Family & Relationships - 17 September 2007

I dated my now wife 2 years before we where married and she was an animal in the bedroom satisfying my every need as i did hers. Now that we have been married for almost a year and a half we are lucky to have sex once every 3 to 4 weeks and then she only wants a quickie. She says she has lost the desire to have sex and has even suggested that I get a mistress but still stay with her. I only want to be with my wife. What type of stimulates are available for women who are ashamed to ask for help?

2007-09-17 03:22:46 · 28 answers · asked by Kevin P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It been 2 weeks sense my wife and I have had sex. last weekend was my birthday. Sex has been 3 time a weeks and she seemed interested but i have the higher sex drive. She said she not interested in sex at all. Nothing. I asked her if it was me or if she doesn't desire me anymore or doesn't love me. she says she doesn't bust does not have the interest for sex. SHe said she she has been trying but she cant. She promised me for my birthday she would and she always pushed me me away when i was in the mood. It wasn't rushed either we went out had a romantic time everyday all weekend and nothing. I don't know what to do. But sex has been less but not it has stopped. I feel hurt and lost that my wife doest want me. She said she does nothing in terms of sex. She has to go to the doctor for new birth pill. I dont killed her sex drive but she been on then for 2 years. we been married for 6 months. She been reluctant set an appointment.

2007-09-17 03:20:26 · 15 answers · asked by Nordic god 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im a guy,,

just want that one real connection, waiting for marriage but marriage isnt the thing here, its that emotinal release that you get with your true love, wow im sounding like a chick haha

anyway here is my problem, i do club and stuff, i can dance well maybe not the greatest dancer but i do get errr aquainted with a lot with girls, the problem is how do i just move away without hurting their feelings ? i know they want sex, and you know that akward situation, i just dont wanna lead anyone on, how do i move along without making the women wonder about where she has gone wrong ?

2007-09-17 03:18:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-17 03:17:41 · 2 answers · asked by ana 1 in Singles & Dating

things have not been too good between me and my husband for a while, there have been many up and downs and I feel that i am of no great importance to him right now,. He finds it hard to talk and never pays me attetionand barely acknowleges me sometimes.

A guy at work started paying me attention and i was flatered, he then said he wanted to be with me, and as tempting as it was to kiss him I told him I loved my husband. there was a chemistry but I never took it further.

Last night during an argument i told my husband about this other guy and how alive it made me feel knowing someone liked me and made me feel attractive and desired. Im now so scared of what will happen with us. When we first met he was quite a jelous man and I thought my confession would shock him into bucking his ideas up, but he simply put his shoes on and left. He always told me that fancying someone else was cheating and that he would leave if that ever happened. What do you think he will do?

2007-09-17 03:16:00 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-17 03:12:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Do you yourself do any "trimming of the hedges" or shave it all the way down, or do you let it go au natural? And how do you prefer your partner?

2007-09-17 03:11:44 · 10 answers · asked by .... 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-17 03:09:01 · 11 answers · asked by Heather 4 in Singles & Dating

An ex-roommate moved into my apartment complex last month. After rooming together for two years, we decided to go our seperate ways this past June. She was suppose to buy a house but that option fell through and instead she took a 2 month vacation at her parents home who live in another state.

She comes back and asks to stay with me until she gets herself settled. That was about 2 and half weeks under my roof. She decides to rent at my apartment complex and she listed me as a referral. After she was approved, she requested I split the referral fee with her.

It through me for a loop because I have listed friends and aquaintances as a referral and never asked for a portion of that money. In fact, the apartment complex don't even write you a check, they take the fee off of next month's rent. I've talked to other people and they agree that what she asked was inappropiate. Am I being unfair for not wanting to give her half of the referral fee?

2007-09-17 03:08:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have seen the doctor many times who said that its a natural thing in my genatics and i have not to worry

2007-09-17 03:07:21 · 10 answers · asked by a.abdulhai 1 in Singles & Dating

When we first met, he planned a Valentines day dinner with me and in the middle of the dinner, I heard him trying to apologize to someone on the other end of his cellular phone for not spending valentines day with her- it turned out to be his 25yo married daughter who found out he was out on a date.
She has moved home with her husband and kids about once every year. She doesnt have a job and has never worked more than 2 weeks anywhere in her life. She constantly begs and borrows money off her dad. Last time she moved in with her dad she shopped 2-3 x a week and blew money like it was water.
For crying out loud, I work with gals 4 yrs younger than her who have been in Iraq twice and are already 1/2 way thru there college degrees. It makes her look so pathetic. All her whining and being a hypochondriac. She spends more time going to the doctor in a year than I have in 5 yrs. No job
Her dad has diabetes and renal failure, but she doesnt mind borrowing $$. Is it me ?

2007-09-17 03:05:27 · 1 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-09-17 02:58:59 · 8 answers · asked by RICK 1 in Singles & Dating

Women: Do you agree with the statement, ' Do as I say not as I do?"

Is it okay if your significant other had multiple affairs with other woman and was still be able to come home to you without you questioning their behavior or actions? What if you should be the one to have an affair? Should your mate be entitled to getting all worked up and upset over your indiscretion?

And, men:

Why do you think your wives or girlfriends should have to follow your rule of thumb "Do as I say and not as I do?"
What makes you think it''s okay for you to cheat, but when your love ones go out to explore better opportunities; you practically want to rip her and the guy a new butt hole?

Please help me to understand the reasoning behind all this maddness

2007-09-17 02:57:51 · 17 answers · asked by plumprump26 4 in Marriage & Divorce

women complain all the time about how hard it is, i have twins and i think its cake!!!

i think these women just dont put forth the effort!!!

2007-09-17 02:54:30 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

but are commited to thier spouses?

2007-09-17 02:49:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

never revealed that he is guilty but doesnt know you you know hes guilty do you drrop him or what?

2007-09-17 02:46:50 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i would rather spend that extra money of $500 and apply it to an even better food choice at the reception. Of all weddings I have been to, the favors are always left behind and seems like a waste of money. To me, I 'd rather treat my guests to an extremely great dinner other then the usual food that is at most weddings here in my town that is served.

2007-09-17 02:46:11 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-09-17 02:45:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

here's the cinch. "B" and "G" got married when they were 18 years of age. "B" only married "G" since he was pressured by his parents. When they were still lovers, "B" tried asking "G" if they can make love, "G" declined and told him that "B" shall wait until they get married. So, they got married but "G"s promise did not come. After 3years "G" went to Manila to work, and "B" eventually became a sugar trader in Negros. Because of their separation "B" was often seen with "X" and he frequents the various nightspots in B.C. After 9 years "B" wanted his marriage with "G" annulled on the ground of psychological incapacity. If you were the judge how would you decide the case...

2007-09-17 02:44:14 · 21 answers · asked by Chattie Evangelista 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Anyone interested in chatting? Just need a break from this boring rut. Looking for ladies especially.... ;)

2007-09-17 02:43:09 · 2 answers · asked by .... 1 in Singles & Dating

I am getting married in November and I don't think I will be able to walk down the aisle b/c of my nerves. I am afraid that I am going to throw up right in front of everyone. How do I stop from being so nerves? I mean its so bad that just talking about it makes me nerves. Can someone PLEASE help me I am desperate? I am so tired of being like this!!!

2007-09-17 02:42:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I've been dating this guy for over 3 months. He was still married but was getting a divorced. He then found that his wife was pregnant for five months and hadn't even told him. He then told me that he is going to work things out with her after we had already started making plans to live together after the divorced was finalized. If he really wants to work things out with her then why does he still talk to me? I know we both love each other but we want whats best for the child. I just need some advice on this situtation. Please help me sort this out.

2007-09-17 02:41:52 · 8 answers · asked by Ginger 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so she doesnt leave him?

2007-09-17 02:39:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-17 02:38:49 · 31 answers · asked by Lizzy B 1 in Friends

I need any kind of serious marriage advice from men and women considering any marriage issue

I'M REALLY SCARED AND SO WORRIED
i cant get enough advice and i have ZERO experience in realationships

Thanks in advance ^__^

2007-09-17 02:38:45 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex-wife has driven me out of Australia, she has lied to all my children. My son was living with me in England and he went back for a holiday and now she's turned him against me and he is stayng there. I have a 9 year old daughter and a 16 year old daughter. My son was 13 when he came with me because she called the police on him for throwing a mobile at the wall. She has lied to the police, spent hours in lawyers concocting ways to destroy me, I have spent thousands on trying to defend myself and didn't have any money left to continue fighting her. She has told the kids that if I really loved them I would of defended myself against her and she is extremely manipulative and tells them I have left the country because I can't be bothered having kids now which is not true. I feel like completely giving up, what does everyone think. This has been going on for 4 years.

2007-09-17 02:36:15 · 26 answers · asked by thfc2004 1 in Marriage & Divorce

for guys

2007-09-17 02:31:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband dosnt talk to me first about nothing he sold his brother a truck and he owes us 6000.00 since may has not paid a penny and we carry the insurance not to mention he just loand another brother 1200.00 and now his sister wants us to pay air fair for her to come visit it cost 2800.00 she didnt want to get up to early for the 2000.00 flight for her family so she is putting us out another 800.00 dollars he dosnt ask me about it until he does it not to mention its my birthday and he asked me to wait till xmas for my ring our money is tight i feel like leaving him im hurt and pd off i cant even look at him and she wants to stay at our house for a few days while we paid for her to come do i have a right to feel this way im in the marriage to and work he has no regards for my feelings.

2007-09-17 02:22:27 · 38 answers · asked by Alica 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ugh, I just had a rough weekend, 2 months before my wedding and I go for my first fitting. I knew the top didn't fit due from weight gain and I think changing birth control (it's all in my bust!) but when I bought it they said they could take it in our out 3". Well, this dress could NOT be taken out, not at all..... And then they noticed it was yellowing around the neck!! Don't buy a clearance dress off the rack! So they were very nice about it and check the computer and called ever store that look like they may have had the dress to have it shipped down. Since the dress was bought 1 year ago- they didn't have ANY! They had me sit down- to calm down and gave me store credit and a sales person to find another dress. My choices were limited because the dress had been in stock so I could get it in October! This is what I picked! I am very curvy so I was looking for something that was vintage looking and flattered my figure..
I got it with the train and with a pink ribbon.

2007-09-17 02:18:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I know you guys are tired of reading the same question asked in so many different ways, and so am I.

But, I am asking ths question again, because one... I have a friend who is cheating on his wife, but when the script was flipped and she started to give him a dose of his own medicine. He went off. Now, he has been removed from their home for a year. And, still that has not changed his behavior, he is still seeing the other woman, but more openly. And, secondly, I have an English paper that is due... I decided to write about this particular topic.

2007-09-17 02:18:25 · 8 answers · asked by plumprump26 4 in Singles & Dating