i havent had a girlfriend for about a year now because now i usual just flirt on wih girls and that but the problem is ive been asked out by a few girls and even if i like them i say no and i dont know why , im joinin the army in a few months so i dont know if i should be gettin into any relationships , but i dont know even tho i really liked 1 of them and she asked me out i stil sed no , what could the problem be? thanx ppl
2007-09-17 04:49:50 · 3 answers · asked by CFC ♪♫ Careefreee ♪♫ 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you have difficulty expressing yourself in person, try calling on the phone or write a letter, or email. That way, when you see the girl next time, you have already sent fillers or advance notice about what you feel for her and all you have to do when you meet her again in person is to smile and hold her hands... Good luck.
2007-09-17 05:05:27 · answer #1 · answered by still 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could well be the fact that you know you're going into the Army so you don't want the stress of having to maintain a relationship with someone "left behind back home". That's somewhat understandable, but you should realize that having a date or two doesn't necessarily constitute a relationship. Deeper still, you may genuinely be commitment phobic. Only you can answer that with any degree of certainty, but you don't want your life to be a fear-based existence on any level, so some personal introspection is in order.
2007-09-17 05:00:21 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might not be ready for a relationship at this time...
just because you are 'dating' doesn't mean you have a committment either. it's OK to date more than one person at the time, as well.
you are young. live your life.
and good luck in the army. take care ok?
2007-09-17 04:55:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋