Or is she really "flattered" that you like her?
2007-08-24 08:50:42 · 26 answers · asked by Darp_L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of she is letting you down nice. We don't wish to hurt your ego.
2007-08-24 08:55:12 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No she isn't really flattered. It's a nice way of letting you down - I had exactly the same happen when i asked out a girl. Amelia said "Daniel, I'm flattered - truly. But I don't feel the same way". She wasn't actually flattered, she was just trying to be kind when she rejected me.
2007-09-01 06:34:09 · answer #2 · answered by Filmore 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually the first.
Sometimes she really will be flattered and actually go out with you.
Like other answerers have said..it depends on what the woman says AFTER the I'm flattered....
2007-08-24 15:57:20 · answer #3 · answered by zanthus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All women are different. Some of us are actually flattered and some of us aren't rude and we put you guys down nice. Either way, it's much nicer than laughing at you. Good luck, I hope this helps.
nicole
2007-08-24 15:55:22 · answer #4 · answered by nicole 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well in movies the girl says "awww...i'm flattered *name*, but...." guy: "but..." girl" but i don't think it's gonna work out"
but..heh, this is real life. i'd say look out for signs that she gives in case she is trying to let you down easy, but otherwise she probably really is flattered and keep flattering her.
2007-08-24 15:55:44 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did she say " I would be flattered"?-- That means yes
If she said "I'm flattered that you asked me, but I have a previous engagement."-- That means no
2007-08-24 15:58:42 · answer #6 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if she accepts or declines your offer. "Flattered" could go with either of those...
Example:
"I'm flattered that you'd ask. Yes, I'd like that"
"I'm flattered that you are interested, but I'd rather not. Thank you"
2007-08-24 15:54:41 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
usually when a girl says she's flattered it's a good thing. however, saying it when you ask her out is not. usually she is just trying to let you down easy because the feelings aren't mutual. sorry. good luck though.
2007-08-24 15:56:05 · answer #8 · answered by nothing's certain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...did she say "Im flattered, but" or "Im flattered, of course"...big difference. If she says "but" and then gives an excuse, she's trying to let you off w your dignity intact...
2007-08-24 15:54:43 · answer #9 · answered by Marie Catherine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends what she said after that...
if she said "Im flattered but i cant " Shes letting you down nice
if she said "im flattered sure i would...."
So yeah it depends how she said it
Some more info would help?
2007-08-24 15:54:40 · answer #10 · answered by Daniela17 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
did she say yes I am flattered and I will go out with you, or I am flattered but no thanks? I think you can figure it out from there!
2007-08-24 15:56:34 · answer #11 · answered by maur911 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋