I like my best guy friend..but when i ask him out he always says that he just wants to stay bestfriends...what do i do?
2007-08-24 05:21:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be glad he gave his opinion now - respect him for this. Did you ask him to explain further why he won't just go out with you as friends? Don't be too crushed with his decision - remain his friend if his friendship mean a lot to you. If you are ready for a b/f g/f relationship find someone who is ready to get into one.
2007-08-24 05:29:26 · answer #1 · answered by Izzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You either accept that it's a friends-only thing, or you move on completely and decide you don't want any relationship with him if you can't have it the way you want it.
Some people have a hard time being platonic friends with someone they like in a more romantic way...you've got to decide what you can handle, but accept that it'll be nothing other than platonic friends.
2007-08-24 12:26:09 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love him, you would respect his decision to stay as friends. I would advise you not to ask further questions why you're friend isn't interested to seeking a relationship. If you do, brace yourself for some possible drama or disconnection in the friendship temporarily or permanently .
2007-08-24 12:41:50 · answer #3 · answered by Steven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him jealous .. well m a guy , and some girls in my class always ask me out to diner or some stuff .. i always tell some of them am busy .. i'll try to go n c u there if i could ... then i dont meet them .. next day .. she'll sit with some guys .. so i'll get mad .. so i'll be more okay with her if u knw wut i mean ... tell him that ur other friend invited me to dinner .. lol .. he'll get mad alot .. and then he'll tell u come with me and leave the other
2007-08-24 12:31:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay best friends, don't push it.
You are likely to stay closer to him longer than as a gf.
2007-08-24 12:26:21 · answer #5 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch. You know what I would do is go out with another guy and make him jealous. Because you always want what you can't have right?
2007-08-24 12:25:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
then just be friends. by saying this, you should listen to him. if you really do like him, then show him that you can respect his decisions. he might like someone else
2007-08-24 12:26:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him be. He already knows he just wants you as a friend. You can't change him.
2007-08-24 12:25:08 · answer #8 · answered by supergirl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get over it, the guy is not into you. Find some new guy to crush on.
2007-08-24 12:24:52 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
make him see how pretty and hot you can look don't be a slot but pleases his senses then start dating other men make him jealous it will work
2007-08-24 12:28:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋