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im not a strong beilever in love or in trust bcuz ive been hurt so many times literay every relationship a guy has cheated on me and i took a big risk being wit my new boyfriend cuz hes known 4 cheatin but he hasnt yet.....well although we have our problems like every relationship we also have some great times..well i care about him alot i mean i talk bout him alot n hes all i think about everi nite n everi day n it feels like hes consuming my whole world..but deep down inside i dnt want 2 get hurt so i dnt completely express myself..my question is do u think that me n him could ever be in love? n how do u kno wen u love someone? is it wen u have no doubts or wen u completely trust someone if thats the case will i ever find love.
keep in mind weve onli been 2gether 4 5mths n i alreadi feel like this.....thanxs 4 all the help i get even 4rm the ppl who jus read this...

2007-08-24 05:01:06 · 8 answers · asked by Crystal 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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crystal, I have to agree with the posts from frank s, and Thomas. They are giving you some great advice. You definitely are following a pattern here, in who you choose to date. You need to ask yourself WHY you choose these certain types of men? You need to break this cycle, and I do not know if you can do it alone. Have you ever thought about talking to a therapist? It is only my opinion, however, you seem to be drawn to controlling men. You need to work on your self confidence, and self worth. Do not let men take advantage of you. Loving relationships are based on trust, loyalty, and respect. You are not receiving any of these elements from your partners. You need to take care of yourself first as an individual. Why not take some time off from the dating scene, and find a way to build inner strength, and become a stronger person. Don't think that you need a man in your life to be complete, because you do not. Take care of yourself first.

2007-08-31 23:25:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

lady, if you knew this guy is know for cheating. why in the world you want to hook up with him. You're asking for trouble and only to comfirm that guys always cheating on you. What I read here that you some how pick the kind of guys that are know to cheat.
Look at what you got here, you're seeing a guy that you know that he cheat, right. Now you been hurt too many times by guys that cheat on you, right. Do you really think you can trust him when you got two things going against you? Just because you feel good that you have someone is not enough.
what I think you should do it to take a break from relationship to re-group your feeling about yourself and dating. As long you have this negative thought flowing in your mind it will hinder you and any relationship that you're in. Please get work on your(inner)self to be stronger. And remember there are many ups and downs goes on into a relationship. good luck

2007-08-24 05:19:12 · answer #2 · answered by Thomas 6 · 0 0

ever hear the story about the woman who found a rattlesnake half frozen to death in the snow? she brought it home, nursed it back to health and as soon as it was better, it bit her.
as she lie dying she asked the snake why did you kill me? i saved your life?
as the snake slithered out the door it answered" you knew what i was when you brought me home".

you are dating a man known to cheat.

if you dont want to be cheated on, dont date a man who you know will cheat on you.

sometimes we set are selfs up to fail, because we believe we deserve to fail.

sweetheart, there is a guy out there for you, stop dating losers.
the good guys lose interest when they see what you are dating.

2007-08-24 05:16:02 · answer #3 · answered by Jr. is angry 7 · 1 0

u can never kno when u will love sum1 but if u feel so strong about someone than yea. No one can tell u wen your in love but urself......ur heart is the onli thing that can tell u that

2007-08-24 09:16:30 · answer #4 · answered by Chicka 2 · 0 0

that is not very long ot see all his sides he sounds good but you need to keep back and listen and watch that is what counts if hes not doing nothing then you can count on him but you have to not jump into the first thing right away its not good. but he could be real things. goo dluck

2007-08-31 14:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0 0

Right now he is like a new toy, so you're completely obsessed with him. Don't worry. you'll get over it. sooner or later men are going to dance on your last nerve. Don't take it so seriously. You'll get wrinkles!

2007-09-01 04:46:05 · answer #6 · answered by beatlemaniac 4 · 0 0

if u believe in god, then he wants u to meet many wrong people before meeting the right one, so keep trusting, one day u'll meet the right one, and u dont kno if he is right one without knowing him. try to trust him as much as u can, but it doesnt mean that trust in everything he says, but try to do so..

gud luck.

2007-08-24 05:15:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Small wonder that you don't believe in Love or Trust...
It's not always true, but mostly it is:
"A Leopard can't change his Spots."

2007-08-24 05:10:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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