We've been friends for about 6-7 years and we dated off and on for quite a bit. now are friendship has become more of a sexual thing. I dont want it to be sexual, but every time we hang out he wants to kiss and do other things. We hang out with the same group of friends, so it's hard to end ties with him. How do I end this friendship, or at least the sexual part of it, without ruining my friendship with the others and completely pissing him off? I have tried saying something to him before, but it's like he brushes it off and keeps doing the same thing. Also, we were going to date recently but "school" got in the way on his part. Yet, he still wants to do things. I still kind of like him, but I don't think he feels the same for me.
2007-09-17 19:46:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You might want to to just come out and tell him that you just want to be friends and nothing more.Hopefully he respects that and how you feel,if he doesn't consider yourself very lucky that you didn't pursue a relationship with this guy.Also,you might want to tell your other friends what's going on,so there won't be any awkwardness between you and your friends.
2007-09-17 19:58:20 · answer #1 · answered by demonfirelife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to sleep with him just to keep your friends thats pretty pathetic and they arent your friends. Get some self esteem and say no and if they dont like it then you can get some real friends or go back to doing him so they will like you. What a pathetic way to live.
2007-09-17 20:35:32 · answer #2 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a man. Treat him that way. He needs to hear the truth. He'll recover.
2007-09-17 20:08:01 · answer #3 · answered by Starte Christ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
restraining order or move
2007-09-17 20:05:52 · answer #4 · answered by ღOMGღ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋