Family & Relationships - 17 September 2007

I'm not a talkative person, and I sometimes runs out of things to say and makes a conversation awkward, especially to this girl crushed on. It does happens to other friends too, but I guess above all, I didn't want her to find me a boring person as I like talking to her, but sucks at having good conversations.

Is there any way to imporve?

2007-09-17 05:10:08 · 7 answers · asked by Hornet One 7 in Friends

whenevr i tell him''its homework time'' and tells me that im bad and he doesnt like me becos i let him do his homework and it sometimes get on my nerves.Ive tried my best already and i dunno what to do anymore.PLEASE can someone give me advice on this,singlemom

2007-09-17 05:08:46 · 21 answers · asked by ladybug35 1 in Family

I like the way I look, my hair, my face, my clothes, etc. But she doesnt like it and she never did. I always wondered why she chose me if looks were so important to her. Looks aren't that important to me, obviously.
She wants me to change my hairstyle to something that I totally hate, and she fought with me so much that in the end she broke up with me. She wanted me to change my clothes too. At first, I said no, then I agreed to "follow the crowd" and buy Abercromie clothes. My hairstyle, however, expresses my personality and I dont want to change that at all. She wants me to have that "skater boy" or "california surfer dude" hair style.

This is very important to me because we were engaged for many months until last night, and we were in a serious relationship. I cant believe something so retarded as a hairstyle can ruin marriages. I dont bother her about the way she looks at all. Shes a pretty girl and I respect her style. So should I just give in and change my look?

2007-09-17 05:06:47 · 27 answers · asked by carlovingbiodude 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-17 05:06:04 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Am I a whore because i keep my options open, i mean every relationship i have been in has been bull you know from one problem to another, i flirt alot with dudes i'm not gone lie i get numbers everyday but i'm not feeling them like they feeling me does that mean i'm a whore cause i talk to more than 5 dudes, i mean we are just friends ya know. But when people that i go to school see me with a different dude they whisper stuff it hurts but you can't let it show, then one of my friend guys always talk about me and calls me a ***** and say i'm a hoe because i talk to different dudes instead of just talking to him.... does that mean i'm a whore????? I would really like to know

2007-09-17 04:59:19 · 31 answers · asked by Nikkie 2 in Singles & Dating

i accidently friction burned my boyfriend in a delicate area
has any other girl done this before?
i didnt know it was possible but i know it is now!

2007-09-17 04:59:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He never kissed me but arranged to call me & said he wants to see me again.
He is such a lovely guy & good looking.
Whats the best thing for me to do next?
Am I just being a worrier for no reason?

2007-09-17 04:59:06 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A man puts his hands on his girlfriend, chokes her and attempts to throw her down a flight of stairs.
She gives him one more chance, after all, it was the only time he'd done it in the 3 years they've been together.
He says sometimes women deserve to be put in their place.

Is she nuts?

Will he do it again??

2007-09-17 04:57:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What attracts you to a girl now and what attracted you when you were a teen? (guys)

2007-09-17 04:56:27 · 10 answers · asked by Lisa 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-17 04:55:31 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been having some problems at home and have been contemplating moving out sometime next year with my Boyfriend or with a roomate.

Last night I had a dream that I told my family I was leaving. It seemed like I was leaving for the army or something or leaving for a long time or going into battle or something because the fariwell was VERY emotional and I felt like I would never see them again.

Then I ended up in a bed with my Boyfriend in his room as if I just left to be with him in our own place.

And then my Mom comes in and sets the rules for us in her house! Like we were living there or something!

What could this mean? Could it just be a response to me contemplating leaving? Or could it mean that I'll never get out of there seeing that I ended up still being in my Mothers home?!?

2007-09-17 04:54:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im planning to get married in early June 2008. the problem that i am facing is that we don't have the funds for a reception...what can we do? i was told that many people get married and then go out to dinner with family...this is fine, but i really want to experience the whole father daughter dance and our first dance and cutting of the cake....any advice? i was thinking of a 'back yard' reception, but to pay for the tables, chairs, dinner wear, food...etc...its going to cost roughly the same ($4,000 - $7,000)...any one have a neat idea's or something that you did instead of a reception?

thanks...

---we live in Anaheim, CA - Orange County

--we do have a stable income, i just don't think i can afford the thousands it takes for a nice reception....any ideas would help. thank you.

2007-09-17 04:52:46 · 24 answers · asked by *+*+baby dust*+*+ 2 in Weddings

My fiance and I are doing a traditional wedding in a Methodist church, however I don't know if we want to do the unity candle or several readings, etc. I wanted it to be simple, but I'm getting opinions left and right about it that make it sound like that would be "weird" or "lacking" ? Do you think we need to throw other things in there? Or would it be ok to just have the vows, and one scripture reading per the pastor's requirements?

2007-09-17 04:51:08 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I watch porn & masturbate. My gf hates it and thinks i'm cheating. I wish to quit but it's too difficult. I have sex with her whenever we get the opportunity to do so. I tried to watch porn with her. She still does not like it (even when she sees men). What can I do?

2007-09-17 04:50:53 · 20 answers · asked by explorer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i havent had a girlfriend for about a year now because now i usual just flirt on wih girls and that but the problem is ive been asked out by a few girls and even if i like them i say no and i dont know why , im joinin the army in a few months so i dont know if i should be gettin into any relationships , but i dont know even tho i really liked 1 of them and she asked me out i stil sed no , what could the problem be? thanx ppl

2007-09-17 04:49:50 · 3 answers · asked by CFC ♪♫ Careefreee ♪♫ 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

For my assignment I have to write a dialogue that may occur between myself and a child who appears to have been beaten by his mother, but every time I try to write it I feel my character is "leading" the child.

What sort of questions would I ask that wouldn't traumatise the kid even more than he already would be?

What sort of things would a Five year old be likely to disclose to a child care worker about his mother hitting him?

2007-09-17 04:49:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We just had our first child about 6 weeks ago and now her birthday is very soon. She is not one to like flowers, I know I will take her to a nice dinner but what to get her is the question? I am not looking to spend a bunch as for the "push gift" 6 weeks ago I got her a new dinner table and chairs.

Help me with some ideas please....

2007-09-17 04:48:24 · 15 answers · asked by solobowl 3 in Family

K, i got to the point of freaking out but also coming into terms. Before my dry spell I went all the way with 5 girls in 4 weeks.....and then nothing and that was A YEAR AND 3 MONTHS AGO!!! Now only thing that happens is making out, hooking up and getting numbers but NEVER sex and no one can find an explanation, it can even be a situation that is working perfectly and the most random thing happens and I keep dry....has it ever happened to you? can u find a reason why?

2007-09-17 04:46:48 · 5 answers · asked by corporal.hicks 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, I was cleaning up the yard a couple of days ago, and I just threw a couple of camping chairs inside the garage ( half way in and half way out). Later my husband went out and shut the garage door and the opener happend to break (it is 13 yrs old and been hit by lightening twice). Any way the garage opener broke and he blamed me for it, which I understand. I said that he should have looked before closing the door, I mean for crying out loud they are neon orange and neon yellow, how can you miss them!!!! Any way we got a new opener. We are not mad at each other or anything. I was just curious...who is to blame...me or my husband?

2007-09-17 04:46:46 · 18 answers · asked by Miss Behavin 6 in Family

I've found that many people classify their family as dysfunctional - making this known to the public is a whole thing altogether though. I want to know where you draw the line between being a truly dysfunctional family and one that has its "normal" share of quirks, conflicts and turbulances?

2007-09-17 04:45:00 · 9 answers · asked by kikay 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

If they weren't attractive, why did u do it?
How old were u?
Did u do it again (with another person, also NOT attractive, or even ugly to you.)?

2007-09-17 04:43:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there ia a guy in ma classes nd he reli likes me and another one likes me just as much , all mi frends say i should i go out with one of them and mi other frends say i shud go out wiv da other 1

help me??

guy 1 : alex reli cool and fit, laid back, a good laugh, is romanic, has a very good sense of humour, split personality, good or bad

guy 2 : danny reli cool, has a way with the ladies, has a split personality, sometimes he is good and sometimes he is mean.

please help me ???????

2007-09-17 04:43:52 · 6 answers · asked by Hannah 1 in Singles & Dating

The average age (people who don't know me) people think i look is 15- but i'm really 20. I know some people will say that i should be happy i look young now b/c when im 40 I'll look 30 but i need a solution for today. I'am a female so what are some things/tips/suggestions I could change about myself to make me look my age. Also what is a great way to respond to someone who thinks i look younger then I am b/c it happens often & its frustrating

2007-09-17 04:33:57 · 36 answers · asked by bailaen_ny 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

jlr

2007-09-17 04:32:27 · 15 answers · asked by tony s 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-17 04:30:13 · 1 answers · asked by valley girl 1 in Singles & Dating

OK, I have a really embarrassing and scary problem. My brother, sister and I live with my grandparents because my parents died in a car accident a couple years back. I am now 13; I have a 15-year-old sister, and a nine-year-old brother.

Last week I was in the tub and I was well, masturbating when my grandmother walked in and caught me. She ordered me out of the tub and made my sit in the living room floor in front of the whole family. She didn’t even let me get dressed. I was naked. My brother pointed out that I was hairy down there but my sister told him that happens to everyone in their teens but girls shave it off. Then my grandparents stared at her. Then my grandmother read from the Bible the story of Onan. She told me that what I had done was sinful. She said I needed paddeling. But my grandpa disagreed. I wish he would have just paddled me and got it over with. I'll have to continue with more details.

2007-09-17 04:28:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm trying to understand why a woman would marry a man she can't stand. On three occassions she has come out with her inner feelings of resentment towards the man and revealed alot that she can't stand about the man, but yet she walked down the isle with him. Why would she do this?
Just trying to understand why women marry someone and have nothing positive to say about the men they marry.

Thanks

2007-09-17 04:24:47 · 14 answers · asked by Blk Angel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I waited because we went on a cruise that stopped in Canada and said we may need our passports. Well I am sure everyone knows now how long it takes to get a new passport. Anyways, where do I go now to change my name? The same office we got the license? Thanks in advance...

2007-09-17 04:24:19 · 15 answers · asked by Cash, Gage and Jax's Mom 4 in Weddings

about bad pains in his head, really bad ones, tablets dont shift them, iv made appointments to see dr but he keeps cancelling them, hes a workaholic, and says he as no time, im worried its serious.

2007-09-17 04:23:04 · 19 answers · asked by sharon jay 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-17 04:22:40 · 5 answers · asked by robtiti 1 in Marriage & Divorce