Family & Relationships - 24 August 2007

im not a strong beilever in love or in trust bcuz ive been hurt so many times literay every relationship a guy has cheated on me and i took a big risk being wit my new boyfriend cuz hes known 4 cheatin but he hasnt yet.....well although we have our problems like every relationship we also have some great times..well i care about him alot i mean i talk bout him alot n hes all i think about everi nite n everi day n it feels like hes consuming my whole world..but deep down inside i dnt want 2 get hurt so i dnt completely express myself..my question is do u think that me n him could ever be in love? n how do u kno wen u love someone? is it wen u have no doubts or wen u completely trust someone if thats the case will i ever find love.
keep in mind weve onli been 2gether 4 5mths n i alreadi feel like this.....thanxs 4 all the help i get even 4rm the ppl who jus read this...

2007-08-24 05:01:06 · 8 answers · asked by Crystal 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-24 05:00:43 · 43 answers · asked by jo 1 in Singles & Dating

modern type means Hollywood type, or you look for personality? thanks

2007-08-24 05:00:08 · 12 answers · asked by steven25t 7 in Singles & Dating

I got married in June of this year and up until the night before my wedding my best friend of 11 yrs said she'd be there. Well she didn't come to my bridal shower and she was supposed to be my maid of honor, took the dress and didn't call or anything so my husband at the time said forget about it, we had enough stress so we had just us in the wedding party so I said nothing to her except that I was hurt when I would ask her to go shopping or help me plan stuff and she ditched me every time. Well, she never showed up to my wedding, and in fact I didn't hear from her for about 2 weeks after then she texts me out of nowhere and asks how my honeymoon was. She didn't even congratulate me or give me an excuse on why she didn't come. Eventually days after that she told me she had some family stuff going on and that's why she wasn't there. I'm still hurt to this day because she'll talk to me every once in a while when she's bored but that's it.........

2007-08-24 04:59:01 · 11 answers · asked by Kimmy 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-24 04:57:35 · 9 answers · asked by ddsd d 1 in Singles & Dating

As a Jehovah's Witness, is getting a tattoo ok? or is it wrong?

2007-08-24 04:56:44 · 4 answers · asked by beautiful_flower 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-24 04:55:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I come from a large family and although we all love each other, we have not done the best job of keeping in close contact over the years - until recently. I usually hear from my brother at least once a year, but no one in our family has heard from him in the past 5 years. I am worried that something has happened. I know his social security number and last address, work and phone numbers but I have had no luck with this information. He was formerly in the Navy but retired about 6 years ago. I don't know what to do at this point. If he doesn't want to talk to the family I can live with that. I just need to know if he's even alive.

2007-08-24 04:52:54 · 4 answers · asked by kking0307906 1 in Family

I went to Tim Horton's Yesterday and ordred a hazelnut Iced Capucino. The guy was so sweet, polite, and patient when he took my order. He was the same when he took my money, gave me my change, and gave me my order. He had the best eyes and the cutest smile. His hands were so cute and they looked soft and gentle. I am interested in going back up there and asking about him, but he's white and I am half Mexican and half black and have never dated a white guy before. I run into a lot of drive thru workers who are polite and cute, but there was something special about this guy. Should I go back or just let it be a pleasant and intriguing contact I'll never forget?

2007-08-24 04:52:27 · 6 answers · asked by UVRay 6 in Singles & Dating

We are playing the game I Never tonight for my bachelorette party... I need some ideas for the cards...

so far i have "I Never..."
kissed a preist
gave a bj
kissed another girl
had sex
kissed a guy
had sex in a parents bed


*object of the game is you have so many items *candy* everytime you have done a I never... You eat one item for it..
the person with the most after the game wins.

anyone have any other I nevers

2007-08-24 04:51:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My ex-husband keeps leaving me voicemails about how I have a disease. I am ambivalent and can not make up my mind about whether to go back to him or not.

He also claims that I am inefficient because I don't get things done.

Today, he left me a message about being an "irresponsible mother." He has custody of our child and now has sent her to live with me in another state.

I don't want to let his comments get to me.

2007-08-24 04:50:50 · 8 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Rita has been married for 12 years, straight out of college. problem is they have not had sex in 7 years and he is verbally abusive and does not want to go for councelling. She wants a divorce and he does not. but she is a christian and they have a child together. she is really unhappy and does not think she can go on with the marriage anymore. Her family wants her to carry her cross gracefully .Did I mention she is only 35.

2007-08-24 04:48:57 · 33 answers · asked by Zimba 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if my bf's birthday is right before Christmas, do i bring two gifts one for his bday and the other for christmas? or how does it go, thanks for the help

2007-08-24 04:46:28 · 9 answers · asked by Mirt 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so here is my scenario...I just got engaged July 24th and we set our date for October 10, 2008. In my opinion, it is too early for me to pick bridesmaids, but I have a general idea of who will be in it. My fiance's brother is in our wedding and he has been dating this girl fror about 2 years. She came up to me yesterday and told me that she is jealous and would not approve if he walked down the aisle with anyone but her...She basically told me she was being in my wedding. I was really calm and told her that I hadn't made any decisions yet, but truly I was really offended. I don't want her to be mad at me, but I don't think she has the right to tell me she is in my wedding. What should I do?

And on top of that, she e-mailed me about 20 minutes later and said :oh yeah and what I was talking to you about I also would like him to sit by me when we eat so I can tell him how handsome he is...


After that I kind of freaked out and told my mom that the hooch wasn't invited @all

2007-08-24 04:45:51 · 73 answers · asked by mally_pie 3 in Weddings

I want to get vengeance on a girl I was in love with. We go with the same group of friends and she was one of my best friends. Now she only tries to hurt me by arousing me one day, and ignoring me 5 or getting affairs with other men and telling it all in front of me (knowing my feelings about her).

I have been two years doing almost all that she wanted. Now I hate her so hard. She still hasn't realized of my change of consideration about her. I have already decided to tell my friends to let her away and not take her with us anymore as the first step but...

...I want to ask you, my freinds, ways of vengeance on this fuc**ng bi**h. I still have some of them but I want to know more to do her at least half the harm she has done to me.

Thanks for supporting justice enforcement.

2007-08-24 04:44:53 · 16 answers · asked by Nemesis 1 in Singles & Dating

When you feel the whole world is against you?

2007-08-24 04:43:45 · 10 answers · asked by Woman 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend just left his wife a couple months ago. He purchased the house before they were married but refinanced it while married but her name is not on either the house or the note. She has not worked in five years and cant afford the note. She has been in jail for DUIs several times and thats why he left her. She cheated on him and made him miserable. Now she wants to stay in the house while he pays the note. Can he kick her out or is this considered community property and she can stay until the divorce? She is able to work but is too lazy!!!!

2007-08-24 04:43:03 · 6 answers · asked by Angie A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

yesterday i found out he had made a myspace without me knowing so i checked it out it was just crzy i cudnt belive it so i kalld n told him n he denyd it n i told him give me your password he did n i went in his pageit was just OUTRAGEOUS was i saw with my owns eyes wat he told other girls if u were in my postion guys n girls wat would of u done?

2007-08-24 04:42:19 · 21 answers · asked by alejandra_0714 2 in Singles & Dating

would you really rather date a blonde? are they really hotter? if so what makes them hotter?

2007-08-24 04:37:43 · 7 answers · asked by Julia Rody 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to revise my question from yesterday. So turns out my boyfriend went to his best friend and said I am looking at rings for me. He also has a girlfriend less than a year though and he never said anything about engagement. My boyfriend a month ago ask me what kind of ring I want, so I was getting all excited.

What do you know his friend gave his girlfriend a ring this week. It really bothers me because me and my boyfriend were talking about he wasn't and we also have been going out 3 years. So what do you guys think??

2007-08-24 04:37:06 · 17 answers · asked by Kelsy 1 in Weddings

She never really asked, she just assumed and started making plans. She is getting married on the beach, with a total of 15 guests. She is on a very tight budget and expects me to spend a fortune, between the dress (roughly $110), hair ($55), nails ($25), shoes ($45) while she can't even ditch out $100 for her dress!!!!
Her wedding is only a few months away and I don't know what to tell her especially since we work together! I don't want to create a stressful work environment between her and I.
What should I do?

2007-08-24 04:32:26 · 19 answers · asked by Doodles 3 in Weddings

what do you think and anyone know where to get an application form???

2007-08-24 04:31:55 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My mom have not met my partner after 5 years and this is hurting my relationship. It bothers me a lot as well as my partner. It bothers me because my partner cannot go to my family events because my mom don't accept us as a couple. This is constantly brought up and causes problems between us. I have tried to talk to my mom but she still does not want to meet my partner. What advice do you give for me and my partner.

2007-08-24 04:31:50 · 5 answers · asked by Taz 2 in Family

2 years ago my wife made me a promise she broke it she dont know that i know what she did it was nothing to hurt our marriage i love her and dont want to fight should i comfront her or just forget it it hurt my feelings alot

2007-08-24 04:27:17 · 22 answers · asked by hiroshima9350 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There seem to be few if any penalties for doing this. While if parent truly loves their child they will suffer, it still sends a very wrong message if nothing is required of them for killing thier child.

What few prosecutions there are seem to be unevenly meted out base on the income of the person parent of child who leaves his/ her child in the Ford pinto is more likely to be prosecuted than the one in the Mercedes.

What's to keep someone from doing this on purpose knowing nothing will happen?
Should they not at least do home confinement and 2 years of public service for this?
I would think they'd want to do something to prevent another parent from making this "mistake".
I also think it would make parents more mindful about not forgeting their kids if you always see that there's some penalty for this.
Wow, like all these people went to jail let me check to make sure my child's not in the back seat.

2007-08-24 04:26:28 · 19 answers · asked by sophiasgr8 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My hubby is 30 yrs old and he lost his father 1 & 1/2 years back.Until Feb this month,I lived with my mom(my parents are divorced & my mother has heart problems),& he wud stay with his mother 2 days a week.We wud pay her visits on weekends.This mar we rented our own apartment.His mom is complaining about it ever since,coz she is now living alone with a 10 yr old adopted daughter,2 servants,& 1 driver.My brother in laws live abroad.I also left my mother with a maid to take care of her.My hubby works from 12 noon & gets home around 10:30pm.He still visits her on weekends.Lately she has been complaining too much,& keeps reminding my hubby of his father's death.I just cant live with her since she says the most disturbing things.I asked her 2 come stay with me,or rent a house nearby,but she will not leave her house,saying it will hurt her prestige to live in a rented apartment.I have 2 stay with her.It is also affecting our sex life-my husband is always worried & smoking.What shud I do?

2007-08-24 04:24:22 · 24 answers · asked by Turki 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy from work offered to go for a drink after work today and i would like to as he is a really nice person to talk to... Although i have no intentions with the guy i feel so guilty for going as my boyfriend is currently abroad visiting his parents. Is it bad to go for a drink with this colleauge even if its just friendly intentions? Personally i wouldnt like my boyfriend to have a drink with a female friend? am i obsessing? should i go or not?

2007-08-24 04:24:13 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am sorry but I have to leave yahoo answers I am having some finacial difficultys and need to get rid of my computer just wanted to say thank you all for being so supportive and reliable.Im going to miss you all ..Bye to my freind in london.Bless you all this is preistess signing off..........................

2007-08-24 04:22:12 · 6 answers · asked by preistess 3 in Friends

Okay!! 8 years ago me and a guy in the military had a crush on each other but never did anything because we were both involved with other people. After we broke up with our other halves we were upfront about our feelings for each other. But we were at two different military bases and couldn't really work out a long distance relationship. Well he and then had a big micommunication abot something and didnt talk for a while. I then married and had a family, but always had this guy in the back of my mind. So I went searching for him and he was doing the same. We found each other and have been talking. He knows I'm married and I know I will never cheat on my husband, BUt lately in my marriage its been pretty rocky and even thought of divorce, and since I found my old fling I've been thingking of divorce even more. Not because I want toget back with him because thats not the case, but because I've realized more that I'm not happy in my marriage, but i dont want to hurt my kids HELP

2007-08-24 04:16:06 · 8 answers · asked by roxy s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and in case if girl get pregnant who will take care of baby. She doesn't have a steady job?

2007-08-24 04:14:32 · 4 answers · asked by steven25t 7 in Other - Family & Relationships