I'm trying to understand why a woman would marry a man she can't stand. On three occassions she has come out with her inner feelings of resentment towards the man and revealed alot that she can't stand about the man, but yet she walked down the isle with him. Why would she do this?
Just trying to understand why women marry someone and have nothing positive to say about the men they marry.
Thanks
2007-09-17 04:24:47 · 14 answers · asked by Blk Angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Actually, some of the things she complains about are attributes that she claimed won her over when they first met. For example, she claimed that she liked the fact that he was/is a private guy when they met, but now she makes it sound like that's one of the reasons she can't stand him.
2007-09-17 04:32:42 · update #1
She could've have fell into many traps, some she could've avoided, maybe most. My thoughts:
#1. too comfortable with him
#2. security, not necessarily monetary either
#3. insecurities about herself
those are just a few. it could've started off nice, and now she's in deep regret. sad but true. My prayers to her
2007-09-17 04:32:16 · answer #1 · answered by teri is ambience 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oppsite attract sometimes i had friend that got married and thught he ws in love with this woman after four years it not working and he stayed married toher and complains all the time.
to make a long story short i wouldnt marry a person who i cant stand to be with or to be around it would drive me crazy
this person has serious issues that maybe you dont no about.
best of luck
2007-09-17 11:42:28 · answer #2 · answered by mmurray001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could have something on her.. almost like blackmail. Ot it could be that she is marrying him for money.
Or it could be that she doesn't feel that she deserves better. More often than not this is the cause. I get tired of seeing women treated like crap, but put up with it because some jerk has brainwashed them into thinking that they don;t deserve better.
Ladies out there.. you deserve to be treated with love and respect. Don't let some jerk tell you otherwise. If someone is saying that you are lucky to be with them.. leave them find someone BETTER that you do deserve.
2007-09-17 11:31:45 · answer #3 · answered by umannjo 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
She probably felt differently when she married him. Some people change after marriage and not for the better.
2007-09-17 11:31:51 · answer #4 · answered by Kathy R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beats me.... maybe opposites attract...it may be a challenge to tame him and vise versa....you should keep a log and document this relationship for further reference. It may be a best seller some day.
cheers!
2007-09-17 11:35:59 · answer #5 · answered by Say 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finances, distorted sense of emotional security, sex, inability to find a better alternative, low self-esteem, personality or emotional disorder.
2007-09-17 11:58:35 · answer #6 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she didn't start disliking him until she fully knew his character or personality. And maybe the good outweighs the bad, that might be why in the beginning, she didn't mind him sooo much.
2007-09-17 11:30:09 · answer #7 · answered by ilovelilPhof 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.Money .
2. May be after she married him she realized there was another side to him.
2007-09-17 11:40:48 · answer #8 · answered by Precious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money comes to mind!
2007-09-17 11:30:13 · answer #9 · answered by Bruce M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
obviusly mony... why else??? she wants him to support her... maybe shes hoping she can divorce him an get his mony an property... or maybe shes hoping hell die soon so she can get everything... of course she might also just want to be close to him all the time so she can make his life hell on earth... LOL
2007-09-17 11:36:28 · answer #10 · answered by Gold Digger 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋