Family & Relationships - 17 August 2007

"significant other" at home and get pissy if she's gone for 4 hours doing 5 trash bags FULL of laundry? How the F*CK is that fair?

2007-08-17 14:12:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My stepmother says that my mom is supposed to only use the money for me and what I want. My Mom says that it goes to help cover my day to day expenses along with clothes and school supplies and stuff. But my stepmon thinks since my mom smokes ciggarets that shes using all the mony for them even though I have what I need. this came up because everytime i go to the store with my stepmom if i say i like that shirt or that purse is cute my stepmom says THATS WHAT CHILD SUPPORT IS FOR!

2007-08-17 14:10:46 · 24 answers · asked by amburglur 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been married 1 1/2 years. I want a baby and he doesn't. So HE decided we have to use condoms. (Insulting, yes, but not the point.) The other day he comes home from work and unexpectedly drops three loose condoms on the table. He told me 'he had a guy at work buy them for him' and then my husband threw out the box. I don't know why he couldn't bring the condoms home in the originaI box or why he made another man buy them for him. He is 26 years old and can buy them himself. I don't believe him. Would you? I have been feeling like he can't be trusted for quiet a while before this happened and I don't know if I'm overreacting. Thank you!

2007-08-17 14:06:27 · 22 answers · asked by Jeanne 2 in Marriage & Divorce

The scoop is that she has a boyfriend yet she is not married. I wouldn't talk to a married woman cause they have a holy union. I feel she is fair game. I don't have her number and I have no way of getting in touch with her. She stays like 10 miles away and it would be rude to show up uninvited cause I already tried that and i didn't get a chance to see her. It was night time and I happened upon it accidentally. I want her so so so so so bad I have been utterly alone for going on two years and I'm not used to being socially inept. I might not have all the fancy things... and mabey I do yet I may be stalemated economically though it is a sinch to get back in the flow. I am resorceful and I know how to come up. I want to make sure she isn't being taken advantage of or abused. True love is what I have to offer her.

2007-08-17 14:03:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What makes a girl good in bed?

2007-08-17 14:02:44 · 14 answers · asked by acaia20 2 in Singles & Dating

Im 18 i have my own car, i can look after myself i know... I dont really want to go with them for a trip for 2 hours with the grandparents overnight.. but its not like ill do anything else here either.. i have no plans this weekend.. so im going to go.. so boring but if i had something on.. i wouldnt go.. its just if i stay all ill be doing is sitting on the computer on my own and going to the beach on my own to surf.

2007-08-17 14:02:27 · 9 answers · asked by No use for a name! 2 in Family

I am just curious! There is a difference between CHEATING and for the other spouse to give PERMISSION to have sex with another, if he or she gets somewhat bored with just having sex with the same partner..over and over again, or maybe because of a serious illness, that the other spouse may have, which may affect his or hers sexual performance....besides SEX and LOVE are having to be two different things....in a true relationship..

2007-08-17 13:57:48 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Please?

2007-08-17 13:57:03 · 1 answers · asked by zyfoxmaster 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-17 13:53:59 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm afraid I'm too old to get back out there. But I just want to have fun again. And male companionship is totally welcome. But I don't know what to do, where to go, or how to dress. I'm lost and every nice, fun guy I meet is already married. What do I do??

2007-08-17 13:50:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I wanna know if there are more quailities in a girl that a guy looks for besides appearance.*sigh

2007-08-17 13:46:04 · 60 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Even the thought of sex makes me nervous. I just can't let go of the anxiety.

2007-08-17 13:43:21 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex & I broke up a week ago & it went as well as any break up could. It's been painful at times, however we've both been moving on with our lives & eventually we want to be friends. Prior to our breakup I had been planning his birthday which included putting down a sizable deposit for a romantic resort weekend, after we broke up I tried to get my money back, but the resort refused, saying that it is non-refundable & non-transferable. I emailed my ex explaining the situation & included the links to the resorts website so he could look for himself. I asked him what he wanted to do, he emailed me back saying he really wanted to go with me, that we would have a great time & that he was really excited about it. I'm not reading too much into this, it’s a cool trip, anyone would be excited to go, also, we don't hate each other, but how does one conduct onesself? A 3 hour car trip, private romantic wine-filled dinners? Couples massages? I want us to have fun without anyone getting hurt.

2007-08-17 13:42:18 · 6 answers · asked by unicorn 1 in Marriage & Divorce

???? - Broke up with a guy I've been seeing and instead of him being mature he sends me stupid emails that just say "hahaha"......outta nowhere....

why can't guys just apologize and say what they mean and how they feel? Why do they have to say stupid things?????!!!!

2007-08-17 13:40:07 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Normally when i meet a guy i like im usuallt crazy about him and i cant think of nothing else. but when i met my boyfriend i didnt have infatuation for him. and i dont know why because he is good looking. why is that?

2007-08-17 13:34:11 · 12 answers · asked by focus_e_us360 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and this guy have been talking on the phone and computer since April and we've become quite fond of each other. We haven't met each other although we live only 15 minutes apart. It seems like all i do is think of him ---even when i lay down and try to sleep ..it's so intense i can't sleep sometimes. I want to meet him , but i'm so self concious about my weight, looks. He says it doesn't matter but it matters to me! He is a good guy , we made a date and i stood him up ..not intentionally , only because the person i was supposed to go with cancelled at the last minute. Even after all that he still talks to me and wants to meet me. What should i do? Serious answers please ! Thanks in advance. Just to let you all know i'm a 31 year old woman, just in case you think i'm a teenager LOL ! Again thanks for your answers.

2007-08-17 13:23:56 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I bought an Xbox 360 yesterday and my family thinks it's okay for everyone to play it. The problem is - I take good care of my video game consoles but I really don't trust anyone else in my family using my Xbox 360. How do I tell them I don't want them playing it?

2007-08-17 13:22:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-17 13:21:45 · 6 answers · asked by Sylvia M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what does it mean when a guy doesnt want sex after you have been with this guy for 2yrs or better

2007-08-17 13:20:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-08-17 13:18:51 · 16 answers · asked by an4 1 in Singles & Dating

Indian Guys, tell me. What makes you crazy about a girl?

2007-08-17 13:18:50 · 15 answers · asked by Chris 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend's mom just took her drunk husband to his AA meeting. If you are drunk and go to an AA meeting, what are the consequences?

2007-08-17 13:14:48 · 10 answers · asked by Hand In Cup 1 in Family

ok what do you think a men would prefer to take home to mom and also to marry a girl that dresses like a hooker and acts like one or a decent girl that know the fashion rules to look sexy but also covers up and docent act like a tramp? Im just asking because my friend says that to get a men is to dress way to sexy and over expose your body, and im the one that dresses sexy but elegant at the same time and never over expose my body. ps she sas she wont cover up to go meet the perents

2007-08-17 13:14:09 · 21 answers · asked by me 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I had a crush on this guy for two years. When he finally found out that I liked him he told me "Lose a hundred pounds then come talk to me". It took me a while after that but I have finally gotten over him and stopped crushing on him. I haven't seen him since that day.

I work as a bus monitor and I found out the other day that he was hired to work at the company I work at too. He didnt know I worked there and when I saw him walk in we both stared at each other in shock for a few minutes. We couldnt believe we'd be working together.

The two hour ride to go get the kids 'we' monitor, we didnt speak on word we just kept looking at each other awkwardly. Just being so close to him every day and seeing him everyday is making my old feelings for him to come back and I dont want that to happen. What should I do?

2007-08-17 13:11:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't consider that cheating.

2007-08-17 13:10:57 · 44 answers · asked by montipez 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend told me that theres nothing that he doesnt like about me?

2007-08-17 13:10:39 · 13 answers · asked by focus_e_us360 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-08-17 13:08:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-08-17 13:08:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok my boyfriend just broke up with me about a month ago and while we where together he was good friend with a girl named tori...Then he broke up with me and went out with her. I thought he left me for her because he would take her to lunch and always give her rides places... And today he sent me a message saying this...

i dint leave you for tori
tori and i have only been going out a week now
i didnt see her for about 3 weeks after we broke up
but last week we just bumped
into each other at the mall
and things clicked
tori says its ok if you hate her
if she were in your shoes she would feel the same

What should i say back to him? I loved him more than anyone ive ever known and my heart is broken...I do hate that girl

2007-08-17 13:07:38 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-08-17 13:04:18 · 7 answers · asked by Heather C 1 in Family