About a year ago, a friend of a friend who I saw on a pretty regular basis..just stopped talking to me. She was a bit rude..ignored me, and acted rude to my parent. I couldn't understand what I did..and I asked my friend who was still talking to me what I did wrong and if she knew why the other friend was acting this way. She said she didn't know..but I have a feeling she does know..but anyway, how should I act around this person who obviously doesn't like me? Sometimes she says hello and kind of talks to me..but other times she acts like I am a wall. What do I do?
2007-08-24 03:47:29 · 20 answers · asked by Joy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You know, I understand that it's hard when people treat you badly. We really have to be good to ourselves in life as there are so many who are willing to do the opposite. Please; be yourself and just stay away from this person. You don't need to be fretting over people like that. You likely did nothing wrong. Just lose this person, they are no friend of yours.
Surround yourself with people who really do care. Life is too short to waste on people like you described.
If someone cares about you, they'd let you know what the difficulty is wouldn't they?
Take care
2007-08-24 03:54:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its absolutely necessary to be around this individual who, for whatever reasons don't like u, just continue to be your true self, if u know without a doubt there is nothing you have done to make her act this way, I would not worry. Another thing u can do is disassociate your self from that type of negative energy., another suggestion is, ask her why is she treating u so rudely and dis-respectful and if she does not want to respond appropiately to you, then disconnect her from your circle of friends, it appears something has been said or done, or, she is just plain ole emotionally immature. Maybe someone went behind your back and made a comment in regards to you. I would not put up with her dis-respecting my parents, and would bring that to her attention, whatever she has against u should not be taken out on your parents. Good luck in your endeavor on this. You don't have to be around her, set some boundaries.
2007-08-24 11:07:03 · answer #2 · answered by yawhaneeh53 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh hun confront that person who is treating you badly. If that friend doesn't talk to you about it then stop being friends with the other person as well. You don't need friends like that. Same with the other friend you ask and knows what's up. That is not a true friend to talk behind your back about why the other friend is upset with you. That is not right. If I were you and I know this is hard to do but I would walk away if it is not resolved. But I would tell that firned exactly how you feel. You will feel better.
2007-08-24 10:56:40 · answer #3 · answered by conny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her when she's around. And when she's obviously being rude to her, pretend she isn't there. But don't be rude back because than the friend you both share might get mad at you and stop being friends.
She's obviously not mature enough to handle the situation between the two of you but if you just stay out of it by ignoring her, you'll show you're mature enough to handle this when she isn't and then maybe you'll friend will see this and tell you what's really going on. Hope this helps.
2007-08-24 11:29:20 · answer #4 · answered by Dusty DayDreams 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is up to you how you react, but remember that it is only a problem if you allow it to be. If you allow this person to govern your action then you are giving her way too much control of your life. Only worry about those things over which you have control. Anything else is a waste of time, brain power, and emotion.
2007-08-24 10:56:49 · answer #5 · answered by Tom H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat her like a wall? *shrug*
Don't be rude, just be as polite as you would be to a total stranger off the street. If she's ignoring you, just let it pass right by you -- what's it matter to you if she blows hot and cold? Just treat her the exact same all the time -- quiet, cool and distantly polite.
2007-08-24 10:53:37 · answer #6 · answered by Jarien 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them. That's what I do, there's no excuse for her to be rude to your parents. That would totally p*ss me off.
When she decides to apologize, be friends again.
Until then, ignore her or be just "polite" and then she be trying to be friends with YOU.
2007-08-24 10:53:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and dont talk to her! If she starts giving you atty..just ask her is there a problem? Don't act different for her benefit.
2007-08-24 10:51:54 · answer #8 · answered by ~ ♥ ~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would avoid her as much as possible. When you do have to be around her, be polite and respectful...don't be rude... but don't go out of your way to be overly nice to her either.
2007-08-24 10:51:36 · answer #9 · answered by Criss_Mousse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence is always good in this situation. Even if your uncomfortable, don't let her see that. And killing her with kindness does sometimes work! Good LUck
2007-08-24 10:53:26 · answer #10 · answered by l.o.v.e. .l.i.f.e. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋