I'm not a talkative person, and I sometimes runs out of things to say and makes a conversation awkward, especially to this girl crushed on. It does happens to other friends too, but I guess above all, I didn't want her to find me a boring person as I like talking to her, but sucks at having good conversations.
Is there any way to imporve?
2007-09-17 05:10:08 · 7 answers · asked by Hornet One 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
first of all, smile...('',)
if you are not really a talkative person its best you do the asking...(but of course not interrogating.. hehe)
list down the sort of Qs which will be an ice breaker..and a starter...like..hows your day today?
don't pop up a non-starter Q like how do you do??
even tho she might not like to talk about her day (<---) you can say..oh.. forget it..we can talk about it later if you think it is okay..
then proceed to the next Q like...what is your fav. movies..then she might say..I don't like movie..then you say..oh..what's your hobbies then?... see...it is all related...
but, I tell you a secret...when you are about to step out of your door seeing her..tell this to yourself..I AM HONEST IN MAKING FRIENDS WITH HER..I AM HONEST TO KNOW HER..AND I AM HONEST TO MYSELF AS BEING WHO I AM THE WAY THAT I AM...sincerely..do you want to know why???
soon as you tell this to yourself..all things will run smoothly..trust me..try.. :-)
2007-09-18 19:33:46 · answer #1 · answered by Lana_Luna_Soraya 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are books on how to be better at interactive conversation.
One classic is "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Carnegie. It was written over 70 years ago, but the principles are still true, and it is still in print.
Trust me, there is a greater need for good listeners than there is for great talkers. Don't think of yourself as less because you are quiet.
2007-09-17 12:27:59 · answer #2 · answered by Free To Be Me 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try humor. Everyone loves a happy humorous person.
Find some good jokes. I guarantee you'll break the ice.
And act confident. If you can't be confident, at least look like you you are confident. You don't even need to say much if you appear confident.
Good luck....
2007-09-17 12:20:07 · answer #3 · answered by Helpful2U 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
U should do just the opposite things that u r currently doing.
Be confident. Try to find out your own qualities and shine them up. But don’t copy others.
Hope it will help u. :-)
2007-09-17 12:25:15 · answer #4 · answered by freeze_fellow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to speak more on anything you notice about the girl ( except the impolite one ) . You'll gradually improve
2007-09-17 12:17:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
seems that you don't have enough self confidence, be outgoing do new things try different things and soon everything should change.
2007-09-17 12:24:38 · answer #6 · answered by mk_freak90 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
get hobbies so you have lots to talk about
2007-09-18 06:45:27 · answer #7 · answered by Death Girl Am 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋