My girlfriend dumped me the other day because I was ugly. What do I need to change about myself?

Question

I think dumping me because I was ugly is a stupid reason in the first place. What is so ugly about me? What can I do to stop being so ugly? http://www.myspace.com/1967allapologies1994 for pics

Answer 1

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Answer 2

Well, the only thing I can say about your picture, is you look miserable, like you were in a bad mood or didn't want your picture taken or you were bored. It's not the best picture. But I personally think that if you're having a good time and laughing or smiling, that's an automatic transformation to a better looking person. Going just on the picture, I wouldn't be interested in someone like you for the simple reason that I don't see any life in your picture. Does this make sense? I'm not trying to make this sound as an insult but rather constructive criticism on your picture choice.

Answer 3

If she went out with you in the first place she must not have thought you were ugly. It sounds to me that she has an UGLY personality to say something like that - so forget about her and move on. There is someone for everyone and people have different tastes. To be beautiful on the outside, you must first have inner beauty!

Answer 4

don't do any thing because every body is beautiful.
Each n every living being on earth is a GOD creature n GOD is very wise how can he made a person ugly?
Think about yourself my friend that what is so beautiful in u your mind, your heart, your thinking anything can be beautiful in u. Start loving yourself n u will find everything becomes so beautiful around u.
And the last thing i wanna say forget about the person who don't respect u n only goes for the OUTER BEAUTY. I have never seen u n your gf is the most uglist person by her heart. girlfriend very bad.

Answer 5

obviously u are better off with out her b/c if she was going for looks then thats just wrong u should only go for whats in the inside i mean i use to go for looks but the i got hurt real bad and so now i don't. she probably told u that b/c she didnt want to be with u anymore b/c she found someone else and thought that if she told u something else that u wouldn't want to break up. but don't worry about it b/c where there is one girl who thinks ur ugly theres another one who thinks ur hot. remember it was her lost and someone else's gain. if all she is going for is looks then she has a rude awaking coming for her. don't sweet it though. u dont need to change she does.

Answer 6

The only thing you needed to change was your g/f. since she is so shallow there was no need to keep her around. Being ugly on the inside like she is gives you enough reason to never be with someone like her again. You are better off without her.

Answer 7

If she really thought you were ugly, she would not have dated you in the first place. Think about what it is you have to offer a woman and focus on that. Someone who is not shallow will see you for who you truly are.

Answer 8

FIRST OF ALL NO ONE IS UGLY. WHY DID SHE GET WITH YOU IN THE FIRST PLACE IF SHE DID NOT LIKE YOU?? SHE'S STUPID!

I SAW YOUR PIC AND PERSONALLY YOU ARE NOT MY TYPE, BUT THAT'S WHY THERE IS TYPES. WHAT I DON'T LIKE, SOMEONE ELSE DOES. DON'T GET ALL DOWN BECAUSE OF THIS, IT JUST WASN'T MEANT TO BE.

I WOULD SAY CUT YOU HAIR. I THINK IT WOULD MAKE A BIG DIFFERENCE. AND LOSE A LITTLE WEIGHT. TRY JOINING THE GYM. GOOD LUCK!!!!!

I'M SURE YOU'LL FIND SOMEONE

Answer 9

Don't change yourself for someone else. There are loads of girls out there that do not think that you are ugly and that would want to go out with you just as you are. Just stay positive and keep looking for the right one.

Answer 10

How did you become her bf in the first place if she thought you were ugly? You don't decide someone is ugly overnight. I don't get it.
Do you mean ugly in looks or ugly in personality? I'm sorry, your ? doesn't make sense.

Answer 11

I agree with the smart girl up there. Why would she date you in the first place if you were ugly?

Move on.