriously though, ask him about it. Surprise is good, anticipation is better. But be careful testing your commitment to each other with sexual temptation if you're gonna stay cool before your wedding. So many lose their cool at the very end and regret it.
In my experience, it's worth it to wait. My wife and I did that and it was definitely difficult, but worth the effort.
2007-09-17 07:54:33 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-14 17:07:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's like asking "How can I take a shower without getting wet?" You can show love without getting him turned on. What's love got to do with having sex? If you don't want to get him sexually aroused, DON'T!
You might just get him wound up to go and find someone else to relieve him. Is that what you want? I don't think so.
2007-09-17 07:49:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
u're treading on dangerous territory and i dont think its a good idea. its good to be close and affectionate but u should not take it too far. try not to be in a bedroom becuz that will be too tempting. and dont spend the nite. give ur hugs and kisses in public or outside or on an uncomfortable couch. the point is u dont want to go to that point of no return.
2007-09-17 07:50:31 · answer #6 · answered by cecee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why you want to get him arroused for sex, if you don't want to have sex. I don't think that's being fair to him. There's nothing wrong with making out...suckin' on his chin is very stimulating, but have a limit with it.
I suggest that you refrain from that kind of stuff if you're trying to avoid sex though, but once it goes up...it doesn't come down that easy.
2007-09-17 07:52:24 · answer #7 · answered by geminig 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Im going with the person who said "That's like asking how can I take a shower without getting wet."
2007-09-17 07:51:11 · answer #8 · answered by fundingway_brandon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are many things you guys can do without having sex and keeping it clean ... for example just have a nice dinner and mess around a lil bit let him wonder what else and leave him wanting it ..t his way i know he is going to be real nice to you and very happy to come see u next time
2007-09-17 07:50:29 · answer #9 · answered by .·.¹³ LaSh3s¹³.·. 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
how wud u arouse someone widout havin sex???cmon give him a fair slice ....he comes from over seas to talk?? u expect he wud get aroused in talking??oh cmon ....if ur gonna get married to him ders nuthin wrong in having sex wid him just chill n let him do his job.
2007-09-17 08:20:47 · answer #10 · answered by king 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋