Family & Relationships - 24 August 2007

I think dumping me because I was ugly is a stupid reason in the first place. What is so ugly about me? What can I do to stop being so ugly? http://www.myspace.com/1967allapologies1994 for pics

2007-08-24 04:14:26 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I was wondering how many people out there have been propositioned by someone wanting to have an affair. You see yesterday I was at work and this guy that works there that is 26 and married (I've met his wife) asked me out! I was a bit shocked because I'm only 17. Anyway has anyone ever flat out asked you to have an affair with them even when you've met and talked to his/ her spouse?

2007-08-24 04:12:23 · 22 answers · asked by Chelsea 5 in Marriage & Divorce

if a girl likes you, would you want her to tell you, if so, how would you like to find out??
how do you let a girl know you like her?

2007-08-24 04:08:49 · 9 answers · asked by Suzie Cullen 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-24 04:07:34 · 40 answers · asked by Danny D 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

If two married people are decent and contributing members of society but simply cannot tolerate and have a strong dislike for kids,can they still be considered good christians?

2007-08-24 04:06:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My man moved in with me and my three kids, when I was 4 mo pregnant(not his kids). I am now preg with his baby. Everything he says to me is negative, he is always threatning to leave me, i am always chasing him. now that he knows I am pregnant instead of focusing on the good, he is saying negative things, like he would fight in court to take the baby away, he's a good guy,does a lot for me, but very controlling and puts me down, disrespectfull, but at the same time he can be so nice and sweet. I feel scared of him now that if I have this baby he is going to try to take it and he is telling me to get into counciling to work out my issues, but he never lets me speak, so I have some emotianal problems cuz i can never get out what I am trying to say, he will cut me off and then go on about how dumb i am or whatever, so I just break down and cry. I have always dreamed of being with him, he was my crush and friend in college. He says I am making him yell, & a worse person. Any advice please

2007-08-24 04:06:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I own a plumbing business. Today he was still home. I was downstairs. I heard him and asked why he was still home he said he was thinking about what material to use on a job and was also thumbing through a book to see what material he could use on a job. When I came up he was watching a movie with the book on his lap. Is that a lie cause he didnt tell me he was watching tv? My husband can't watch tv and think for some reason his whole head get sucked in. When I confront him he tells me in a sarcastic tone he will never lie to me again. (Even when I ask how I look) He said when I had asked how my hair looked after going to the hair dressers "that it looks like a helmet". He also said" when you colored your hair both times it looked like ****." How do you like that truth. When I said it makes me wonder what else he is lieing about he called me a crazy women. Now I am wondering if I am over reacting. What do you think? By the way my sixteen year old was standing there.

2007-08-24 04:03:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

How can a man go about breaking up, with out looking like the total bad guy? If you were a man breaking up with a woman, how would you do it?

2007-08-24 04:02:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What I mean is that when people get divorced, it is usually the children who suffer the most. Then these children take the scars into adulthood, and perpetuate the situation. Why can't we do something about this as a society?

2007-08-24 04:01:12 · 13 answers · asked by Qyllix 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Mother wants to go to court to get custody of grandchildren and requires support letter as part of her plight.

2007-08-24 04:01:09 · 2 answers · asked by silalee 1 in Family

2007-08-24 03:55:29 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've liked this girl for almost 8 months since i met her, but the thing is i am sure she only sees me as a friend because of signs and big hints, but sometimes i get the feeling she may be interested, even a TAD, by things she may do/say...but i may be overlooking it

anyway, shes out of the country and we didnt speak for 3 weeks, she contacted me few days ago to see how i was doing. it was her birthday today and i dont know how often she checks her email so i facebooked her with a little funny message to check her gmail account because someone turned 23. the egreeting place informed me she viewed my e-birthday card but i havent heard from her, i know its only been like 10 hours but why cant i get her out of my head?

ive tried doing stuff with other girls but its hard cuz i suvk at it and i just dont try, and she keeps popping in my mind. i thought 3 weeks no talk would be good, but hasnt worked at all. any advice is great. thanks...

2007-08-24 03:49:06 · 4 answers · asked by Fred 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

About a year ago, a friend of a friend who I saw on a pretty regular basis..just stopped talking to me. She was a bit rude..ignored me, and acted rude to my parent. I couldn't understand what I did..and I asked my friend who was still talking to me what I did wrong and if she knew why the other friend was acting this way. She said she didn't know..but I have a feeling she does know..but anyway, how should I act around this person who obviously doesn't like me? Sometimes she says hello and kind of talks to me..but other times she acts like I am a wall. What do I do?

2007-08-24 03:47:29 · 20 answers · asked by Joy 2 in Friends

am planning to have a complete sexual intercourse with my bf for the first time in my life, but i heard it will be painful and that i will not be able to have sex for a whole week after the first time?
is that true or it just depends?

2007-08-24 03:47:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im doing a poll on Interracial Dating

2007-08-24 03:46:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Now I am having sexual fantacies about him. I know its not normal, so how do I stop having these fantacies?

2007-08-24 03:41:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have really huge boobs...naturally...and to me....they really are just in the way. Men talk to my chest instead of my face...it is really annoying....and I find that it is hard for men to take me seriously because they are so preoccupied with my boobs that they aren't really listening to what I have to say.

2007-08-24 03:40:20 · 17 answers · asked by genniangel0 3 in Singles & Dating

I am so confused can someone please help me! when i was preg in Oct 2006 My boyfriend's mom asked us to move in with her . we said yes! but not knowing it was a BIG mistake. The agreement was she didn't smoke in the house and when i had the baby there was no drinking in the house . It was drama from day one! she would not drive us to any appointments , do anything for us. we were trying to save money for the baby. She drinks a lot and she has a problem with it . On her days off of work which is 2 days a week she drinks . now a couple of drinks is fine but she would sit on the living room by her self and get drunk. When she was "sick" she would sleep there 2 days away. but that isn't to offend . Me and my boyfriend talked about who was gonna be in the room with me when i have the baby and we deiced my mom and my boyfriend . and if for some reason my mom didn't want to or couldn't make it then his mom would! She got really jealous. She smoked in the house while i was preg . my boyfriend said something to her and she told us if we didn't like it then move out. we didn't have anywhere else to go so we stayed. About 2 days before my due date she bought her liquor and we told her she cant go to the hospital all drunk and she said "oh well" . I had my son on a Saturday we came home on a Monday and that Thursday she drank. my boyfriend lost it and they got into a big fight about it . he poured her liquor out and she kicked us out. i told her once we got our own apt she is to have nothing to do with our kids until she gets help for her drinking. she has not bought the baby anything since he has been born and he is now 5 months. she bought him and Easter chocolate egg for Easter! Did i do the right thing or am i being selfish too?

2007-08-24 03:40:17 · 7 answers · asked by Ashtin M 1 in Family

how,when,materials required for doing so!!as my mother dint explained nicely her experience!!!

2007-08-24 03:40:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just got out of a 2moth relationship&& I want him back but he will never talk to me anymore! help??

2007-08-24 03:39:51 · 1 answers · asked by larinalt72 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-24 03:39:37 · 40 answers · asked by KIKI-BX 2 in Singles & Dating

The day that I was going to pick up my wedding dress, my brother and his wife wanted to come, apparently not to share in the joy of picking up the beautiful dress, but to announce they are pregnant with their 3rd child. And it is due 5 days before my wedding. My sister in law is saying she still wants to sing in the wedding, I told her no because we don't even know if she will be able to, seeing as how she is giving birth days before the wedding. She says that I should plan on her but have a back up just in case, and I don't want to ask someone to sing on a pending basis especially when I can't let the 'alternate' know for sure until days before the wedding. Now my whole family is acting like I am rude and not thinking logically... am I?

2007-08-24 03:39:29 · 28 answers · asked by ~Lizzy~ 3 in Weddings

Does anyone know of any good sites like this? I always thought it would be neat to have someone to email.

2007-08-24 03:34:55 · 4 answers · asked by Sara T 1 in Friends

Do all men cheat? I mean, seriously, is it just in all men's nature to cheat or is there actually males in our society that stay faithful. I have yet to come across one...so i was wondering if this is a phenominon (sp) or i'm just picking the duech bags of society.

I would appreciate serious answers here....I'm 28 and have been dating a long time and quite frankly i'm getting tired of the game. I use to love the game...but now i want a relationship with substance. The past 2 bf's i've dated have both cheated...one i chalked up to he was 23..but this one is 29 and "says" he's looking for a non-multiple partner relationship...in short he's looking to settle down. But last night he left his myspace logged on and well i went snooping. Needless to say, i found some interesting messages to a local girl. I suppose when you listen through keys you don't always like what you hear, but we've only been dating for 3 months. I'm mean, come on! cheating alrdy...for petes sake!

2007-08-24 03:31:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like a hobby..
a thing..
a hangout..
an experience..
anything u can tell me that maybe i can do so that i could experience the kind of fun you're having..

2007-08-24 03:31:29 · 35 answers · asked by TRE 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok my husband hides things that i found out myself or he desn't really tell me the truth at all. i am really trying to get to trust him but its really not working because i constantly find his sentences not matching with each other. last nite he said he emailed this person and they emailed him back. i said o i its been a while since i talk to the person can i email them from ur account. he said i used my company email at work to email them. he never ever sent me an email from his professional email. he said it desn't open because he needs lotus notes to open it. and then he acts mad or hurt and goes outside and lies on sofa. we are having a very rocky relationship any lil thing can turn into divorce because i am tired of not having the trust because i know he is good at lying even when caught.since i don't have nay proof he will never come clean to anything.i just had a baby i don't want to raise a child w/o a father. i am soo stressed. why is this happening to me.more details

2007-08-24 03:29:24 · 19 answers · asked by baby doll 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have dated him for 5 yrs. and he has been in and out of work that wasnt too reliable! He has finally found a reliable job/full time, w/benefits included! I am so happy for him because we really need this financially! this is temporary until he goes for his firemans test. We have lived together for the past 3 years in his grandmothers house and now with my mom for the past 2 yrs. He had to move out and live with his uncle across town b/c the boss for this new job lives next door there, and that is who he rides with each day! I hate it!!! I cant seem to accept this change! i am so used to being held each night by him and now NOTHING! Plus we have had issues over the years with porno and web surfing! i am insecure and that makes me feel even worse i can just picture him over there doing that crap behind my back! Yesterday he reffered to a woman as "that hot *** blonde chick"<~~~~this bothers me b/c he knows how little it makes me feel thats why he is normally good with not making these

2007-08-24 03:25:08 · 52 answers · asked by Life....it blows! 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i been married for 3yrs and im 17wks pregnant ..my husband told me he has not been happy with me ..that he never love me but he cares for me .but he dosen't want me to leave..i dont know what to think anymore what do i do ... i cant just walk away from all this ...what about my baby how can i react...

2007-08-24 03:23:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We are looking for an outdoor wedding reception location near Alexandria Bay, NY. We are not local to the area and are having problems finding pictures of Grass Point State Parks Recreation Hall and/or Pavillions?

Anyone have any pictures from a wedding they have gone to?

2007-08-24 03:21:44 · 1 answers · asked by Amis 2 in Weddings

in **** films from out side she is female from inside she is male how is possible?

2007-08-24 03:20:54 · 11 answers · asked by suhail khan 123 1 in Singles & Dating