Am in my 30's and this guy is 6 years younger than me and looks younger than his age; When i met him the first thing i said was he looked very young & he said thats funny coz he came to ask for my no. We kept meeting and I was finding it funny that he was interested in me coz i never dated a younger guy before. I have now started to like him coz he's really nice; i went with him for a function and told a friend that he's just a friend coz i was kinda embarrassed coz i think he looks younger than me. I think he might have overheard and now he has not talked to me for 2 days. What do i do about this? He is a really wonderful guy...
2007-09-17 07:35:35 · 8 answers · asked by Boo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
give him oral. He'll talk to you then.
2007-09-17 07:43:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you knew the reason why he got upset? Then why didn't you call or text message him to apologize or explain your situation. That's what he wanted to hear from you. Doesn't hurt to say I'm sorry! When you know you messed up. He seems very mature and respectable guy. Obviously, you find him interesting too. So don't let the chance fly by. If your heart telling you he is a wonderful guy, then follow your heart. Who cares about he is 6 years younger. If he make you happy, that's what a relationship for. Make each other happy. Whatever the future hold, let's it be. Why be too hard on yourself?
2007-09-17 08:23:46 · answer #2 · answered by Lilian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel confident enough, call him and tell him that you have missed him, and have had time to think. You where more concerned about what everyone else thought, instead of how you where feeling. You enjoy his company, and age is only a number. I was told years ago. If you want to die with the person you married to pick one that is a lot younger than you, if you want to have some one on the same brain wave, to marry one at least 10 years older. Men don't live as long as woman, that's why you marry younger.
2007-09-17 07:51:23 · answer #3 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is 4 years younger than me and at one time I had dated someone 10 years younger. Age doesn't matter if you are compatible and are adults. You need to apologize and explain to him that you weren't comfortable at first with the age difference but you are dealing with it now and hope that he forgives you. But make sure that is why he isn't talking to you. It could be for another reason all together.
2007-09-17 07:54:20 · answer #4 · answered by Catlover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Phone him asap and explain how you really feel towards him. Age is only am,an made number and just think as you both get older the less it means to others, so both go and enjoy your life together if that's what you wish to do, and good luck to you.
2007-09-17 07:46:32 · answer #5 · answered by 121aloraphotos 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters you should worry less about what people think and consider his feelings. If he is a wonderful person then why are you ashamed to be with him?
2007-09-17 07:43:37 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Open mouth, insert foot.
2007-09-17 07:40:40 · answer #7 · answered by Katie Lou Who 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Apparently you were not as mature as he had hoped.
2007-09-17 07:44:18 · answer #8 · answered by bootsontheroad 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋