I love my friend, and this may come off as rude, or mean-spirited. She loves singing and acting, but isn't really good at all. Her singing is just...really...bad! And she's a total diva.
Whenever you're singing, she comes in three times as loud, obnoxiously. She also tells my group of friends we aren't great singers like she is. Even though my other friend Maria is a beautiful singer.
We recently tried out for a play, and she didn't get in. I did. She acted like a total diva, and said, with a very mean-spirited tone of voice, "Fine. Whatever. Congratulations." I asked her if she was okay, and I said I was sorry, but she blew me off and gave me mean eyes. When she doesn't get a lead, she acts really pissy, too.
How do I tell her to either stop acting like such a diva, or that she isn't great at singing? Telling her flat out is a bad descicon, she'd get INCREDIBLY mad.
2007-09-17 09:39:41 · 5 answers · asked by alicia 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She doesn't really sound like much of a friend. I think if you told her the truth it would be the end of your relationship with her. Does that really bother you? It reminds me of many of the people on American Idol that don't have a clue as to how bad they are. I wonder where they get that!
2007-09-17 09:56:43 · answer #1 · answered by Simmi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no point in telling her she's not a good singer. You'll just create a big wedge in your friendship. You might tell her that it's hard to be around someone who is a sore loser and that if she got the part you'd be happy for her, so why can't she return the favor? If she's really your friend, she will.
2007-09-17 09:46:45 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. Mimsie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha. allow him suppose what he wishes. however, within the olden days, individuals could put on those gigantic neclace sort matters that had the whole hebrew alphabet with a stone subsequent to it, and after they talked to God he could answer via letting flashes of sunshine replicate off the stone in order that it could spell matters. thats what i recall besides. thats from the bible. dont do some thing to disenchanted your buddy besides. devout debates can get quite unhealthy. who is aware of? might be he does have a cellphone that we could him speak to God. and an extra means you'll tak to him is via prayer. buuuttttt, when you desired to speak to God, why could there be cellphone wires?! and that i dont suppose heaven is honestly within the universe. God doesnt want cellphone wires! He can do some thing! I love him such a lot. love, alice.
2016-09-05 17:12:29 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she doesn't believe you at all, video type of her when she is singing. or you can always sit her down and let her listen to you. tell her that nobody isn't prefect that she can't always get wat she wants. she doesn't sound like a good friend at all.
2007-09-17 09:45:14 · answer #4 · answered by honey + biscuit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i say deal with it.
2007-09-17 09:45:55 · answer #5 · answered by Nana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋