Family & Relationships - 24 August 2007

2007-08-24 06:31:34 · 9 answers · asked by jean 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband regularly plays an online RPG (WoW, to be more specific). He plays frequently plays with a woman who lives across the country from us…they’re “leveling buddies”. My husband is a great guy, and he’s very open with their relationship (for example, I can go to the computer any time and read what they are chatting about), but it still kind of bothers me. I just have this fear in the back of my head that they will develop a strong bond, and then feelings for each other may become more than platonic. I’m not sure if I am being overly controlling or paranoid, I wouldn’t put it past myself….I just have such mixed emotions because I always hear about online romances and stuff like that. Do you think that I have cause for concern, or should I just let him be? I’m jealous by nature, so I really make an effort to not over react to things, but my head is just so confused with this one. I just need an outside opinion. Help?

2007-08-24 06:30:19 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I haven't heard a word from him in almost three weeks.The last thing was an IM where he said he was sick and he would let me know when he'll come back. He doen'st answer his phone to me or anyone else. I was in contact with my in laws everyday to find out if they knew anything. Days went by, and finally my mother in law told me that she knew that he wouldn't come back, 'cause he was with another woman in Mexico and living with her and her family. I felt angry towards her, 'cause I didn't know what to do and there she was knowing the truth and witholding it from me. She still wants me to drop of my little girl at her home at least one day per week. I do not want to do that, since I do not trust her anymore. If she was capable of denying important information, what she could do if something happens to my daughter and she won't tell me ? Am I rigth or wrong? Please I need some advice. Thank you

2007-08-24 06:28:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my x girlfriend have been togeather for about 2 years she was my first love and we just broke up cuz her mom was sick of how she was actin and she thought i was the resone and a week later she started datin a new kid and she seems to like him alot but im still in love with her qand she dosnt act like she loves me so doe any opne think she will come bak or no?

2007-08-24 06:25:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hello,

I was wondering about this.... Ever since a very young age, i never truly understood the concept of of the guy paying for every date. Especially if you see your girlfriend almost every day, it can rack up quite a bit of money. I dated 2 girls in my life that even on the first date they offered to pay half... I didnt let them.. but i LOVED the offer and it gave them more brownie points in my eyes. After a few dates I will let them pay for 1/2 because well for starters i dont make TONS of money and also i think its fair. Whats your opinion? Please post your age and sex.

Thank you,
Adam

2007-08-24 06:20:18 · 18 answers · asked by gohma310 1 in Singles & Dating

if you were sitting next to a girl at a party on the couch totally clothed with shoes off and you just had the idea to tickle her, you know her but nothing about her ticklishness status and you have one shot to really get her good, where is the one spot you would go for first if you had nothing to base it on, but where you think nearly every girl is probablly extremely ticklish? second spot if that didn't work?

2007-08-24 06:18:44 · 10 answers · asked by bd 2 in Friends

OK ... in a nutshell: Been dating a guy - several years. We had a LOT of problems in the past -- engaged at the time -- and got back together about 1 1/2 years ago. I knew then that he had a lot of financial problems. [One of the reasons we split up]. He then got an apt. nearby and a decent job - which I required of him - and had been on the path to regaining my trust and saving our relationship. When his 1 yr. lease was up, he AGAIN moved in with me [since he was never at his apt. anyway] and was to pay me AT LEAST half the rent. I had been paying for all bills on my own - even though he stayed with me. With him, Its been 1 struggled step forward and he winds up 3 steps back. I have been helping him at every turn - even putting a small debt onto my cc @ 0%. Now he owes me 2 mos. of 1/2 rent, along w/other money I have lent him. And today he's gotta put $450 toward truck repair. I tell him that something must be done. He's upset with his finances but makes no changes.

2007-08-24 06:18:26 · 20 answers · asked by jo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have wireless internet and just over the past few days I have had trouble watching videos off of YouTube. The videos don't stream or load fast and they often pause. Has anyone else been having this problem or know off a solution to the problem? Any help with be appreaciated.

2007-08-24 06:16:22 · 2 answers · asked by L 4 in Family

Please help Ive been looking for her for 13 year and know I know were she is we have 3 buiteful kid together and I realy want to see my kids I sent a letter to her in hope she will call or e-mail me I ve remarried and have a 8 year with my wife now and my little girl ask me all the time if she will meet her brother and sisters and know Ive went this far want do you think I need to do Note me and my ex wife left me on bad term she said if I would ever divorce her I would never see my kids Please help

2007-08-24 06:06:35 · 29 answers · asked by hancockerik 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-24 06:00:00 · 7 answers · asked by Shapria C 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been together 2 years, been married 1 year. We have a great life together, we know that we love each other, but with working all the time the romance has gone out of our lives, I'm one of those women who is very affectionate, and wish he would show it.
We have a great sex life, and we do show we care outside of the bedroom, after I have asked for a cuddle or a kiss, but I would love more ... I know that sounds selfish, but when I say more I mean more cuddles, more kisses, just affection more often.
He has never surprised me ... ever, he doesnt buy birthday, anniversay or christmas presents, even though I go out of my way to find something special for him......
Any ideas on what I could do in a subtle way to get him to show more affection. (his family are not ones to show any affection, his mum admitted that they are not ones to say that they love you or anything like that, so he has gone through his whole life like that)

2007-08-24 05:58:14 · 13 answers · asked by todamnlovable 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-24 05:56:37 · 58 answers · asked by gummy bear 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have always, always known that when the time came I wanted to use a deep, rich blue in my wedding (if you want to see what I'm talking about, David's Bridal calls it Marine) http://www.davidsbridal.com/bridalparty.jsp

Now that the time has come, I don't know what other colors to use with the blue. The only thing I can really think of is a lighter blue and silver. I want one color for the bridesmaids (the dark blue) and then another for the maid of honor, but I don't really want the maid of honor in light blue, and I don't think silver will work. Plus I feel the dark blue with silver is too common. I have also considered the dark blue with either creme or like a buttercreme (pastel yellow). What do you think? I don't want to use white because I don't want the maid of honor in white (for obvious reasons). Thanks.

2007-08-24 05:52:08 · 21 answers · asked by barelyblue82 3 in Weddings

my MOM has full custody.
my DAD has visitation.

I grew up in Nashville. When my parents got divorced.my MOM moved to California.

Ive always tried to live with my dad, but my moms always told me i dont have a choice, i cant live with my dad.

My mom and i dont really get along, my dad and i are like bestfriends.

im 16 years old.
what do i do?? OR
What are the rules!?

2007-08-24 05:51:01 · 9 answers · asked by taylorbrinton14 1 in Family

I want to know if your marriage is still the same since your first years together? Or was your first couple of years were ruff living with each other and later charged for the better?

The reason I want to know is because I've been married over an 1yr and I feel that we have an distanced between each other. We don't communicate as much, he also neglect me and, don't bother taking me out but when it comes to friends he doesn't hesitate to say no.

Is this normal for being a newly wed? FYI he was in the army and done 2 tours in Iraq and I can say mental he is not all there. But at the same time I can't compare being g/f and b/f and being married because they are both different. Because, I don't know if I can continue this marriage if I don't have the love from my husband.

2007-08-24 05:50:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am not 'in love' with him. Will these feelings come with time? What should I do?

2007-08-24 05:47:55 · 21 answers · asked by Laurie J 2 in Singles & Dating

A good friend of mine is sharing the phone bill with me and he's always paid on time in full. Well, twice in the last couple months his phone as been "stolen". He filed claims with the police and work (one was stolen at work) and now i have the phone bill in my hand and several numbers appear he claims to know nothing about not to mention $50 worth of downloads. I called 2 of the numbers and these ppl do know him. I need to find out if he's lying and if he is why would he have filed claims paying $140 out of his pocket? I'm talking to the company tomorrow to get the charges taken off the bill but has anyone else ever had this happen? Is it a form of fraud? if he claimed it stolen it would be shut off. I'm just trying to figure the best way to handle it. Any suggestions?

2007-08-24 05:45:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

genetice test report

2007-08-24 05:43:58 · 7 answers · asked by babygirl23282003 1 in Family

Ive had 5 girlfriends in the past and I have cheated on all but one of them. I think I have a problem I just cant say no to pretty girls. The next girl I meet I dont want to mess up the relationship with does anyone know of any pointers or ideas that would help me straighten up

2007-08-24 05:42:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my fiance works with a girl that likes him. She has a boyfriend to. He says he only likes her as a friend. When he calls her it is not around me and he will call 2 to 4 times until she picks up. Then he will call her boyfriend? What does this sound like.

2007-08-24 05:42:07 · 8 answers · asked by surfawave 1 in Singles & Dating

From my picture, do ytou think I'm pretty? Rate from 1-10. I know it's small but please do your best.

2007-08-24 05:39:24 · 44 answers · asked by That Blonde Rebel 5 in Singles & Dating

what are the signs that he's in love with me??

2007-08-24 05:38:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a young college student, and this job is not my career. In fact, I am actually thinking about looking for another job anyways.

I am really starting to fall for this guy I work with, and I think that he feels the same way.

I want to show him that I like him without being too obvious....so what is a good way to go about doing this?

2007-08-24 05:37:57 · 17 answers · asked by lala2007 2 in Singles & Dating

i overheard my younger sister talking to one of her friends on the phone (she is 16) she was talking about this guy she likes and wanted to know how to get his attention...then i heard her say well i wonder if i told him i am a virgin if he would want to hang out. my mouth dropped...ok so question first off do i say something to her....second if a girl (any age) came to you and in the middle of the conversation said she was a virgin what would you do. take advantage of it or respect it...i dont know how old this boy is, but it still scares me.

2007-08-24 05:37:30 · 13 answers · asked by puppy love 6 in Singles & Dating

when i was younger my mother tried to hurt herself and my mother to the extent of even attempting to kill all three of us (my sister,myself, and herself).she is mentally unstable and has taken a lot of my father's money. that is why i decided to live with my father. the problem with him is he has a temper and uses my brother and i for granted. he also is a slob, we have a dog and her cage hasn't been cleaned in a really long time, i can never clean it because he locks her up in the cellar. whenever my mom sends people to inspect the house my dad makes us clean day and night, even if i have a report due the next day. all he says it that i don't have to go to school and i can just turn it in late. he makes me eat unhealthy food and i can never exerscise because i always have to do work for him, the only free time i have is when i'm sleeping for my regular 4 hours or if i'm on the computer. right now i have to do some of his work. but he stepped outside so i was able to type this. help!?!

2007-08-24 05:33:11 · 2 answers · asked by czizzle 3 in Family

He's 32 and i am not sure how old she is; some say only 15; i haven't actually met her but cannot believe she's that young; but maybe 18 or so...
But here's the strange thing: we are close friends; so close it's caused problems in my marriage; my husband doesn't like how close we are. But he has never mentioned this woman/girl...though he has in the past, and even today talked of his ex wife...with great fondness...and high respect.
But this girl, never once. Last night when I was talking with him, she came up and he handed the apartment keys, confirming what I knew already; they are living together. He didn't introduce me. Later I sms'd him, "why have you not introduced me to the woman you gave your keys to; who is it? I am sad because I thought we were close friends, but maybe I thought wrong."

Though today when i talked to him he acted like we were best buds again, even apologizing for his phone being turned off last night (the battery was dead he explained), so the question:

2007-08-24 05:32:23 · 14 answers · asked by karen i 5 in Singles & Dating

I've only seen her a couple of times in my life. Both my brother and I will be attending. How much money should we give from the both of us? (We are not giving a gift, as they only want money.)

2007-08-24 05:31:54 · 15 answers · asked by kiki 1 in Weddings

My mate and I have been together for 6 yrs & have 3 kids (2 from my previous marriage). When we first got together we were gettin busy like bunnies now we may do it once every 2 weeks or longer. I have a very high sex drive and need it at least every other day. He works 3rd shift and I work 8am - 5pm so the only time we sleep together now is Fri. & Sat. nites. I am so sexually frustrated that I am thinking about cheating because I just cant handle all the waiting and when I do finally get it its like "no oral ,just a stick it in get off in 3 minutes type deal and I havent even had my orgasm yet" . It used 2 be so good but now ... Please give any advice!!I have tried talking to him about this and what turns me on but he even made the comment that "Talking during sex is pointless" because I told him that I like 4 him 2 talk dirty 2 me. I cant take this anymore!!!

2007-08-24 05:31:34 · 19 answers · asked by sexy_grll 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 21 and single My sibs r 13, 11, 3, and 7 months old. I also have a 17 yr old sis but i figure she can get imancpated. I cared for the 17,13 and 11 yr old for 4 yrs.

2007-08-24 05:30:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Everytime I go out with friends I think of her. Not her friends she did not know them.. I have prayed. I have cried. I have done everything I can think of to forget her but I can't shake her. Yes I was and still am deeply in love with her. However, I don't seem to move on. I hear her voice in crowds. I smell her scent sometimes. Songs come on all the time to remind me. And within an hour if I throw something away that reminds me of her she calls or shows up some where i am. I am starting to feel a little pycho. I have stayed away from her and her friends places she use to frequent. Still I cannot let go of this love for her, and until I do I can let NO one in. They will only be a bandaid on a corpse.

2007-08-24 05:27:51 · 15 answers · asked by Spanky 2 in Singles & Dating