in college the black guys walk right up to all the lightskin girls who are skinny.
where does that leave a black woman like me who is darkskin with a curvy body? i feel inferior and i can't get a date
2007-09-17 07:20:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is about attiude
light skinned folks are treated better by white people so they tend think they are better
it shows and men respond
the ugliest women can get a date if she feels she is hot
2007-09-17 07:25:42 · answer #1 · answered by rodawg7 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Oh, no, don't be dissing your own self. Many of those same skinny light skinned girls marry young and marry fast... and later are divorced when the guy finally realizes that personality and education and good moral fiber are far more important in a relationship than looks. If you have that and a curvy body, then time is on your side. The right guy will come along. And college is a great place to meet one ! I did !
2007-09-17 07:33:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys may not be passing on you because they prefer light skinned girls. To be honest I don't care what color you are as long as you treat me right and look decent. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder you may want to spend more time focusing on yourself and loving yourself and stop worrying about the guys. If a guy likes you, he will come to you. Thats just apart of life.
2007-09-17 07:29:34 · answer #3 · answered by excaliber00 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't focus on who's NOT attracted to you, focus on who you ARE attracting.
Light skinned... dark skinned... thin or curvy Self- Confidence is the most attractive thing to a man. If you cutting your eyes or sucking your teeth because they're giving another chick attention they see that..
You can't change your skin type... maybe not you size and you shouldn't want to- but you can change your attitude.
They will stop and take note.
-Good Luck!
2007-09-17 07:26:58 · answer #4 · answered by foolproofdiva 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe that God will choose the right man for us. Your time will come. Maybe someone out there is praying for a women like you.
2007-09-18 02:00:07 · answer #5 · answered by Gold Coast Queen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Date white boys.
2007-09-17 07:22:57 · answer #6 · answered by princessannie122 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't worry about them you'll find somebody who will like u for u.
2007-09-17 07:27:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? Baby, didn't you know deep chocolate is back? That's what's up!
2007-09-17 07:25:48 · answer #8 · answered by Captain S 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Us Latinos don't discriminate.....come to Papi.
2007-09-17 07:25:12 · answer #9 · answered by Gunner For Life! 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋