Ok my mom told me she wouldn't tell my secret but she did anyway. First of all can tell me what you think the secret is? Well anyway she like told a person in my school and they told another person who told another person who told another person who told another person so i think you get the idea she technecly told the whole school. and like the teachers even knew. and everytime i pass and say something they like look at me like they couldn't believe something. then one day my friend came to meand told me what she heard.
2007-09-17 07:28:02 · 4 answers · asked by Basha c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Ok my mom told me she wouldn't tell my secret but she did anyway. First of all can tell me what you think the secret is? Well anyway she like told a person in my school and they told another person who told another person who told another person who told another person so i think you get the idea she technecly told the whole school. and like the teachers even knew. and everytime i pass and say something they like look at me like they couldn't believe something. then one day my friend came to meand told me what she heard. What should I do?
2007-09-17 07:29:54 · update #1
Confiding in your mother is in a child's instinct. Why would your mother break such a bond. You need to tell your mother how you felt. No matter how old you are or what kind of secret you have, you should never have to worry about not trusting your mother. As far as the secret, leave it as a secret.
2007-09-17 07:42:40 · answer #1 · answered by cocoa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak frankly with your mother and tell her how terribly disappointed you are with her that she betrayed your trust.
Then, without telling her - especially in a cry-baby tear stained way, don't share with her. Simply, never, ever, ever ever ever share a secret with her again. Truly - she can't keep a secret and that's just the way it is. Too bad. I'm sure she has other, more admirable traits. But you'll have to accept the fact that she does not respect you enough to keep your confidence - and she cannot be trusted to keep a secret. Oh well.
Again, don't share your secrets with her. When she asks you about things you don't want to share with her, you can feign her off with "Mom, I'm not ready to tell you yet. Some other time, please." If she really presses the issue, then calmly and as gently as possible remind her that she betrayed your confidence and made you feel really uncomfortable around your peers and friends. That was humiliating and you never want to feel that horrible again. Worst of all, what hurt most of all - was that she didn't respect you enough to keep your secret. While you forgive her - you're not ready to share your thoughts like that with her right now.
Mom won't like it but at least you're being honest - and again as gentle as possible.
2007-09-17 07:43:47 · answer #2 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing you can do. Keep your chin up and hang tough, it will blow over! Just remember for the future who you can tell your secrets to . . . sorry - it can't be your mother!
2007-09-17 07:33:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he says she says
Proove it!
2007-09-17 07:36:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋