Family & Relationships - 24 August 2007

ok well im going into 8th grade and there are these two different classes i could take. one of them is algerbra (which im REALLY good at. and the other one is called math 8) i really want to take algerbra but my mom wont let me. she is always screaming at me and i just cant stand it anymore. shes always mean to me and i dont know y. my mom and dad are divorsed and my life i REALLY REALLY hard on me. my mom wont even get me new school clothes. i have to wear the same stuff as last year. and she always thinks that i want to be like my friends but i dont. my sisters are constantly yelling at me and she doesnt even do anything about it. shes not a bad mom just a REALLY hard one to get along with. PLEASE answer it will help me a lot. thanx

2007-08-24 08:57:21 · 19 answers · asked by bxgfsbf 2 in Family

I broke up with the guy that i have been with for 4 1/2 years because of his inability to be more grown up and responsible... well, of course we love eachother and he doesn't want to let it go.. said he would change and do whatever it took... ( which is a repeat answer over the years ). well today i met a guy that caught my attention.. i have already agreed to have dinner with the X tonight to talk things over.. should i pursue the new guy or wait???

2007-08-24 08:56:50 · 3 answers · asked by Jeanette 6 in Singles & Dating

I am going to college in Septmeber and I will recieve extra loan money from what was leftover from other loans. My aunt, whom I am living with, would like to borrow a few hundred dollars to stock up on groceries for the family (including me). Should I ask her to pay it back? Some of it? It is my money but I am living with her and eating some of the food she'll buy... What should I do? I am having a hard time with this decision... Help!!

2007-08-24 08:55:53 · 5 answers · asked by Shelly 3 in Family

i posted comment and i spelt pregnant wrong! and the thing that bothers me is like omg....sorry you know nothing about me and i accidentally spelt something wrong.... but only you wouldnt know is that im deaf..and sometimes i dont spell right because of the way i think it sound.... i became deaf when i was 8 and im 21 sry. people need to relie what they say can be hurtfull!

2007-08-24 08:51:00 · 23 answers · asked by Dee 2 in Friends

Or is she really "flattered" that you like her?

2007-08-24 08:50:42 · 26 answers · asked by Darp_L 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-24 08:50:28 · 11 answers · asked by davehale82 1 in Singles & Dating

she started seeing this person from the begining of our separartion, that is the reason i think she left. We had our problems like any other marriage but i didnt think it would go this far. I never cheated on my wife and I had all the trust in the world in her. She says that the reason she was not because of him, which I dont beleive. So through out our separation she was still seeing this person, so I told her that if she is happy with that person to go with him and do the divorce, I told her that I havent done the divorce because I never wanted this, since she is the one that left she should do it, but she wont. She says that she wants to get along with me right now, but I told her that either way we will because we have a beautiful child togehter. I still love her, but I think she is afraid of divorce because she knows everything will change, she finds any excuse to call me and even invites me to go out with her, so what does she really want?

2007-08-24 08:48:03 · 7 answers · asked by Pete 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He is my older friend's older brother, and it's fine with her, what should i do...

2007-08-24 08:46:39 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Alright so my boyfriend of 3 years is an amazing guy. He was in the US marine corps. and did his duty. He has a job and plays in a band. He cooks for me when him and I are home together and is my best friend. But the romance is gone. He is 23 and I am 21 and he has no libido. On top of all this is combat buddy is his best friend and is now on the war path to break it off between my boyfriend and myself. His Best Friend "RY" has been through a really bad divorce and has been through girls like water through your hand. He is constantly yelling a me about how I treat my boyfriend. As for instance when I yelled at my boyfriend for driving hom drunk at 3 in the morning when he should of jut stayed there. I am faithful and always supportive of whatever my boyfriend wants but I need a realtionship not a friendship. My question is this What do I do?? Do I break up with him or do I talk things out?? And how do I go about doing this??? This is my first long-term relationship and I love him alot.

2007-08-24 08:44:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We’ve been together 12 years. Yes- he still pissed me off but that’s expected. All relationships have arguments. But I get to the point where I don’t want him to touch me when Im pissed.
Sometimes I feel like I lead him to other women but sometimes Im so pissed I don’t even care! I love him don’t get me wrong but usually a fight at night ends up with me Refusing to make love or Even sending him to the Sofa… Am I wrong??

2007-08-24 08:44:09 · 7 answers · asked by ஐslimeyfinger 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-24 08:39:58 · 5 answers · asked by mettle_lady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Recently my bf has been trying to convince me to move to Dallas because he says the commute he makes to and from work is stressing him out so much that he can't handle it. He works in downtown dallas and it takes him an hour and a half each way.
We just moved into a new house (we rent) a few months ago and I love the neighborhood and the house is affordable and overall awesome. We have a one year old that I take to an in home daycare that takes great care of her and treat her like she's family. I also work in Dallas, though not as far of a drive but I have no qualms with the commute.
I feel like I've put forth so much effort into finding a babysitter, a home, and a good job. i've done all of these things w/out his help. I feel like i've just gotten settled and now he wants to move just so he doesn't have to drive as far to work. all of our friends live in our town and it's cheaper than living in dallas.
should i stick to my guns and refuse to move for a 5th time in 3 years?

2007-08-24 08:38:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am torn and just don't know how to handle this.
I was drunk and this guy friend of mine who knows my fiance and I are on the rocks kissed me. I kissed him back. Normally if I heard this I would think of myself as a cheating whore but I also feel my fiance pushed me to this. He keeps lying to me and treating me horrible. I asked him to move out of my apartment and he won't. We fight constantly but I am VERY forgving and keep taking him back everytime he messes up (to the best of my knowledge he has not cheated on me) The day I kissed someone else I came home from work and found my fiance' pilled up and passed out. I couldn't handle it I flipped out and went out with my friends, this is when the kiss occured. I feel really horrible and guilty but then again I really don't think my fiance cares about me anymore he barely talks to me, he is always high (which kills me) He says such nasty stuff to me and I fear he will overdose I cry myself to sleep like 3 times a week.

2007-08-24 08:38:27 · 16 answers · asked by mussanon 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

The ex started dating (online) weeks after starting our seperation.She seems happy. Why do they say to wait, get to know yourself agin. Can you date during and after transistion. We were married 13 years have 3 kids

2007-08-24 08:38:15 · 9 answers · asked by Steven K 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-24 08:35:46 · 15 answers · asked by somesome 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 1/2 yrs. I'm wanting a committed relationship (marriage & family) while he has never felt ready to commit- wanting more life experience, freedom, sexual experience- although he has been faithful and loves me. I'm 34, he's 27- we're in different stages of life. I am almost 4 months pregnant with his child, I don't want to be a single mom. He told me that if it weren't for the child he would choose his freedom over the relationship, however, he has agreed to live with me and co-parent and try to work out the relationship to the best of his ability. He has mixed feelings about the relationship, and he wants space to feel his anger, depression, fantasies about other women, etc. Am I holding onto a romantic ideal of wanting an affectionate, loving, committed partnership- is this expecting too much in this situation? We do love & care for each other, yet I understand how he feels life pushed him into this- Can this story have a happy ending?

2007-08-24 08:35:19 · 31 answers · asked by oceanlotus108 2 in Marriage & Divorce

it seems like infidelity is everywhere. every book i read, movie i watch or people i know seems like there is cheating going on everywhere i look. as a newlywed with problems already how is one to have any hope for a faithful marriage in these times???

2007-08-24 08:34:58 · 10 answers · asked by questiongurl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-24 08:33:14 · 3 answers · asked by Haroldian 2 in Weddings

Ladies, how did you or do you feel when your boyfriend/fiance/husband leaves you for another woman of a different race? I'm not racist by all means, but it felt like a total slap in the face when my ex and I broke up(mutually, we weren't even ready to break up, but we were heading down different paths and started to grow apart)...and he went and got himself a white girl (no offense). My ex and I are both black. I was just wondering what other women felt if they went through this before. Please no ignorant comments...this question is not meant to be racially offensive.

2007-08-24 08:30:46 · 5 answers · asked by Banorange 3 in Singles & Dating

ok so me and my boyfriend would have been together for a year on sunday..we took a break from january/febuary to march...anyway he went away in april for business purposes and is coming back tomorrow but my problem is that i may be pregnant by my ex [we had sex in July] like i said i kno it was wrong but i hadn't heard from my boyfriend is like months. Anyway i have to questions.
IF i am should i tell him and risk him leaving??
or should i get an abortion [even though im completely against them]

and dont call me a whore or tell me thats what i get cause i know what i did was messed up but everyone makes mistakes.

2007-08-24 08:30:07 · 33 answers · asked by Pebbles 4 in Singles & Dating

I don't even just like more than one guy at a time, If I like someone I like them for a long time. If I go out with someone, I don't even look at other guys. But my friends are into dating multiple people you know? I can't do that period.

2007-08-24 08:28:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm so aggrevated with the place I work at right now. Today someone came into to pick up their daughters glasses. Usually the doctor's depense them to fit them to the patient but the patient was not with her mother. I saw they had already been placed in a case and where her old lenses put in a frame. I placed the glasses on the counter and took the payment from the mother. The mother had the glasses in hand and the doctor I work for looked at them and said "Why are these going out like this?" He pointed everything out to me that was wrong; the case needed a sticker with our office name in it, there was no cleaning cloth, & the glasses weren't straight. My whole thing is we have optitians in our office who are employed just to despense and get glasses out to patients why didn't they put it up to go out correctly. Why should I have to do their job plus mine? They never do their own job and expect me and the other two women I work with to do it for them.

2007-08-24 08:27:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've always had dreams of travel, helping others, and doing things to make life seem more worthwhile. But my wife wants the traditional house, car, and much $$$$. These things don't matter much to me. I understand you need money to get things, but it's not one of my priorities. I have a good job and make a better that average salary. The only reason i don't quit is because it pays well, but I feel empty and my life feels so pointless. My wife says I'm a dreamer and spends (our/mostly my) money on things and we already have enough sh**t already! I don't want to be rich, just comfortable and happy. Our different spending habits are causing LOTS of friction. Any answers? Thnaks.

2007-08-24 08:26:17 · 5 answers · asked by Nash M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love him dearly, we are not married, he is still not ready for that. But I have a problem? There is this guy who fixes our cars for the company that I work for he is so fine, I told him this, and that I would love to run away with him, he said his wife would not like that, yet he told her what I said and she laughed and asked him if he asked me if I wanted the oil changed on the car. he told her that I come in with our cars all the time. she does not seem to have a problem with him flirting. What do I do when I am around him I get butterflies in my stomach, have not had that feeling in a long time!!!!!!!!!

2007-08-24 08:25:47 · 48 answers · asked by tabbycat3840 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i dated this guy four years ago hes now 71 and im 26 im now married. When my aunt found out i dated him she told me she always had a crush on him,but thats my ex and she wouldnt do a thing like that and we laughed it off. Well, he lives around the corner from me and she came over last night and told me she had to go work overnight and could her daughter stay over. Ok i went walking for excercise early this morning and she was parked and apparently spent the night over. This is my mothers sister and i think that is nasty for her to go behind me and do that. She dosent know that i know what she did because when i talked to her this morning she told me she was on the way home from work and she was so tired. I laughed because i knew she was lying!!. She said whats so funny? I said i was just laughing at something on t.v. . I think that was so nasty of her. What do you think?

2007-08-24 08:23:35 · 8 answers · asked by domojj24 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-24 08:23:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't understand why boys don't like me. I am smart and funny. I wouldn't say I am gorgeous but I didn't hit EVERY branch when I fell off the ugly tree. Why is this, Anybody have an appropriate answer?

2007-08-24 08:20:31 · 15 answers · asked by Kendra. 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

from a guy who she used to like, and now the guy likes her but doesn't know if she likes him still?

2007-08-24 08:20:18 · 43 answers · asked by m deal 3 in Singles & Dating

like lots of fun together or what you wish they would do for you things you do to have fun if you know what i mean??? give me you think is fun i just want to know ??

2007-08-24 08:19:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he feels like. Then what to do? What is the right thing to do, replying to his messages or not? is ot better not to reply?

2007-08-24 08:19:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating