Family & Relationships - 17 September 2007

For the last 2 weeks, i've been seeing this stunning lady. She's beautiful and well fit, but won't let me touch her long, wavy hair, and now i know why. Last night we both got drunk, she was paraletic and crashed out on my sofa, revealing her ears. One was literally twice the size of the other one. I didn't know whether to piss myself laughing or s**t myself with fright. This morning she left in a strop because i was still in shock and i think she suspects i know about her ears. She is a great girl and really enjoy her company, but those ears are well freaky. What should i do? need some advice!!!

2007-09-17 20:37:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-17 20:30:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please tell us why.

2007-09-17 20:17:45 · 24 answers · asked by yperais 2 in Family

my small little lovely family with a loving husband,one daughter(9months)and one son (2yrs).suddenly something was going very wrong.then I caught him in a relation with another women.He said his story..........he used to chat with this girl ,then they start to meet eachother.my husband took her in our apartment which was vacant.she cooked for her,they had food.then again next day he took her there and they had sex relation. then some how i cought him.then he broke the relation with that girl.My husband says it was a big mistake.He apologised to me and promised to me he will never do it again.My question is not that, should i forgive him or not because i allready forgave him.But i can not forget that he had a relation with someone when i gave him everything.its not that we have a bad s e x life.everything was right.then y he did. we can not say it was an accident because it was well organised as you see. he said he do not know why .

2007-09-17 20:12:27 · 10 answers · asked by sherry 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I think all three McCann children, Gerry, his brother and Philomena all display horrible arrogance.
No doubt a family trait. Have we seen their parents?
Can anybody throw any light on this arrogance?
Where does it come from and why havent they matured out of it??

2007-09-17 20:11:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have a boyfriend, and I know that I love him, But I'm not sure if I'm in love with him. I know that love is undefinable. My bf and I have known each other for about 3 years now, and we dated once before, but we decided to just be friends for the time being. Well, we started dating again about 2 months ago. I would do anything for him. I would die for him. And every time he says he loves me a chill runs up my spine, and I get a warm fuzzy feeling, my heart starts to beat faster and it's just a really good feeling. We have so much in common, we never argue over anything. I also write poetry, and no other guy that I dated before him have gave me the inspiration to write like my bf has. I know that I should know the answer to this question, But honestly I just want others people opinions.

Thanks for your time, And thanks in advance.

2007-09-17 20:08:39 · 4 answers · asked by rebel_chick425 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-17 20:07:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am subramaniam, From Malaysia,had lost contact a friend in London, Who she helped me to solve a consumer matter, at London int consumers, I have lost her email adress, can anyone of you help me to trace her,?I feel a white lady,

2007-09-17 19:57:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-09-17 19:56:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay so I abso-effing-lutely HATE my boobs. Think of anything that could go wrong with breasts and i prolly got it and it sucks cuz it's been like this since i was like 14 (20 now.) Anywho, the real question is, should I just wear a sexy bra when I'm getting intimate with a guy? Cuz I'm scared to turn him off... Ugh this is such an embarrassing thing :(

2007-09-17 19:55:36 · 13 answers · asked by c-lion 1 in Singles & Dating

We've been friends for about 6-7 years and we dated off and on for quite a bit. now are friendship has become more of a sexual thing. I dont want it to be sexual, but every time we hang out he wants to kiss and do other things. We hang out with the same group of friends, so it's hard to end ties with him. How do I end this friendship, or at least the sexual part of it, without ruining my friendship with the others and completely pissing him off? I have tried saying something to him before, but it's like he brushes it off and keeps doing the same thing. Also, we were going to date recently but "school" got in the way on his part. Yet, he still wants to do things. I still kind of like him, but I don't think he feels the same for me.

2007-09-17 19:46:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

The groom asked my husband 2 B in his wedding, then 2 weeks later the bride asked me if my 2 sons could B in their wedding. We agreed, but recently were advised tux rentals 4 ea R $170! $510 cost out of pocket which is pathedic. Wedding is in 2 weeks. I advised her that the cost was astronomical, so they R paying 4 the children's tux's. Anyway, there R a total of 22 people in this wedding. They R getting married @ a park, 45 minutes away, the ceremony is 2 B outside under a tree, no seating for guests, everyone is 2 stand & watch - have to pay a $5 park fee just to enter the park too. I'm also the photographer 4 the wedding. The bride informs me yesterday, that they are not sure now if they are going to have a reception because the hall they were having the reception @ is now upping the price of the catering because the caterer's changed. I think this is quite rude to have your wedding party shell out $$ for a 10 min ceremony outside & no reception. What would U do? Please adv.

2007-09-17 19:43:16 · 14 answers · asked by momof3anglz 3 in Weddings

I've been feeling lonely lately and have been yearning for companionship to cushion my woes. But now I realize that not many people want to befriend those who are always down, which is understandable since it's a philosophy I agree with. I mean, I myself would rather talk to someone who's upbeat than depressed.

But if you're the one who's gloomy and having difficulty getting people to keep tabs with you, then how can you expect to bring yourself out of your misery?

How can you expect to be optimistic if you don't have any friends to uplift your mood? And how can you start to have friends if there's nothing to be optimistic about? It's like a catch-22, like a trap. Something's gotta give...

2007-09-17 19:39:46 · 8 answers · asked by MM 4 in Friends

My husband is a truck driver and is currently hauling cattle. he is a company driver and makes a pretty nice paychecks. But he wants to buy a truck and become an owner operator. But he has a past of over spending money on making the trucks look nice. and with the cost of the truck payment and fuel and broker fees I just don't think it's worth it when i told him that i did not like the idea he became upset and is angry at me because I don't want to get into to money troubles and lose are butts. But if i don't do it then I'm sure he will hold this over my head for a long time. So what should I do let him go his way and take the chance on losing everything or stand my ground and possibly lose my husband. either way I might lose my marriage. I'm sure he will fail as an owner because he will end up buying crome for his truck been threough that before. I don't know what to do and to make things worse we have three kids. please help me make up my mind or should I just flip a coin?

2007-09-17 19:37:52 · 18 answers · asked by sunshine 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, I have never touched a man in my life, but I masturbated several times. I didn’t put anything in me, I just rubbed myself and I enjoyed. Now, have I lost my virginity( I mean physically)?

2007-09-17 19:37:51 · 16 answers · asked by Sara N 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my ex went around for 1 month but in that span i feel in love wid him .he broke up wid me sayin that he's confused and i deserve someone better . its been 4 months now and i'm still not over him .. i confronted him after 3 months but he did'nt want a rel all he said was that he dose'nt want to loose me and that he might loose me if we get into a rel . Immedialtey after the break up he acted like a jerk by ignorning me but after a few months he became really sweet ..like he used to call me everday and talk to me etc ...but that too changed after 2 weeks .. Of lately i sent him a message sayin that i could no longer keep in contact with him cause doing so will help me move on and get over him cause i dont feel my wait will prove to be worthwhile . He did'nt reply to that message .. why did'nt he and moreover did i do the right thing ??!!

2007-09-17 19:35:52 · 5 answers · asked by mystic beauty 1 in Singles & Dating

it's called hume lake, and it's the most amazing place on EArth
i love it and look forward to it every year.
after camp this year, i found out i can't go anymore.
we're going to another camp instead.
i met this guy at this camp that's really awesome adn i have all these great memories.
i got the band's cd (the band that played there) and i can't take it!
i'm freaking out about it adn i don't know what to do!
everyone says it's just a place and i need to get over it, but i can't!
they don't know what it means to me!
i don't know what to do!

also, i'm really sorry, but i don't know where to put this question

2007-09-17 19:23:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I love my wife since we marriage ten yaers ago, but I met my girsl friend few month ago and I am feeling that I love her while I am still loving my wife and don,t known what to do.

2007-09-17 19:21:19 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-17 19:17:03 · 9 answers · asked by Boer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is suppose to get his license tomorrow, he is 19, and i am 17. If his parents get him a car, or he uses one of theirs and wants to drive me places. He doesn't drink or do drugs, and niether do i. Do you think i should be allowed to go with him?

2007-09-17 19:14:49 · 8 answers · asked by RojaRego 1 in Family

2007-09-17 19:07:35 · 20 answers · asked by mohammednabiee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How did you manage financially? What were the best and worst results of your decision?

2007-09-17 19:05:55 · 18 answers · asked by jackie r 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I can't stop thinking about her....they have been dating a year. I have driven from my college to hers to see her and hang out. We haven't had sex, but we have slept in the same bed and cuddle and talked and been very very close to making out. Any advice would be much appreciated.

2007-09-17 19:04:46 · 7 answers · asked by jeffjeff9876 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently broke it off with my girlfriend of 2 1/2 years. Before i thought we would break up I traded in my car for a crew cab truck because we thought it would be good not only because trucks are dependable but it was roomy enough for the kids. The problem is i couldnt get the truck under my name, so she got it under her name. We were also living together and we had planned to get married. Well... we fought, she kicked me out of the house. I got angry ofcourse and said why dont you take the damn truck also while your at it. She did! A couple days passed and she asked me to take truck back because she couldnt afford it. I let my pride get in the way and said no. She found someone to take it several days later without my knowledge. Her Ex HUSBAND. Now it turns out he is living back with her. I tried to get back with her and get the truck back but it was to late. She lives with him now for financial reasons she said. I love her and miss her. I lost her and the truck. What can i do now?

2007-09-17 19:02:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my mom and dad died a little over 6 months ago. my 2nd cousin (who is 32) is my next guardian so she is like a parent sort of. I am 15 and when i do things that are wrong she spanks me. i'm so frustrated with her. i guess i've been arguing and backtalking a lot. last week i snuck out with my boyfriend when she told me not to go anywhere and got home late (wrong i know) i got home and she was really mad she told me to go to her room and wait for her. i argued and yelled at her but then i finally did what she told me. she got in there and freaking pulled me over her lap and SPANKED me. this is not the first time. is this right?

2007-09-17 18:59:57 · 24 answers · asked by ashlynn 1 in Family

2007-09-17 18:58:41 · 8 answers · asked by jenni 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been married for 6 years now have 3 beautiful boys by the age of 5, 3 & 1. We stay with the in-laws ...(father, mother, sister, her children),...okay question is.....how can i get my man to move out buy a place of our own that we could both give our 3 boys. He thinks investing in a house is insane when he has the family house to invest in...doing renovation & all....so what can i say to the man to change his mind....help me...need ideas your input would be nice

2007-09-17 18:54:10 · 10 answers · asked by Juls.fj 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if it comes back, it will always be yours.
if it doesn't [come back] it was never yours to begin with??




sorry if i got the exact thing wrong, i tried to remember it as best i could

2007-09-17 18:53:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I ran into a girl I had not seen since high school four years ago. We never spoke in high school, but we have mutual friends. I want to send her a myspace message to show some form of interest but I don't know what would sound noncreepy. I want to write her a short message hopefully sparking something, can I get some help?

2007-09-17 18:48:05 · 2 answers · asked by nottoobad 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

im watching my friends house and she didn't leave me any food i havnt eaten since Friday and now its Tuesday can someone help me please?

2007-09-17 18:47:35 · 9 answers · asked by teddybearerik2005 2 in Friends