What do you do when you want them all the time, and they want you about once a month? Talking openly has not worked. Neither has porn.
2007-09-17 12:19:52 · 11 answers · asked by Dave S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
patience my friend. that's about all you can do. the more pushing you do will just make her want it less. let it go for a while.
2007-09-17 12:23:48 · answer #1 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the kind of thing that's best to discover before marriage. Now that you're married, hopefully she'll work with you to find a solution. There's lots of supplements for both male and female that increase libido. There's lots of info avail on alternatives such as tantric sex, etc.. explore.. get out of the rut. Fortunately for my next lover, that won't be our issue.
2007-09-17 19:29:55 · answer #2 · answered by shine_radiantstar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried romancing her?
Making her "want" you too.
You have to make time for each other, all over again. Go back to dating and going out to dinner, or doing whatever it was that you 2 did together in the beginning of your relationship (when you did fall in love).
Help her out with the house chores so she doesn't have as much to do and she actually has time to relax...that will help alot.
Good luck :)
2007-09-17 19:26:09 · answer #3 · answered by MommaBear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my God I so know what you are going through. Sometimes I think our roles in that department have been switched because I could have sex all day and all night but he is always tired, and your right porn and frequent masturbation is not the same as being with your lover. I guess we are supposed to be patient and understanding but it really sucks. If you find out the answer to this one please e-mail it to me.
2007-09-17 19:34:28 · answer #4 · answered by frsttmshy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Therapy
2007-09-17 19:30:47 · answer #5 · answered by YssiK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thankfully it's never happened. We want each other a few times a year. If I want him and he's not in the mood, I go do something else, and the feeling goes away.
2007-09-17 19:24:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you read enough of those questions here, it sounds like it is a common problem. It is easy for people who don't have that problem to tell you what to do. That goes for any kind of problem. YOu need to talk to a councilor who specializes in this type of problem. COming here will probably not find you any concrete solutions. Good luck to you.......
2007-09-17 19:27:02 · answer #7 · answered by Praire Crone 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Help them get in the mood. A little romance doesn't hurt. Court them all over again.
2007-09-17 19:26:36 · answer #8 · answered by moonchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I masterbated alot and eventually went and found another one who wanted me more often.
May be your not doing enough to turn your partner on enough where their craveing you, like you do them!
Have you tried toys, sensual books that show you new and stimulateing positions, and techniques on "touch"?
TRY THEM
2007-09-17 19:28:46 · answer #9 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She/he obviously just doesnt have that large of a sex drive. I know how you feel--my husband is never really in the mood and i am constantly in the mood. It sucks....
2007-09-17 19:28:14 · answer #10 · answered by amy m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋