ive been told by guys that im a good looking girl. (i dont think im anything special myself)
i always attract guys however, i cannot find myself a boyfriend or a guy to date.
the guys either want to keep things casual or are after one thing!!!
i do not sleep around so its not as if they have had want they want and move on to someone else!!!
am i doing anything wrong???
even guys as old as 30 are like this too!!!
im 25.
i have had a serious boyf before-6 years. i ended the relationship over a year ago for a number of reasons. i am ready to move on. i dont tell guy this when i meet them tho.
2007-09-17 20:42:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No your not doing anything wrong. Give it some time! You'll meet someone. Don't worry.
2007-09-20 06:07:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it just works out this way, and you are not doing anything "wrong", it's just the types of people you have met who are wrong, it doesn't have to be you that is the problem! A lot of guys even up to 30 just aren't interested in relationships so it could just be the kind of guys you are meeting are just not ready yet.
Although, your first sentence where you said ("I don't think I'm anything special myself") does imply that you don't think very much of yourself!! It is very true that you do really have to like yourself completely before someone else well, it's a real old cliche but it's true!
If other guys say that you are a good-looking girl....believe in them....think that you are special!!! :-)
2007-09-18 03:50:11 · answer #2 · answered by HC123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am also having this problem. Lots of players are interested in me and are quick to approach me. I just tell them I already have a boyfirend. I just remind myself that for every gentleman there are a hundred pigs so eventually I will meet a good one! I find it best to meet men through a work situation, you get the chance to talk to them and find out about them first. Also other people you work with know them and what type of person they are. You can then chat to them innocently (or not so innocently!) whilst you make up your mind if they are worthy of you. I don't think meeting someone in a club etc is a good way of meeting people at all. First it's based on physical attraction only, secondly you know nothing about them and thirdly alcohol may be involved that can cloud your judgement or affect them so they appear nicer than what they really are. Good luck in your search, a nice guy will turn up eventually!
2007-09-18 03:57:59 · answer #3 · answered by Michele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Don't Think Your Doing Anything Wrong What They Don't Understand Is That You Should Take Things Slowly If They Cannot Understand That They Are Using You And You Need To Move On.
Good Luck =]
2007-09-18 04:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by beci 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a good looking, talented male,35. I have the exact same problem as you, though from a male perspective. My last girlfriend, whom I loved and still love, very much, seemed offended that I wanted to make love with her.
I desire a lot of attention and affection, kisses, hugs, sitting close, all of it. She could not give the time. I reckon that our partners mental busy-ness is the problem. They cannot return love.
The other solution is that I am so independent that I don't need a girl. But that does not feel right...it might, however, be true.
Whatever, you are not alone
2007-09-18 04:01:37 · answer #5 · answered by 132 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you thinking like that.No you are good.So you have ended your past relationship ok fine.Attraction and lust are different from love.Loving and being loved are the best things in life.So wait for your true love to come into your life.Sleeping before is not fair dont do that dont change your attitude for someone else be yourself.Good Luck.
2007-09-18 03:51:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is special and so are you. Men and women think about sex all the time. That is a good thing even if it sounds bad. Be patient and make your choices on men wisely. Until Mr. Perfect comes, go out, have fun with your friends and be yourself.
Good luck
2007-09-18 03:53:13 · answer #7 · answered by Persa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why rush ?
You sound like a decent girl, so hang on in there and the right guy will come along when you least expect it.
Don't sell yourself short just to get a boyfriend. Good luck.
2007-09-18 03:52:07 · answer #8 · answered by SilverSurfer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing i can think of of you doing wrong is if your telling them what they want to hear and not how you feel other than that be patient the right guy will come along.
2007-09-18 03:47:43 · answer #9 · answered by Momof1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you start a new relationship it should always be on a casual basis, then it may develop into something more serious later on but its a bad idea to start with the view that you want it to be serious, it may frighten blokes off as its forcing a commitment that you both may regret later. x
2007-09-18 03:48:47 · answer #10 · answered by ginger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋