Don't give me any of the BS like "I still love him, nomatter what" or if you're married "I vowed Til Death Do us part" because obviously the guy has no qualms about breaking either of them.
Honestly, any woman that stays with a guy that has punched her in the face is the stupid one in the relationship. And just like one of my sisters, if there is absolute proof of his repeated unfaithfulness, why do you not even think twice about taking him back? He obviously doesnt give a damn about you if he's bumping pelvises with the chick that lives three doors down from you.
PLEASE explain this to me.
And as a preemptive strike, any chick that answers this with some idiotic "Love conquers all" crap, you are a bag of douche.
-D
2007-09-17 21:46:47 · 5 answers · asked by GoonterTheJellyDog 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
P.S.
Just incase someone else is mistaken, I am a guy myself.
2007-09-18 05:05:39 · update #1
thank u may GOD bless you for this question. unfortunately besides the stated obvious (the disease of stupidity) there isn't any other sane answer so I would aslo like to kno. Send me an email, im me, something, Just go to my pg and clicl email or I.M. OK?
2007-09-18 13:15:32 · answer #1 · answered by OMOTAYO.A. A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have gotten into several fights. I feel like I am to blame a little for when he hits me; I kinda of egg him on.
For instance, tonight we got in a fight, I can't remember who touched who first; I do however remember pushing him and then he hit me in my back really hard. Later he was standing there and his belt was unbuckled so I pulled it out of the loops and then he grabbed it from me and hit me with it. So am I the nut?? Am I to blame in this situation. I have even told him not to hit me and he says he doesn't care, he'll do it again...
After he hit me with the belt I got in the car and left but I only got about half way down the street before I turned around and tried to resolve, but he won't communicate when he is angry and it takes him long to calm down; I'm talking hours or even days... Can I please get some opinions?
2007-09-21 15:36:35 · answer #2 · answered by Audlee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time they are conditioned by the husband or bf to believe that they are worthless, and no one else would want them. Those type of men usually prey on insecure women, so that they can be in control.
2007-09-17 21:55:36 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I with you girl,a guy never hit me but for sure if my bf does that I LEAVE HIM rite on the spot and the same goes for cheating,if i see or hear and proove that he did/does cheat i wud leave him right there and then and probably kick him in the "balls" aswell for the hurt he caused me,it will definitely not help that he cheated but it will make me feel better to know that he is hurting on that moment!
2007-09-17 22:02:07 · answer #4 · answered by ant 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The only answer I can think of is that she is still hoping that he'll change and she can still save their relationship. Another is that they have mental problems that they need to deal with!!!!!!!
2007-09-18 00:42:29 · answer #5 · answered by milfeulle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋