Is it posible for me to get custody of my younger sibling whom i know my mother is abusing.?

Question

I am 21 and single My sibs r 13, 11, 3, and 7 months old. I also have a 17 yr old sis but i figure she can get imancpated. I cared for the 17,13 and 11 yr old for 4 yrs.

Answer 1

Yes, it may be possible for you to obtain custody. You must prove that you are responsible, non-abusive and able to handle the day-to-day rearing of children, as well as the financial obligations involved. This does not necessarily mean that you must have enough income yourself to raise them, but you must prove that you are able to manage any financial assistance that you may receive for their care. Your sister who is 17 can apply to be an emancipated minor based upon the fact that she is being abused in the home. Keep in mind that your siblings will probably have to admit to the abuse in court and that this may be traumatic for them. So, you might want to make sure that they have counseling available to them, as well. You are very noble to want to take over their care, but you also need to consider your own needs. You will be giving up a great deal of your young adulthood if you take on four children at this time of life. These are years that you will never get back. Please discuss this decision seriously with older adults whom you trust before deciding definitely to try for custody. The best of luck to you and your siblings.

Answer 2

Hey congrats! For being the best persont that you can be... Thank you for caring in the first place... You could probably take her to court if you wanted to but, it seems that you have already answered your own question well you have been taking care of the 17, 13, 11yr olds for 4 years now then yeah your already doing the right thing by taking them out of that home... So what happended to the 3yr old and the 7 month old baby then? Did social services come and take them away if not, then maybe a good friend could take care of them for you while theyre still young...

If you have proof then yeah you might as well take her to court to get the the 17 year old imancpated, then that way you guys could just go on living... But, yeah isn't your dad there to help you anyhow...? How are you supposed to be doing this all alone? If there's anymore problems then just let me know since I am, here okay...? I am, not sure on what I can do to help you but, I'll try here's the e-mail: [e-mail] well then see you and good luck my friend God bless!!

Answer 3

It has happened before. But you would have to gather the evidence the prooves that your mother is abusive and you would also need to prove that you are capeable of taking on the responsibility for all those children.

I would contact a lawyer as soon as possible if I were you. They can be expensive but most will give free estimates and listen to your problem. At least you can get a possible answer to your question if you consult one.

There are also organizations that will help people on a budget to get a lawer if need be. In Illinios, they are called Legal Aid. When you talk to a lawer, ask him or her if they know of any organizations like that in your state.

Answer 4

Yes. It is very possible. However, you have to understand what this is going to do. I understand you believe that abuse is going on, but this children are going to be ripped from their home by Child Protective Services and then you can go to Court to get temporary custody. It is great that you are stepping up but can you provide for all of them and yourself. Are you ready to take all of this on, if so, I would suggest either hiring or a lawyer or speaking with someone at Child Protective Services. Good luck.

Answer 5

Yes,
Get a lawyer and sue for custody. gather all the information you can about the abuse. Pictures, letters from people who, see the bruses or school officals that think your right. You can do, judt dont give up. Its gonna be hard and its gonna hurt but your sibling will thank you for it in the end. The love you have for doing the right thing will get you both through this battle.
Good luck and hope things work out for the both of you.

Answer 6

Go to your local social services and talk to them about this situation, it's definately not good if your siblings are being abused. and as you are over 21 you will need to show that you are capable of taking care of them, You must be a very Stable person, with a job, providing a good home with bedrooms for each child, and enough money to be able to support them and your self.maybe your 17year old sister can help you get things organized. It's worth a try. Get your self organized first of all. house, furniture, good steady job,. give it your best shot. and good luck hon.

Answer 7

The abuse has to be on record. Child Protective Services has to know that the children are being abused to the point that they are ready to remove them from the home. If and when the children are removed from the home, you should be able to get custody of your siblings.

Answer 8

it is possible but it would be hard.youd have to prove she is abusive plus prove that you can provide a stable loving home.it will be hard social services will conduct several home visits and you are only 21 they will take that into consideration as well.are you married?it would help if there was a support systom for you at home(ie a husband)good luck its going to be a long hard road should you decide to try

Answer 9

The 17 year old can't get emancipated because she has to prove she can financially support herself and by the time the case comes to court, she'll be 18.

Call child protection services and talk with them.

Answer 10

Possibly, it will ultimately come down to who can best provide for them, the foster system, another family member or you. Either way, if you know of an abusive situation and do not report it to the authorities, you can be found guilty of guilt by omission.