I've been dating this guy for over 3 months. He was still married but was getting a divorced. He then found that his wife was pregnant for five months and hadn't even told him. He then told me that he is going to work things out with her after we had already started making plans to live together after the divorced was finalized. If he really wants to work things out with her then why does he still talk to me? I know we both love each other but we want whats best for the child. I just need some advice on this situtation. Please help me sort this out.
2007-09-17 02:41:52 · 8 answers · asked by Ginger 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He's married!!!!!!!! there isn't any sorting out. You move on and find a man of your own. Regardless of the circumstances involved, you don't seriously date someone who is still married.
2007-09-17 02:52:25 · answer #1 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Turn around and walk the other way. You may love him, but if he is willing to give up plans with you over this, then there will be nothing but hurt ahead for you if you wait in the wings. Let him go if he has made his choice. I wouldn't talk to him anymore, because it will only be to your detriment if you do. Find someone who is free and clear 100% and ready to give you the world. Not a pregnant Ex. Don't let him pull your emotions around or use you as a "comfort" zone for himself when he feels like it. You deserve better sweetie and there are other guys out there who would put you first. If it were me, I would stop all communication with him and simply tell him that he has made his choice and he can't have his cake and eat it too! Good luck!
2007-09-17 03:08:11 · answer #2 · answered by 2008girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sell off him. He should not be telling human beings your organization like that. And that's even worse that he's complaining approximately some thing while that's in actuality his fault that's that way. - Relationships are greater desirable than only the actual. - he's not doing something to objective and attach what he would be upset in. - He should not be telling different people who you adult males have not finished lots; he must be coming to YOU. - He sounds like no sturdy.
2016-11-14 16:32:38 · answer #3 · answered by tegtmeier 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My current situation is similar. I've been dating a married guy for 6 months. He tells me that they're sperated. Oh I didn't mention that I dated him 11 years ago. He persued me. They don't have kids but he's trying to get me pregnant. I love him so much but I think I'm just gonna move on. I'm tired of stressing about him. My advice to you is just move on. If he wants to work thing out with her then just let him go. If he's still talking to you then change your number. I don't know why married men seems like the perfect man for us but trust me it's not really love.
2007-09-17 03:12:47 · answer #4 · answered by ms rainbow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut off all communications with him. Don't answer his calls. Don't return e-mails. There... sorted.
He's MARRIED!! ..."live together after the divorce"... give me a break.
You can do better than this. You have lowered the respect for yourself. Expect better of your relationships. You're worth it.
2007-09-17 03:15:37 · answer #5 · answered by Vitiran 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A kid isn't gonna save his marriage, they only complicate and prolong the inevitable. He still talks to you because he wants to, but I would be careful, babies make it hard for anyone to say quits during a relationship. I would stay in touch, you never know, but I would definitely go out and meet new people.
2007-09-17 02:57:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For him to stay there for the kid is just stupid! But he is still her husband, it may hurt but you need to move on.
They will all be miserable in a few more months.
2007-09-17 02:52:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAHAHAHA!!! He used the oldest excuse there is! Don't fall for it, be smarter than that.
2007-09-17 02:54:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋