have you ever tried to talk to them about it
have they ever toled you to deal with it or move out
2007-09-17 13:08:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sex maybe once a month if i am lucky and video games 24 7 we never sleep in the same bed at the same time and we never talk and he dont work
2007-09-17 14:14:19 · update #1
Hon....if you are with someone like that I'd just cut my losses and get out. Sex is a part of love between two people. If they are closed to that demonstration of love then what else are they closed off to? It also shows that something is wrong with that person as well. Take care of yourself hon......
2007-09-17 13:18:20 · answer #1 · answered by Praire Crone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends if they don't have any kind of sex at all. Meaning do they just not have penetrative sex or all types of sex. If they won't have penitrative sex it could be because of dysfunction. If thats the case they're are other sexual options.Guys really don't want to admit that there could be problems down there. Which could be why he is standoffish about it. It just depends on you too can you deal with no sex or not. If you know you can't and it will be a constant relationship issue then you need to move on. If you want to stay in the relationship the more pressure you put on him the more he'll resist.
2007-09-17 20:22:41 · answer #2 · answered by dee613 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
What do you mean by the term"antisexual".Do you mean to say they do not like sexual intimacy in general,or they do not want to be sexual with you or both.And what has that got to do with your living arrangements.Until we can get some answers to these questions, it is going to be difficult to respond to your piece.
2007-09-17 20:25:14 · answer #3 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Years ago I went out with a guy who was into porn,the first 6 months we had a very active sex life, afte a couple of years I'd stay over, sleep next to him and the Bozo would NOT touch me,he'd say "It's NOT you , it's me" he told me I was beautiful after 7 months of CONSTANT rejection I broke up with him, I told him it's either me or the porn , he said he can't give it up, so I left. I spoke to him awhile ago he still is NOT in a relationship!
My advise if you are in a relationship where the guy won't furfill your needs , PLEASE for your own sanity move on, you deserve a guy who respects your needs and won't reject you.
Good Luck!
2007-09-17 21:17:32 · answer #4 · answered by Hmmm... 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My boyfriend never had a sex drive and I stayed with him a year and a half because hoping he would develop more interest in sex. I couple times I told him about it, and he had sex with me just to please me, but that's not good. If there is no sex life and you want one, it's probably not likely to work out. Because eventually you get tired of waiting. I moved out, but not for that reason. We are semi-boyfriend and girlfriend now. If someone told you to deal with it or move out, and you can't deal with it, then move out and move on. Look for a guy who can meet your needs in life, you'd be happier, and you only live once.
2007-09-17 20:22:01 · answer #5 · answered by Heather 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
is antisexual someone who doesnt wanna have sex?? i'd leave them.
2007-09-17 20:15:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
what's antisexual?
2007-09-17 20:13:01 · answer #7 · answered by Katrina W 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋