I am 24yrs old while she is 27yrs old. My friend recommended me this girl and I have not currently called her. Just sending SMSes. It seems we have been SMSes each other for quite some time. We also exchanged pics. Two questions:
1. Is it ok for me to have a relationship with a girl 3 yrs older than me?
2. Any guidelines / webpages on how to talk effectively with a girl?
Thanks all.
2007-09-17 21:38:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No problem at all. It is a perfectly acceptable age difference.
As for talking with a woman, mostly you need to find out about her such as,foods she likes, favorite sports, movies she has seen that she enjoyed, favorite music, favorite vacation place, does she have pets, does she have siblings, what type work does she do and does she enjoy it, what is her religion, does she enjoy drinking, does she like country or urban atmosphere, does she eventually want to get married and have children. Give her lots of sincere compliments. Tell her about yourself too.
2007-09-17 21:48:59 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is fine, but make sure you know about her PERSONALITY first. Some older girls can be a bit immature, and just want a younger boyfriend for an ego boost. If she is a mature and genuine girl (and the chances are that at 27 years old, she will be) then go for it.
See what you can find out about her life and lifestyle thus far. Some older girlfriends may have a string of ex-boyfriends, and all the 'issues' that go with them. If she says the words " it's complicated " then you might want to reconsider!
I don't mean to put you off, just to make you aware. If this girl comes from personal reccommendation then she is probably worth getting to know, so go that bit further and call her. Just invite her along for something pretty innocuous like a drink, and find out more about her. See if you can find out some things from her friends if you know them. Then you will have some conversation ice breakers.
Older girls want somebody they can get to know, and they can talk to, rather than JUST to provide the physical aspect. If you can come across as somebody with a good mind, and somebody who is worth getting to know more, then you will be onto a winner. She will respect you for that.
A good book you could read for advice is 'HOW TO PULL GIRLS' by Julia Branchi (you can find it in good bookshops and on good ordering websites). This is a dating manual written BY a bird, so it gives insider's advice, and tells you the things to avoid, and the avenues which will bring you success. Just take the 'humour' with a pinch of salt and don't read too much into it, the book can get a bit sarcastic at times.
You are probably the best judge of this girl, and also of yourself. Call her, go that little bit further, and then see what happens. Good luck.
2007-09-17 22:23:34 · answer #2 · answered by The Global Geezer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're both adults so age is nothing but a number. Don't let that keep you from pursuing her. As far as effectively talking to her goes just be yourself. If you can message back and forth you can talk to her face to face. She must like you somewhat, she hasn't stopped answering back.
2007-09-17 21:47:44 · answer #3 · answered by dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not any longer correct. 3 years is not any actual; age distinction. in case you're extremely in love along with her and able to committ to her for existence, then you're waiting. in case you have any doubts in any respect do no longer carry via on the marriage purely yet. determine you have pronounced funds, little ones, faith,and so on.The extra open you're with one yet another until now you get married, the extra constructive ther marriage is going to be.
2016-10-09 09:39:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course its ok. age should not be a barrier for love. who knows you may have a lot in common, plus it's not like she's 20 years or older.
2007-09-17 21:44:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is absolutely ok, be yourself, no need for instructions, let things take their course, more fun that way, good luck.
2007-09-17 21:44:26 · answer #6 · answered by joe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's ok... you're both adults.
2007-09-17 21:41:45 · answer #7 · answered by one of twelve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt matter how old u are, u love her , come get her
2007-09-17 21:43:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its perfectly okay of cos
2007-09-17 23:58:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's ok
why it would'nt be ok ?
have confidence in you.
be yourself
2007-09-17 21:44:48 · answer #10 · answered by lollol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋