2007-09-17 02:38:49 · 31 answers · asked by Lizzy B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Beat their ***.
2007-09-17 02:41:24 · answer #1 · answered by ☆ღWifey Wifeyღ☆ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If that person was your friend for a while and he steals, he shouldnt make a big deal out of it if you confront him. If he were to steal something from yours and he denies it and you have proof its yours and you show it to him and he still denies it, you should have someone else be there and see the evidence too. Dont take it by brute force because even if they were to steal one of your things, he can file a lawsuit and sue you. But then the matter after that is, will you still be their friend if you got it back or not?
2007-09-17 09:46:27 · answer #2 · answered by phantombam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront your friend and ask point blank, get to the point.
Having evidence will be in your favor. As far as your friend stealing from you, its up to you how you may want to deal with this but if they stole from you even once, considered if you both can get pass it and if its worth it or not to end the friend ship. Otherwise, in the back of your head, their will always be doubt and you'll be thinking if its going to happened again.
2007-09-17 09:53:33 · answer #3 · answered by Indigo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without know a little more information, it's hard to answer....if you actually have proof that they stole from you then I would confront them with the proof and ask them for an explaination of how they could do that to a frend and ask for the item/items back and if they are willing to do that that you you will not report it...otherwise you may be forced to do so. However, if you do not have proof that they stole it, there's not much you can do other than ask them if they stole from you and tell them why you feel it was them.
2007-09-17 09:46:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can confront your friend, but most likely, they will deny stealing it. If youre pretty sure that this person stole this thing,then maybe theyre not such a great friend after all and youre probably better off without their 'friendship'
2007-09-17 09:49:33 · answer #5 · answered by andie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First be absolutely sure your friend has it before you confront them. Because it will probably ruin your friendship either way. Have your facts and be direct but not crazy about it. You know their first line on defense is to deny it.
Also cover all options of it being misplaced or moved by another person. But again be positive of what happened to it, don't guess.
2007-09-17 09:45:22 · answer #6 · answered by jim_17331 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be straight forward and ask her if she took it. if she tells you the truth then ask for it back. i had a friend who had a problem with stealing when i was in elementary school she was sick i dont think she could help herself she had lots of issues, i dont know if this is your friends problem but if you know she takes things then this could be a real problem. however if she lies to you then i would get a new friend because you dont really needs friends like that . and you cant help her if she doesnt want any help.
2007-09-17 10:03:00 · answer #7 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me once, the best thing to do is just steal it back when they are unaware, i did it and when he saw me with it he could'nt say anything because he was the one who stole it in the first place, so it ended in me getting my stuff back and nothing being said about the matter, hope i was helpful =)
2007-09-17 09:50:19 · answer #8 · answered by PSG1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell that person that stealing from friends violates friendship rules , because friends have a mutual trust. Tell him that you feel bad for him, because he is a thief, but give him another chance to redeem himself . Only once more and make it clear that its his last.
2007-09-17 09:49:04 · answer #9 · answered by capiducho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be very certain that they took it from me before i confronted them. Then i would talk to them in private first, telling them i wasn' mad, but i know they have something of mine, and if it finds it's way back, nothing will happen, but if they want to lie about it, then we aren't friends anymore.
2007-09-17 09:46:38 · answer #10 · answered by ♫jmann♫ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wowo thats a tough one isnt it well for me and my friends it depends on two factors one if they admit they stole it when i ask em and two what was it they stole. If they stole like my pen that my dad gave me before he died i would be pissed but if they were like dude i didnt know and gave it back it wouldnt be a problem but if they stole anything more then 20 dollars from you well...... I personally would go up to em ask em why they did it after that i would tell em that i dont want em in my room alone anymore not that we cant be friends but if we hang we wont hang at my house i know its a little harsh but thats about all i got
2007-09-17 09:43:26 · answer #11 · answered by sonoka5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋