Ways to get vengeance on a girl I was in love with, who has been hurting me.?

Question

I want to get vengeance on a girl I was in love with. We go with the same group of friends and she was one of my best friends. Now she only tries to hurt me by arousing me one day, and ignoring me 5 or getting affairs with other men and telling it all in front of me (knowing my feelings about her).

I have been two years doing almost all that she wanted. Now I hate her so hard. She still hasn't realized of my change of consideration about her. I have already decided to tell my friends to let her away and not take her with us anymore as the first step but...

...I want to ask you, my freinds, ways of vengeance on this fuc**ng bi**h. I still have some of them but I want to know more to do her at least half the harm she has done to me.

Thanks for supporting justice enforcement.

I agree that completely ignoring her would be the best way to avoid further damage, not going to see her anymore and forgeting would be the best.

Unfortunately this isn't possible because she is in my same group of friends and in addition, I don't care what is the best for me, I'm looking for the worst for her. If I get more injures I can assume them, I'm still wrong and have few to lose.

The alternative of ignoring her has been well covered, so please, from now on only submit answers about actively hurting her.

I know she is playing the game of getting me angry and I want to solve it by overcoming her expectations so she can't handle my answer to her damage. I want her to fall in her own trap. The price I would pay for this is up to my life.

althought a bit stupid, I'm not the kind of idiot without blood in his veins that leaves away and tries to live happily after being kicked in the ***.

Answer 1

Sorry, but in my opinion you need professional help. Someone who wants to harm someone as badly as you do, needs to learn some anger management techniques. If you think seeking vengeance towards people who hurt you is justifiable, you are looking at a long, bitter, existence. Find a therapist, preferably one that specializes in behavioral psychology.

Answer 2

Well i'm sure that if i were u i would definitely want the same thing...vengeance...but i'm telling u that it would hurt even more than letting her go...although i agree that u shouldn't be in the same group of friends with her...but believe me doing to her what she did to you makes you exactly like her...u don't want that to happen do you?...i tried to do it too but when i did i hated myself more than the guy i wanted to get vengeance from!I know that u won't change ur mind...but pls have at least second thoughts...i'm telling you if she's that a bi**h she doesn't deserve nor your time nor your attention...just let her go...it's the best you can do!

Answer 3

Get her out of your head already! There is only one way you could truly get back at her and heal yourself as well. That is if you really want to.

First step: Instead of allowing her to occupy your brain, put your brain to better use. Get out a pen and some paper and force yourself to jot down places you like to go, things you like to do. (ie. bowling, football game, popular hangout that group doesn't go to etc.) Think hard on this one.

2nd step: Force yourself to stay away from this group for at least two weeks so you can stay focused.

3rd step: Did I tell you? You are on a mission to seek out females; the decent kind. So put on your best duds and after shave. Work really hard at this one until you make at least one contact .. though two or three would be even better. Be sure to get phone numbers.

4th step: Ask one out on a date. Get rejected? Ask another! Don't give up till you accomplish this task.

At this point your head should be clearing up. What's the point of all this? Ex-girlfriends HATE being replaced! This is the BEST vengeance there is. Now; do you have the balls to get back at her? YOU decide!!!

Answer 4

The best way to hurt someone is to either ignore them or kill them with kindness. Two wrongs do not make a right and it will not necessarily make you feel better to hurt her in any way. Let nature takes its course what goes around comes around and Karma ain't no joke. She will get her just deserts and you will not need to do anything to speed up the process. Just heal your heart, because it could ruin your chances at true happiness with a real woman that cares about you as a person.

Answer 5

If you want to sink to her level, go ahead, seek 'vengeance' as you put it. But wouldn't it be much more dignified to say to her something along the lines of "You know i loved you, and you did all you could to hurt me.. Well, i'm not going to settle for it any longer. I'm not going to scream and shout, or anything like that, because then i'll only be degrading myself, i'm just going to tell you that i won't let you hurt me again. I'm a better person than that." - Sounds much more dignified and mature. It sounds to me as though she is provoking you, so by trying to get back at her, you are just playing into her hands. Hold your head high and forget all about her - she sounds horrid, and you deserve someone far better.

Answer 6

She's a SKANK! stay away from her.Don't touch her or make out with her.She is not worth it.Besides when you think of loving someone ,do you think of yourself in there some where? I mean .Can the other person help you grow as a person,do they bring out the best in you or do you feel inspired to be a better person? And do you do the same for them? Another words what are you and them bringing to the party? If you or them have nothing positive to add ,then WALK away!

Answer 7

Don't do anything for venegance. She's a sl*t with nothing better to do than to piss you off, girls like this thrive off of that. Your best course of action is to ignore her completely. She goes and arouses you one day and all that because she knows she can get a reacation out of you and you'll fall right for it. Don't! Just ignore the dumb b*tch, she'll probably end up being a stripper and pregnant or something like that in the next 2 years anyway. Instead of going to see her when she wants to play games with your head, go to your local clinic and get tested for STD she sounds grimy

Answer 8

This gal thrives on attention, the attention you give to her, good or bad. Every time she arouses you, she gets attention, every time she talks about boffing some guy, she gets attention. You are feeding her need.

You want to get her back? Starve her. Make her unimportant. Ignore her. She gets all touchy feely, remove her. She ignores you, do the same. She talks about her affairs, go 'that's nice' then change the subject. Make her a non-entity, quit getting worked up. She gets gratification when she drives you nuts. Don't give her the satisfaction and it will drive her crazy....

GL

Answer 9

You said "hurt me by arousing me one day, and ignoring me 5 or getting affairs with other men and telling it all in front of me (knowing my feelings about her)". So, you're in a better situation than me because she didn't arouse you one day and went on to lecture you on some other days about "jus be friends ... nothing more" and all those craps.

Come on ... I know it's hard but do get on with your own life.

You can. If not, I would have gone after her with a parang long ago.

We all deserve better.

Answer 10

Irish17 is absolutely on target.

You are poised on the brink of ruining your life for someone who doesn't care about you. That is crazy, and you don't seem to be able to see things clearly. Find a behavioral therapist and tell him what you've said here. Or go to the ER/crisis center at your local hospital.