For the last 2 weeks, i've been seeing this stunning lady. She's beautiful and well fit, but won't let me touch her long, wavy hair, and now i know why. Last night we both got drunk, she was paraletic and crashed out on my sofa, revealing her ears. One was literally twice the size of the other one. I didn't know whether to piss myself laughing or s**t myself with fright. This morning she left in a strop because i was still in shock and i think she suspects i know about her ears. She is a great girl and really enjoy her company, but those ears are well freaky. What should i do? need some advice!!!
2007-09-17 20:37:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can't believe i'm getting slagged off. I think anyone would be a bit freaked out, but i haven't even mentioned dumping her!
2007-09-17 20:53:11 · update #1
I notice that it's only women slagging me off. My lady has just phoned, wants to meet later to talk, so she knows i'm not a shallow pig. I'm really looking forward to seeing her, so bye,bye losers!!
2007-09-17 21:11:21 · update #2
yes it must of been a shock and now you know why your lady didn't want you to touch her hair, she is probably embarrassed by what could be seen as deformed ears, and has probably spent most her life with people taking the p**s out of her, her ears may look freaky to you but you have to remember what a great girl she is and see passed this problem, you will need to tell her that her ears are part of her and you will love her for who she is please try not to focus on what could be seen as a slight imperfection, nobodies perfect, love her for what she is on the inside and not for how she looks, I'm sure you can prove all those people who were quick to judge you wrong I don't think you are shallow you have just had a bit of a shock and when you have a minute to think you will see it doesn't really matter, so just reassure your girlfriend and I'm sure you can both get back to having a good time together, good luck I hope it works out for you.
2007-09-17 22:52:19 · answer #1 · answered by fruitcake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess we are lucky she did not see you while you slept?? Anything to hide??
If you are going to judge a woman by her ears then you are a very shallow person.
Look at the woman that plays Everybody love's Raymond's wife.
She has some big ears for a little gal and yet she rakes in millions!!
Do not judge unless you want to be judged!
2007-09-18 03:44:48 · answer #2 · answered by kitty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quit being so shallow, she obviously feels embarrassed by her ears and how do you think she would feel if you freaked out like a little boy?
If you like her and think she's beautiful you should stay with her, otherwise go ahead and be a jerk about it.
2007-09-18 03:44:05 · answer #3 · answered by Ferris 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It isn't her fault that one ear is bigger than the other. It could have been a birth defect or happened in an accident. Be open and honest with her and ask her straight out why are her ears that way.
2007-09-18 03:43:18 · answer #4 · answered by Momof1 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You creep!
If you like her you'll carry on seeing her, tell her that you know, and support her.
Try putting yourself in her shoes for a minute, and think how you would like to be treated if it was you who had a large ear.
She can always have plastic surgery on her ear, but there is no hope for someone who has a personality like yours!
2007-09-18 03:44:52 · answer #5 · answered by Copper 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its the person inside that counts, not just the looks. If you really like her and you both get on well together then whats stopping you! You'l soon get over the ears, you might start to really like them!!!! Good Luck
2007-09-18 04:26:33 · answer #6 · answered by Tabs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you feel about her? How would you feel if it were you in the same position as she? She must be devistated every time she has to look in the mirror. Can you look into your's if you actually allow such a small detail be a factor in your relationship?
2007-09-18 04:02:48 · answer #7 · answered by maggieeld 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her dont let her go all because of a big ear!
To me you dont sound like you deserve her, you sound very shallow!
2007-09-18 07:02:24 · answer #8 · answered by Kelly J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wasnt being horrible by the way i just ment that there are more important things in life like looking perfect. im not perfect and i've never had a boyfriend but i hope that one day some one will like me for who i am. thats all i ment
2007-09-18 04:00:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt give a f**k because im not a "shallow pig" as most women think guys are
2007-09-18 03:43:22 · answer #10 · answered by The Eternal Warrior? 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋