im 25 and we are dating..but he is married and happy. he is happy with me too. in fact i love him. im confused.
2007-09-17 20:40:20 · 21 answers · asked by miami 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't date married men. It will only lead to heartache.
2007-09-17 20:42:58 · answer #1 · answered by Marc M 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, this can happen. I'm sixty-one myself, but I couldn't see myself hooked up with a 25-year old. When I was forty, I had a nineteen year-old girlfriend and it worked okay, but neither of us thought it would be long-term. She just didn't live in the same era that I did. Still, like I said, it worked pretty well. We had strong sexual attractions for each other but we talked each other into going back to our ex's. Going back worked out for both of us too. This isn't much of an answer, is it?
2007-09-18 03:51:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's happy b/c you do what she won't do but you'll never totally have him. Of course he is going to tell you he is happy with you b/c he wants whatever it is that you give him to continue but he told you he is married & happy. You're just someone who gives what he wants. Like a kid, they want their cake & they want to eat it all too. It's not right but you're not in love, it's a challenge, perhaps a competiton for you to possibly see if he'll leave his wife for you. Won't happen & for you to invest feelings in to someone who already told you he is happily married is not smart & the best way to become unconfused is to leave this supposedly happy man alone & stop catering to his ego. You're 25, stop wasting your time on someone that is married.
2007-09-18 04:10:14 · answer #3 · answered by Unique Soul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont need to be confused, its easy to figure out. The Depends are on aisle 5 and the butt wipies are in the baby section. Renting a wheelchair also could be cheaper than buying as you may not need it too long.
2007-09-18 03:44:50 · answer #4 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well Sweetie,
what it all boils down to, is.............HOW BIG IS HIS BANK ROLL????
Your in the "HOT SEAT" baby, and you'd better hope that his the "one" that wears his WEDDING RING, is alot more "UNDERSTANDING" than I would be if I found out my HUSBAND was RUNNING around with a little TRAMP that was young enough to his GRANDAUGHTER.
My advise to you is, KARMA WILL GET YA IN THE END..HOW CAN YOU LOOK YOURSELF IN THE MIRROR - KNOWING THAT UNDERNEATH IT ALL , YOU CAN'T SINK MUCH LOWER THAN TO BE A -HOME WRECKER...
MY ADVISE IS "SHAME ON YOU"
Cause Karma is going to "bite you on the ***" when you are not looking, Just like your doing to some (probably old and innocent housewife - who has devoted her life to the CHEAT she married........ SAD, and may the good Lord forgive you,
Couldn't be any more SINCERE,
Christina Kae
2007-09-18 04:02:19 · answer #5 · answered by ckaegodbe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be afraid of BAD KARMA. i don't think u love him but maybe you are happy because he a galant financier and a good provider. and dear be afraid to go to jail and hell... that's adultery. its a shame and scandal getting involve with a married man. you are young and i bilieve you are beautiful. look for someone at your age.
2007-09-18 04:45:30 · answer #6 · answered by elishamae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.......according to me...u can b rite dat hes happy wid u....in luv no1 sees nething ......n dey just cross d limits n r fallen in luv.....b
But 1 shud also see d limits.....d regulations...d situations surrounded all over.....
U're just 25 n u r dating a person whos 60....
U said...hes happy.....hes happy wid his family.....furthrmore u said u luv him
But if u really luv him den i think 4 his happiness u can sacrifice ur luv......isnt it?
U can stop luving him n just treat him a frend of urs.....dats it....coz hes happy wid his family...n his family luves him too...so y shud u go to him n date him??!
On d oder hand...u know hes so older to u.....so d decision of changing ur mind is perfect 4 u...as well as 4 him....4 his happiness....
2007-09-18 03:46:45 · answer #7 · answered by Neha 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
are u serious? he's old enough to be your grandfather!!! besides i can't imagine anything u'd find interesting in an old man like dat. respect the fact that he's married, you don't wanna be sued for alienation of affection...
2007-09-18 03:47:09 · answer #8 · answered by babybear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know what the word "MARRIED" means, better not get married at all.
If you really love him. do it gently, (you don't wanna hear anything snap!) and have problems finding an excuse to cover up the affair.
...but if you just love his humor and fatherlike image.... and he's madly inlove with you...
....make sure you have your name on his will!
Mwahahah! : )
2007-09-18 03:50:59 · answer #9 · answered by jace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK I do believe we've found the next...Anna-Nicole Smith a.k.a. Vickie Lynn
2007-09-18 04:25:25 · answer #10 · answered by poobear2710 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋