Do all men cheat? I mean, seriously, is it just in all men's nature to cheat or is there actually males in our society that stay faithful. I have yet to come across one...so i was wondering if this is a phenominon (sp) or i'm just picking the duech bags of society.
I would appreciate serious answers here....I'm 28 and have been dating a long time and quite frankly i'm getting tired of the game. I use to love the game...but now i want a relationship with substance. The past 2 bf's i've dated have both cheated...one i chalked up to he was 23..but this one is 29 and "says" he's looking for a non-multiple partner relationship...in short he's looking to settle down. But last night he left his myspace logged on and well i went snooping. Needless to say, i found some interesting messages to a local girl. I suppose when you listen through keys you don't always like what you hear, but we've only been dating for 3 months. I'm mean, come on! cheating alrdy...for petes sake!
2007-08-24 03:31:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No not all guys cheat... MOST men have this "never satisfied" mentality. They can have everything in a woman and still want to know whats out there. I think it's something on a primal level to where we just feel the need to spread our seed but at the same time we are evolved and logical so we DON'T impregnate every woman that gets us happy in the pants but we still have that urge to appease the voice emminating from our loins lol. Some men just want it all.. they want the stability of a steady girlfriend.. a person that is always there but don't want to give up the freedom to flirt and meet new people and keep their options open.
When a man finds a girl that is TRULY worth it then no other woman exists to him. I stay single for the fact that i know i get bored with women easily and i can get distracted if something just as good or better comes along but there has been times where i dated a woman that has been able to completely hold my attention to where I don't even acknowledge the existence of other women.Those women just vibed with me perfectly and knew how to give me enough attention to where i don't seek it elsewhere but also how to back off when the time is right so i can chase when my male ego takes over. It's a balance between knowing when to be forward and when to back up and allow me to come to them. so yes there are men that don't cheat... you just have to know how to keep their attention i guess.
2007-08-24 03:46:44 · answer #1 · answered by Music Junky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys cheat. When a guy finds the right girl for him there is no need to. Once you have found your perfect mate you will feel satisfied and u won't want to cheat or mess the relationship up or damage it in any way. Sure there will be roadblocks for all men but if you love the person you will definitely step past them and be faithful to your partner. Some men just care about sex and those are the douchebags of society. Be cautious and look for a good christian man.
2007-08-24 10:39:44 · answer #2 · answered by sportman16977 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on, all guys. Of course NO. You need to re-define what you need from the guy and then come up with a better filtration or criteria to meet guys and pick them up.
Attracting losers or douchbags is such a lame excuse for not working hard on a relationship before and after finding it.
2007-08-24 10:47:01 · answer #3 · answered by raybario 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never cheat on my girlfriend. I'm as loyal as they come. Not all guys are the same. I'm 20. Maybe you're just attracted to the wrong kinds of guys, or you're meeting them in the wrong places...
*phenomenon...haha
2007-08-24 10:39:08 · answer #4 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i don't think we are all cheaters.
Some Man are cheaters for always... the happens is: once a cheater always a cheater... you kind of start enjoying it... that's my impression! Not my case!
2007-08-24 10:41:27 · answer #5 · answered by Ricardo W. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww.. i'm a girl. but i dont think ALL guys cheat... good luck!
2007-08-24 10:38:29 · answer #6 · answered by samantha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being sexist and get a f*ckin life.
litarally.
2007-08-24 10:38:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋