Why do you think dry spells happen?

Question

K, i got to the point of freaking out but also coming into terms. Before my dry spell I went all the way with 5 girls in 4 weeks.....and then nothing and that was A YEAR AND 3 MONTHS AGO!!! Now only thing that happens is making out, hooking up and getting numbers but NEVER sex and no one can find an explanation, it can even be a situation that is working perfectly and the most random thing happens and I keep dry....has it ever happened to you? can u find a reason why?

Answer 1

Yes. You're trying too hard. You need to just go out there and have a good time. Girls can smell a dry spell on you from your desperation and the way you approach them. Just go out and enjoy yourself. Dance. Talk. And stop focusing on taking them to bed. Before you know it, you'll be back in business.

I've been through dry spells and what happens at the end of the night: you're frustrated, had no fun and feel like you wasted a night out. A girl wants to be with a man who looks like he's having a good time and if you just look like you're looking for women, they'll be turned off.

Got it?

Answer 2

Well, CPL, it's going to keep on happening now because you've elevated it within your mind to a "syndrome" status. No matter what transpires you'll be looking for that random element to crop up and throw a monkey-wrench into your plans, as a result, it will always materialize. (On the other hand, the rate of 5 girls in 4 weeks was an overly-ambitious occurrence and there's no way you were going to keep that frequency up for long, so anything short of that would seem anti-climactic). Just relax and try to reside within the moment.....and things will fall naturally into place.

Answer 3

It's pheremones. You're out of ballance somehow or you were hot before. Basic body chemistry.

Answer 4

While I find that question honest, I find it sad. There's got to be more to your life than making girls.

Answer 5

yeah, get married, that will stop your track record in its tracks.