but are commited to thier spouses?
2007-09-17 02:49:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
divorce, forsaking all others is the vow... that is cheating... one should go out w/ their spouse, no other person of the opposite sex at all, ever...
2007-09-17 02:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 · 2⤊ 6⤋
I would make sure they know they have my love and trust.
I can't believe how many people here seem to think spouses have to be joined at the hip every second. I've even seen responses to the effect that "this is cheating". Come on people get a life!
2007-09-17 10:29:58 · answer #2 · answered by Bruce M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing....you should trust your spouse and your best friend. These are supposed to be the two most trustworthy folks besides mom, dad and siblings in your life. If you can't trust them I'd say you certainly don't need any enemies.
2007-09-17 09:55:14 · answer #3 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The thing is her interests should be common with yours and not your friends. You should be careful because they could fall for each other as they have something in common. Hope it works out for you.
2007-09-17 09:56:16 · answer #4 · answered by Hazel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have had many couples that have gone out with friends of the family. Its all about trust. There is nothing wrong with it, and healthy for outside relationships. If you feel uncomfortable, ask if you can go along, most likely they will say yes.
2007-09-17 09:55:29 · answer #5 · answered by countrymomv4 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have dinner with a very good friend of mine and nothing has ever happened and nothing evber will. That kind of trust takes years to build. My wife has lunch with guys at work that are way more handsome than me but i know she loves me and nothing but me or my behaviour can ever change that.
2007-09-17 09:58:33 · answer #6 · answered by St.Anger 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
try to find similar interests with his wife and go out with her .
2007-09-17 09:55:05 · answer #7 · answered by daron 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confront her about it, let her know you dont feel comfortable with the going out, But be careful, you never know what they are doing or planning to do, be the first to strike
2007-09-17 09:58:17 · answer #8 · answered by PoPtArT 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NOT cool.
Tell her if she does it again, she doesn't need to bother to come home. ALSO, talk to your best friend ad tell him he's crossing a line. He should respect that.
Men and women CAN'T be *just friends*. Don't allow her to be put into a tempting situation. That's just asking to lose a wife AND a best friend.
2007-09-17 09:53:37 · answer #9 · answered by Roland'sMommy 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I would worry that their similar interests are sex with each other. But I'm a jealous ******. I'm sure she's not boning your buddy. That never ever ever ever happens, right?
2007-09-17 09:53:10 · answer #10 · answered by steve_dorings 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the interest and when are the hanging out and for how long, etc.
2007-09-17 09:55:47 · answer #11 · answered by Spring 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋