my fiance works with a girl that likes him. She has a boyfriend to. He says he only likes her as a friend. When he calls her it is not around me and he will call 2 to 4 times until she picks up. Then he will call her boyfriend? What does this sound like.
2007-08-24 05:42:07 · 8 answers · asked by surfawave 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At first I was going to say that unless you know he needs to call her on business, that he is flirting with danger. Then you threw in the part about the boyfriend. Do they all work together? Is the other woman having problems and he is trying to help? Have they all known each other a long time so that he would be calling the guy?
In a way, it seems kind of small and I would not worry about it much, but you might want to get more information. The calls the girl seem odd unless he has a business reason.
2007-08-24 05:52:18 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to start with what is he calling her for after work anyways?!? And the fact that he cant call her around you that should send up a red flag i mean if ya'll are getting married then in a marriage there are no secrets and look at that he is already keeping things from you b/c he obviously doesnt want you to hear what he is talking about with that women "friend" of his
2007-08-24 12:52:46 · answer #2 · answered by twig 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should talk about it with him..
If this was me the first question would be... "Sweetie why do you call her?" If he studders or don't look you in the eye you know he's lying. I'm so sorry if it turns out bad but there's always the chance that it won't.
Anyways I wish you the best.
2007-08-24 12:58:43 · answer #3 · answered by Dr.DRE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you ask your fiance what he's doing? It sounds to me like he's playing the go-between and they're having a fight. But you need to talk to him about it. If he responds suspiciously, it's time to question your relationship.
2007-08-24 13:05:43 · answer #4 · answered by xK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow..What a mess. She has a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend. I feel sorry for you and her boyfriend. I think you should dump him, because it obviously raises the flag that he might be very fond of her. Either confront him and talk about it or leave him.
2007-08-24 12:51:20 · answer #5 · answered by Crystal♥of♥Iris 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds strange....Why is he calling her anyway.
Sounds like you need to break up with him.
2007-08-24 12:48:21 · answer #6 · answered by Date Dr. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know surfawave....sounds like a code or somethin..better keep your eye on it.....
also If I run across them ...I'll keep my eye on them....
I'm on it....
2007-08-24 12:59:17 · answer #7 · answered by roy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's the counselor...:P
2007-08-24 12:48:18 · answer #8 · answered by ViciousVixen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋