Family & Relationships - 24 August 2007

Does married men mastrubate? If yes why? Does this happen even when the wife is at home / both live together?

2007-08-24 05:27:41 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating this guy almost six months his ex wife uses the kids to call him to get a few extra hundred dollars even thought he voluntarily sends a large amount of child support and she still isnt working.I dont like it at all. I wonder how many more times he is going to let her keep doing this. She really takes advantage since 2 of the 3 kids aren't his but he loves them like his own. Do I wait and see or just straight up ask him how long hes going to keep rescuing her? Things are good between us and what happens when our relationship progresses and if were engaged, livng together I cant see standing by and watching this happen. What would you say or do?

2007-08-24 05:27:25 · 10 answers · asked by ms_sweet_real 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-24 05:26:30 · 34 answers · asked by gummy bear 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-24 05:26:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi,
My BF buys me ice cream cones and watches every move as I savour the ice cream. He says that watching me lick and sukc on the cone gives him eratic thoughts. I can see his erection through his pants. Is he some type of pervert? Should I seek help for him? Or should I ditch him?

2007-08-24 05:25:18 · 32 answers · asked by Ayumi Yamashita 1 in Singles & Dating

Im afraid of having children that resent one another. I was actually a child that resented one of my siblings and I still do. I know my parents hated it but i just didn't want to have anything to do with her. At first I was mean to her but my parents wouldn't have that so I was punished. Then I ignored her all together and complained when I had to be around her. It made her absolutely miserable. Mom would try and take things away from me like TV, toys, and dessert. All I'd do is sit in the corner and play with my fingers for hours. I dunno why. I wouldn't play with her. Touch her. I wouldn't even eat around her. To this day I still won't associate with her. If I had to do it all over again I'd probably do it all over again. I'm afraid I'll somehow pass it down to my own children (when I have them). I could try and get them to like each other but that's what MY parents did before giving up and being miserable. All it did is make me dislike her even more. So what do I do?

2007-08-24 05:24:53 · 4 answers · asked by Skyy L 1 in Family

I get irritated / frustrated when some one says what I have to do or when they give instructions to me. Mainly my wife and my boss. They tell me "do this" "do that". What is the reason? I can not survive without these two people in life. Please suggest what to do.

2007-08-24 05:23:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I like my best guy friend..but when i ask him out he always says that he just wants to stay bestfriends...what do i do?

2007-08-24 05:21:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend that is dating a married man. I've already expessed my dislike of what she is doing. I was thinking about giving up the friendship because I strongly disagree with her dating a married man. I miss being friends with her. How do I continue the friendship and be supportive of her when I don't agree with what she's doing?

2007-08-24 05:21:24 · 12 answers · asked by Shakey 2 in Friends

2007-08-24 05:20:30 · 23 answers · asked by raj the secret 2 in Weddings

I dont really care for the guy I have been dating for the last 6 weeks. I like him less and less as I see how open minded he really isnt. I feel suffocated, and I have realized, again, that I just dont care for relationships. They don't fit with who I am and who I want to be.

The stickler: His birthday is on Monday. Today is Friday. He is celebrating his birthday this weekend. ( and isnt seeing his kids to do this, and lying to their mother saying he works, when really, he will be celebrating, which I also disagree with as he only sees them on weekends!) So since he is celebrating his birthday this weekend, and I wont even be able to see him on Monday, his actual birthday, since I start school...
...how the heck do I go about this? I dont drive, and I dont want to make him drive 30 miles just so I can break up with him...and when should I? I don't want to spend this weekend with him and pretend, and mislead...but I also dont want to be rude.
yes. I need your help. Please.

2007-08-24 05:17:58 · 14 answers · asked by Britt 2 in Singles & Dating

Back in Feb. I started planning a surprise party for my mother. I had relatives come in from out of town, rented a hall, order a cake, had it catered. arranged transporation. EVERYTHING.
My mother never said "Thank you", good job, I can't believe you did this.
I stressed myself out big time for her and I got nothing positive back.
Everyone else said I did a great job. Is it too much to ask for at least a small "thank you"

2007-08-24 05:17:49 · 17 answers · asked by Ohio Girl 1 in Family

I met this amazing guy while camping about a month ago and when we met there was an undeniable mutual connection. We were inseperable the whole time and would just lay there and talk for hours.The problem is we live in different provinces.He has called me everyday since we met and we still talk for hours. I am going to visit him in 2 weeks and hes coming out here in 3 weeks after that.The other night he told me that he has to make a decision by late Sept about where to go to school and hes seriously considering transferring to the school close to me.He also said he has so much he wants to say to me, but he wants to say it in person.He has told all his friends about me and said he wants me to meet his parents. He also constantly tells me that he thinks i am amazing person and talks about the future alot.He also says he feels really lucky to have met me and he thinks we met for a reason. I am falling for him and I am sure he feels the same way.what do u think about this whole situation??

2007-08-24 05:17:22 · 10 answers · asked by kimmy_717 1 in Singles & Dating

y do guys depend on looks y cant they just love ppl the way they r

2007-08-24 05:16:27 · 11 answers · asked by bulgerjessica 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband & I have been together for over 10 years and married 7.

The other night my 13 year old stepson, whom lives with us, got cut and had to get stitches. His mom met us at the ER because she live 1 block from the hospital. I was going to leave my husband & her and go home but she said no stay with us. When it was time for him to go back she asked the doctor if all 3 of us can go. And they said yeah is this his Aunt or a friend? So she said no its his stepmom.

The doctors and nurses were completely shocked that we were both there. And even made a comment that should they keep the guards near by. Is it that odd for us to get along?

2007-08-24 05:16:02 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I didn't kill these people. When my dream started these people where already there. It was an infant and an adult. The infant had no skin on it. And me and someone els I didn't know, put them in the lake. So no-one would think we did it. Then a nieghbor saw us. So we ran and hid. When we started hidding I saw my wife there with me. And she had nothing to do with it but she was there because she loved me. Then next thing you know I was in my home town, And they where killing everyone that had something to do with the murders that was 600 miles away. And what was so wierd was that i saw my mom, step-dad, and my little 5 year old brother dead. And me and my wife left we where the only ones left alive, and we went back to the H-E-B (grocery store back home) where all these people where dead, and then some lady reconized me, and called someone els, and they where going to kill me and my wife, then i woke up. KNOW HOW WIERD IS THAT? WOULD ANYBODY HELP ME TO KNOW WHAT THIS MEANS?

2007-08-24 05:15:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How do you tell you mother that you have a boyfriend or about it?

I need feedback quick please!

2007-08-24 05:15:49 · 49 answers · asked by ~*~.M$.$D.*~* 1 in Friends

2007-08-24 05:15:36 · 53 answers · asked by themojoman_dj 1 in Singles & Dating

okay. is it wron for a guy to kiss me and then ask my sister out? what should she say???

2007-08-24 05:15:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband is in US, i want hindu marriage certificate (coimbatore district) to apply for L2 US visa.
can i get the marriage certificate without my husband. if so, what is the procedure?

2007-08-24 05:14:00 · 5 answers · asked by karthikbujja 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a 6 Yr old girl and no matter what we do for punishment she still acts up... she tells us to shut up, who cares, what ever!
you name it she says it. If we put her in the corner (6minutes) she still talks back tells us she hates up she wished we were dead and that she did it... and if we add more time she talks back worse.
We've even tried tabasco sauce, and all she will do is cry then she acts up even more. She lies and tells people that my boyfriend and I beat eachother up. We brought her to the carnival and she told people tha didn't get to go.
Shes not my daughter shes my boyfriends. She lives with us. Not her mom.

2007-08-24 05:13:34 · 6 answers · asked by bosborne2099 2 in Family

Having been simultaneously orgasmic in our earlier years, it is not without frustration that I find our sex life dwindle to that of feeling like I am the only one in the room when and if things happen. Her ambivalence, lack of apparent desire, and "muteness" in bed are very hurtful to this diehard romantic.

While she may think I am obsessed, that would only be in evidence if I asked more than once a week and I back off when I get refused. I have exhausted my patience at times when we went three months without nearly a touch, going ahead and "having my way" with her "accomodation" of my needs.

We've been thru two couples therapists over the last 10 years, about two years each. Great kids, all different but successful 13-23, but not without typical stressors. We get high marks for family success and "Great kids". I am now in individual therapy to learn ways of coping and possibly regenerating her interest and not straying.

What other coping mechanisms or leverage can be used?

2007-08-24 05:13:11 · 7 answers · asked by dadinvienna 1 in Marriage & Divorce

questions& answers. and how do you ladies coop with loneliness.

2007-08-24 05:11:18 · 7 answers · asked by steven25t 7 in Singles & Dating

I am 35 my husband is 44..........a few months ago we thought I might be pregnant and I was very concerned to how I was going to tell him because he doesn't want any more children so for days I was stressed as to how I would tell him and he knew something was wrong and kept asking until one day I got the guts to tell him he wasn't upset at all he said "if we are we are if we'er not we'er not" so a few days went by and we were watching tv and a commerical came on about women that were pregnant and were taking Paxil and had problems with the drug effecting the baby to call blah blah blah....and he asked me if that was the one that I take and I told him "no"
and then that same night he started asking if I had thought of any names....just in case....
Needless to say Im not pregnant....I have been on a new BC pill and that was why I was having the symtems and we both now that but I have yet to have a normal cycle but now all I can think about is having a baby and Idon't know how to tellhi

2007-08-24 05:10:05 · 10 answers · asked by cowgirl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-24 05:09:36 · 20 answers · asked by isras 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, i have liked my guy friend for a long time now. over the past 4 or 5 months we have become very good friends. i'm pretty sure he's interested in me and i'm beginning to have really strong feelings for him. i'm also pretty sure we have a lot of chemistry. we're really close though, we talk everyday and have been hanging out a lot lately. we see eachother, with or without other ppl 2 or 4 times a week. we do everything together.lately he's been showing a lot more affection towards me, but i dont know how to react back. like always hugs me, but holds me in his arms really close and always has his arms around me. but i'm not completely sure if he wants a relationship with me. he had a bad relationship with this girl a couple of motnhs ago, who he really liked who he's still not over and he's always pointing out other girls around me. but i know he cares about me. and we're very good friends. but he's always poking me, we tease eachother a lot and hold eachother close. what should i do?

2007-08-24 05:09:02 · 4 answers · asked by Lilly Way 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you agree? Has anyone read the book? I started reading it.. And I find it so true and helpful and realistic.. Sure, it doesn't solve all your problems, everyone is different.. but it helps a lot, it helps you in your relationship with the other sex and with yourself too, cause if you are confused, you feel more relaxed. It worked with me.. We just need to understand each other, and one of the two has to take the first step.. As in all kind of differences there can be in relationships between people..
Well, men and women, what most annoys you in the opposite sex? or you don't understand..

2007-08-24 05:09:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with my husband for 14 years (married for 4 yrs). He's a couple of years older so at 15 I was so excited an older guy actually liked me. I've grown over the years and have always wanted to do more, like work in another province/country (which I never did because it felt wrong to leave him), and I've always liked doing my own thing. He knew this going into the relationship and he always embraced it. Now, the next logical step is children, so we tried for a couple of months. But I went on a trip (alone) recently, that just enlightened me and now I'm not sure I'm ready (I'm 30) b/c I want to do more. And now he's not happy with this me. Now I'm wondering if I'm just meant to be single. That maybe I got into the marriage b/c it seemed like the next logical step and that I married him because my family and friends all felt that I was lucky to have him and not because I actually loved him. This just isn't fair to him if I'm feeling this way. I don't know what to do.

2007-08-24 05:05:59 · 10 answers · asked by confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We fight alot. And, its because I lie. I dont know why I like but, its fun...im such a bad sister. My brother knows I'm lying so why does he have to make such a big point about it? When we fight, my brother gets REALLY mad and "pissed"(thats what hes says) and he hurts me physically and curses/swears at me. My brother is a good boy with a nice heart its just that I get him really mad and annoyed. I really do love him. I dont know why i lie to him but the lie is really obvious so its not really a big deal?? I dont know but I really, really, really, do LOVE him!!! Please help!! Im sorry for writing soo much. Thanks everybody!! ♡

2007-08-24 05:05:27 · 14 answers · asked by peaceee 2 in Family

But when they wake up in the wee hours while I'm watching, they always start screaming, especially the younger ones? Should I put on some weight and wear a red fur coat instead of my favorite Speedo®?

2007-08-24 05:01:24 · 16 answers · asked by iseeyouwhenyouresleeping 1 in Other - Family & Relationships