I broke up with the guy that i have been with for 4 1/2 years because of his inability to be more grown up and responsible... well, of course we love eachother and he doesn't want to let it go.. said he would change and do whatever it took... ( which is a repeat answer over the years ). well today i met a guy that caught my attention.. i have already agreed to have dinner with the X tonight to talk things over.. should i pursue the new guy or wait???
2007-08-24 08:56:50 · 3 answers · asked by Jeanette 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh yea.. me and the x have been apart for a month now...
2007-08-24 08:57:49 · update #1
oh guess i should make myself alittle clearer... i don't have any faith that my relationship with the x is going to work.. i am just having a hard time letting go and so is he... my question is should i wait till we are both completely done and not want to be together before i persue someone else??
2007-08-24 09:05:43 · update #2
i want to let go but it is just hard to say the final goodbyes...
2007-08-24 09:06:44 · update #3
people may change for a little while....but in the end they will always revert back to who they really are.....sounds like that problem you have with him is an old problem.....well you've seen him not change, why push the problem down the road any longer
2007-08-24 09:06:03 · answer #1 · answered by dick_ache 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i always say if it hasn't worked the first time what makes you think its going to work again? And if you still have feeling for your ex and you are going to meet someone else its really not fair cause your mind is on another person and men ain't silly they know when you are being offish with them or your mind is there. What you need to do is to get over your ex and than start date cause if you are in too mines off meet someone else that just proud that you ain't ready. I hope this will help you
2007-08-25 03:50:57 · answer #2 · answered by amanda p 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's the same old answer----- Think hard-- are you better off with your ex or without him?
2007-08-24 16:03:27 · answer #3 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋